DISQUS

Don't get me to start crying this morning. 2 late, tears are already falling. I am sending you a virtual e-hug. Call me if you need me.

I swear we gon' see this whole special before Tuesday, but will still tune in to see it again. Some of us ain't that lucky to be able to go without a bra in public without being arrested by either the police or our mama.

I feel you. I find that most people see me as a good listener but when I need to "unload" I find myself unloading on myself, unless it is too much for me to deal with. There are not that many people you can trust to unload all your ish onto. It is a rare friend who can listen you your problems and not judge you for them. I try to be that person to almost everyone but it is hard to find those who can be that person to you. Cherish the ones in your life who can do that, for they are priceless.

Did I just get a shout out on a blog? Girl, I am grinning like a Cheshire Cat over here, bout to hit Print Screen and hang it on my fridge. lol

I don't understand why we (Kim and NeNe) are talking about cancer when no one had it? Just because you thought you had it? Just say you were sick and keep it movin, but don't dwell on your thoughts of cancer! I just don't get it.

In Kim's blog on Bravotv.com, she was responding to comments about her raggedy ass wig and stated that she went through a moment when she was really sick and her hair was falling out. She went to the doctor and he said that he thought she had cancer, but later it was confirmed that she didn't. So she is taking it and running with it. I tell ya, dreadful.

that was a "dreadful" mess last night. It was not a good look for Kim who seemed to be in complete denial about her potential, or lack thereof, in the music industry even when Dallas pointed it out to her. He told her basically she is starting kind of late in the game, that she should have started this before she had kids like most artists do. She then interrupted, stating that her kids aren't going to get in her way of being a star. Kim, how you gonna go on tour when you have an 11 yo and a 7 yo at home? I am too through with Kim, she seems to want to be in a lifestyle and a culture that she is not really able to handle. How you gonna be bored and just buy some evening gowns? I can't...I just can't.

ETA: Tyra knows she gets on my nerves. It is not all about you Ty Ty. I hope she didn't relate this topic to her times in Paris when she was a teen and what her mama told her like she does every other subject.

Before parents can be comfortable talking about sex with their kids, they (we) must be comfortable talking about it with each other. It seems as though once teenagers grow up and become parents of teenagers, most of them forget how it was to be a teen. The times really haven't changed, society is caught in an ignorance cycle that very few of us want to break. If you ask some of the parents in your high school graduation class, you would be shocked, a la Tyra, at their head in the sand approach to sex with their children and we know how fass some of them were. The truth is that most parents don't think about sex until their child brings it up (usually because of a pregnancy or STD alert) and by then they have already been doing it.

You know Lisa is the one stirring up the ish between Kim and NeNe, right?