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4 days ago
in How I Got To The BET Awards (Personal Entry) on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
did you and your cousin patch things up...i hope so life is too short....and he is probaly PROUND HIMSELF
1 month ago
in Being Too Wet Is A Problem on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I just refuse to by into this BS...been humping for years and though it has been given as an excuse as to why they couldnt last longer I have never ever never ever had one complaint about being to WET...its funny cause my hubby just called and said how juicy it was last night and thats all he been thinking about today so I guess i'll put this one with the thick girls cant take D...its all about who's geting it whos giving it and what they want!!!
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2 months ago
in Cinderella: The One I Really Wanted Pt. 2 on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
k...i been checking like did I miss a story or something...you gonna have to come down to DC so I can can you a few more chapters!!!
3 months ago
in The Complex Mind Of A Heartbroken Man on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
To avoid all of this men could JUST ACT RIGHT....just a thought!!
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3 months ago
in I Got Co-Signed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
XILLA you got co-signed by a leprechaun you should have put this up on St. Patricks day....all you and Lucky charms can speak on is women you been with....you've never ran into a skinny chick that can't take it??!! Being able to take it to me has less to do about your size and more to do with your level of sexual intelligence..
3 months ago
in He Just Wanna Smash, And That’s Ok on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
ooola la I agree but if she cant handle the truth she sure cant handle him takin the goodies and running so he would be better to be upfront or risk having a crazy chick on his hands
XILLA I MISSED U!!!
XILLA I MISSED U!!!
4 months ago
in BlogXilla Presents: “It’s Going Down” A Short Story on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Great Start Xilla get to work on your novel Boy!!
4 months ago
in What Men Love & Hate About Vagina on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
lol at the whole post but you are definately on point with it....yes ladies keep it bare all year round sweaty balls smell should only come from balls not punaine...I've NEVER been accused of the dryness factor...in fact i used to get the ooh you to wet excuse until my husband built up his tolerance...but I ask the guys out there more foreplay doesn't help the situation....God bless kiegel exercises i pushed out twins and have a gina like a 18 year old!!! (even though the way youngins go now days that might not be an accurate description)
4 months ago
in How To Take Sexy Pics For Your Man on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
even if that not humungous you can do a push togeather and make them look more scrupmous
4 months ago
in How To Take Sexy Pics For Your Man on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I was going to say make sure if the get a new phone or trade it in the erase them..before going to have the memory swichted over my husband recently did this and i called him literally as he was walking throught the door like "NNNNOOOOOONNNOOOOOO"
4 months ago
in Are You A Side Chick on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
do i have to be scorned in order to know right from wrong....NO....but why brag about the sh** to me it just shows how low our society is when you can brag on being the other women....have i done it yeah years ago when i was younger and I did not know that I was the other women because I demand the best and ensure it is givien to me...but say what you will on a post....I have seen many a miserable side chick jump off what ever you want to call it so im not buying the oh i have less to deal with its easier to play the villian bull...period...point and blank...me I have been married for 10 years has he cheated...he would never be fool enough to give me an ikling ( i like that post the other day to Xilla) but this has nothing to do with my PERSONAL situation it has to do with what I feel is right and what I feel is wrong
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Isis
Who's bragging ???.
I to have seen many miserable side chicks but I know from experience they cause their own grief they began to love with the wrong parts and demand more of the man then he ever agreed to give. You don't have to buy it because it is what it is.
I demand the utmost respect from any man i deal with and simply deciding to be on the side doesn't make me any less of a woman then the next (because it was my decision it wasn't chosen for me).
Congrats on the ten years of marriage
But since you feel he would never be fool enough to give u an inkling would u wan to know ???
I to have seen many miserable side chicks but I know from experience they cause their own grief they began to love with the wrong parts and demand more of the man then he ever agreed to give. You don't have to buy it because it is what it is.
I demand the utmost respect from any man i deal with and simply deciding to be on the side doesn't make me any less of a woman then the next (because it was my decision it wasn't chosen for me).
Congrats on the ten years of marriage
But since you feel he would never be fool enough to give u an inkling would u wan to know ???
4 months ago
in Are You A Side Chick on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Buzzy I dont know how you are so proud to be a homewrecker....I mean okay you have a man who is a liar and a cheat we get it...you are so low down that you would go where his wife and kids reside...check we get it...REMEMBER KARMAS A BITCH and it will bite that azz!!! and I am a very Happy individual I dont feel the need to say it (or Type it) every post...maybe someones masking something
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Buzzy
Huh? I say it every post? I didn't realize that.....maybe after living in a rough marriage for so long, I just want to scream it from the mountain top :) I don't believe I'm a homewrecker, I'm not trying to break up his home.....I really hope he stays.....i'd never trust him, and he'd never trust me....I know that wouldn't work. And I don't really beileve in monogomy so as far as Karma, well...........
4 months ago
in Quickie: A Sloppy BJ Q&A on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
no dont do a loogie but use your chechks to work up as much spit as you can and spit on that ish trust he dont give a Fu(k what it look like cause if u doing it right his eyes is in the back of his head....ice also helps keep your mouth wet while your learning....I have a story but its a little TMI so i wont go there but it took away my gag factor
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babydoll
how DID u get rid of you gag reflex? lol
5 months ago
in 5 Reasons She’ll Let Your Man Smash on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
See Xilla I knew you where better than that but you should include thought provoking sentiments in the original blog...trust me all woman have a freak in them but they feel like if I do this he will think im dirty so she wants to do it but is scared of your response and you want her to do it but your scared to ask for it COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!! Plus if Obama dont teach us nothing else he is showing how to LOVE A BLACK WOMAN
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BlogXilla
oh believe I know... but you can't come out and be like I think fucking on the first night is not whorish even if the chick is thinking the same thing...
I mean I'm just build different or Naive one or the other.
I mean I'm just build different or Naive one or the other.
5 months ago
in 5 Reasons She’ll Let Your Man Smash on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
So being as you was in crap for 12 years you know everything he telling you about her is BS right...you say your not out to hurt anyone but if ole girl finds out she will be ready to hurt everyone... I havent been single in a long time but it aint no good single i dont want no attachment D** out there??
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BlogXilla
you broke up with your dude? Wow! I didnt' know that. Not like we talk or anything outside of the blog! But I do rememeber you typin bout your man.
Buzzy
Yep I sure do, and when I call him on it he usually ownes up to his responsibilities in his mess. And having been in it for so long I also know that she's miserable. I feel for her, I know that if she finds out she'd be hurt, and that's why I make sure I stay very quietly in the wings. This man has been in my life as long as he's been in her's, I was married, he wasn't, then we both were, then i divorced, he's still married. So when it first happened he was unattached D, but sometimes you get comfortable, the sex is the bomb, the friendship is incredible, and it's hard to walk away. Plus their's this other thing that keeps us connected (no need in getting into that). I adore this man, and he adores me. I have no doubt that he adores her too, as he should, that's why I try to give good advice, cause I don't want him leaving her thinking he's coming to be with me....HAIL TO THE NAW!!!
5 months ago
in 5 Reasons She’ll Let Your Man Smash on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I think these comments are tainted...picture this prior to being married i had been a "side chick" though i would never use that term to describe it but anyhoo...do you think when i took my vows I stopped having wild earth shattering sex ha...NO plus cheating has nothing to do with what a female may or may not be doing its about a man who for what ever reason is too immuture or insecure to put his true feelings out there (i.e. i love you but...the sex needs to be spiced up, i love you but I wish you would moan when I bang it out) As far as said side pieces she too has her own insecurities I've been reading comments on this site long enough to know that we all been burned (heart not privates yall keep that to yourself) before and being the side piece you feel like you dont get the emotiional attachment when the fact is when you lay with someone be it one night or for one year the emotions are there period point blank sex is the act of becoming one.
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BlogXilla
See but for some odd reasons, SOME CHICKS think that once they become wifey they aint got to suck dick or do "wild" stuff because they wanna feel respected... and some dudes don't want their chicks to suck them off in the parking lot of Che Negro!! I like i said up above it's all about being honest and actually settling with someone who is compatible with you
6 months ago
in Aaliyah - Come Over on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Loves this song I remember my husband and I had seperated.... so one night I hop in the car like "I'm going to get my man" as I'm driving around "can I come over" comes which made me want to find him even more....looked and looked and could not find him but when I got back home he was there.....we made love all night and haven't seperated since......DAMN I MISS ALLIYAH!!!!
6 months ago
in Tricking 101 - The Do’s And Don’t Of Tricking on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
If a guy is spending or anything too excessively I would be cautious of what he lacks in other areas, why do you feel you have to buy my love (if his desires aren't purely sexual) do you feel your personality, convo, sex game is lacking and you make up for it this way....If it all about the sex I would be concerned as to how many "tricks" there have been before me...I mean either way you look at it tricking is trick....
And lets clarify if you are buying a gift for someone you love or hope to love oe dy that's not tricking....tricking is Money and or gifts in exchange for some azz period point blank....Gifting your girl is gifting your girl.....when TI is buying Tiny all those purses thats gifting his girl.....when the jump off on the Tour bus gets on that tricking!!
And lets clarify if you are buying a gift for someone you love or hope to love oe dy that's not tricking....tricking is Money and or gifts in exchange for some azz period point blank....Gifting your girl is gifting your girl.....when TI is buying Tiny all those purses thats gifting his girl.....when the jump off on the Tour bus gets on that tricking!!
6 months ago
in 5 Sex Resolutions For The New Year on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Hey ness check out my story for the time Xilla asked about outside love...it also had a family function vibe to it....it's fun...but I think any sex with the possibility of being caught is GREAT!!
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Ness
yeah...anytime where u can get caught is the BEST....
I was tellin my friend & he was like "yeah, sneak off to the coat room upstairs & do it by the door if sum1 comes to get their jacket, he cud stop the door w/ his foot & play it off...lol.
He had me cracking up....lol..b/c I cud see him now....lol
I was tellin my friend & he was like "yeah, sneak off to the coat room upstairs & do it by the door if sum1 comes to get their jacket, he cud stop the door w/ his foot & play it off...lol.
He had me cracking up....lol..b/c I cud see him now....lol
6 months ago
in 5 Sex Resolutions For The New Year on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Sugar tits are you a fellow Tarus...that would explain alot...lol
6 months ago
in A Heart In Prison: When To Use The L-Word on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I remember telling an older lady I worked with that I was getting married and her exact words were "Good cause he loves you more than you love him ( I was floored becuase I really believed our love was equal and had no clue WTF she was talking about) and thats how it should be".... But now looking back she was right....I think because woman in general are emotional creators it works for a man to get (or at least admit to ) those feelings first....Most of the time (and I said MOST) a woman is not going to run from a man that truly loves (not only says it but shows it) her were as like Xilla said it could be the end all be all if a woman says it to a man who not ready...so yes as a Mamma with 2 girls I'm teaching them Make sure he loves you more ( dont ask me how you know but you know!!!)
6 months ago
in When Room Mates Go To Far on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
the vid was funny azz hell....I'm dead at the lollipop and the rubbing of the "head" and no Dap.....but on the real keep it gutta hey you know what is was and now it's over...for now if you play your cards right I'll get back at you!!
6 months ago
in Cinderella: A Cold Love on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
That ish right there...yeah I needed that...**calling husband making tonight a movie night**
6 months ago
in What Good Men Look For In A Woman on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Oh and as far as keeping yourself up just yesterday my husband was fussing at me cause when we went shopping he wanted to park in between two stores so we could walk back and forth I'm like fool do you see my heels and he was like well why hte hell did you wear them as he saying this we are pulling into a parking spot and this chick has on a dirty tee, some rolled over shoes and a head scarf and instanly he's like nevermind...lol
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Ness
lol..hahahahaha tht's cute lol.

To most women that means "let me have my way." and if you do let her have her way and it doesn't work out, "you should have been a man and not let me do it." So how does a grown man stop a grown woman from doing anything?