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3 months ago

in Xilla Mail: Do Str8 Men Like Anus Play? on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Wow...I agree w/Xilla and the others, you need to run or at the very least be cautious with this one. Fingering your ass in your sleep in questionable. Having your woman finger just shows your curious but letting her put a dildo in you ass is mad suspect and like xilla said soon he'll be wondering what the real thing feels like. The boundaries are fuzzy. With our culture being the way it is right now, everyone is mad suspect on gay tendencies because of the ever present DL brothers. Everything was mad suspect to me but the dildo in the ass just crossed the line. As previously mentioned, most dudes would be very hostile or at the very least hesitant at someone going anywhere near their asshole so it makes me wonder this was not his first time. You've been warned.

3 months ago

in Chrisette Michele - Epiphany on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I like this song. Can't wait for the rest of the album!

3 months ago

in Questions Men Should Never EVER Ask on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Great post! I co-sign on the "is that your real hair?" Get that a lot. Plus my last boyfriend, in the beginning stages used to turn off my cell phone when he would come over. It's not till people call my house phone asking why my cell phone was off would I then go and check and it was off. This insecure muthafucker would turn it off everytime. Hated that. No who was that, what did they want...just straight turned it off.

4 months ago

in I Too Blues For Nina on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Wow that's a nice poem. Love poems are definetly appreciated by me. I'd rather a love poem that came from the heart than something you bought like flowers, candy, clothes, shoes because that's too easy, tell me how you really feel cuz anyone can go to the store and bought me what you did. What about letters? I like those too.

4 months ago

in Adding Flavor To Vanilla Sex on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I feel you on the more you're together the harder you have to try but DEFINETLY NO on the sex tape. There are too many ways that it can end up bad and when that does happen, the question everyone asks is why did .... do it? And honestly the surest way that it does not get exposed is if you don't make one period. I'm also not down for 3way but won't ever say never cuz u know. Besides that im down for trying anything... at least 1x.
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TheLovelyMsRedz What about if it's YOUR camera so that you can have total custody of the memory card and who can see it?

Or, if you're worried about your children or cleaning lady finding your memory card, you can always just tape it on YOUR camera, watch it with your lover afterward, then delete it. That way you're in control of the video.

The benefits by FAR outweigh the risks.

6 months ago

in It’s Frankie Baby on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I started out laughing at this mess but then it just got ridiculous and it was just sad. She started that whole mess with her show and now everyone knows who her moms is and just laughs at her. I hope this doesn't Keyshia back much. Her family is coming up on all sorts of videos acting fools. She needs to have people watching them.

8 months ago

in Jennifer Hudson’s Mother Shot and Killed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
It's her brother too and now there's an amber alert out for her nephew too.

8 months ago

in On The Set:Ludacris + T-Pain - One More Drink Video on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Wow i love Luda and i am really feelin this song. It goes well with your "How to talk to drunk people" post. Can't wait to see the video.

8 months ago

in Quickie With Sanaa Lathan - Food & Insecurties on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I love her as an actress, we don't see her enough. I just saw The Family that Preys and she was so good in it, even though i wanted to slap her too! And i want to read the rest of the interview b/c she speaks the truth.

8 months ago

in Just Steph Presents How To Take It Up The Butt on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I don't know about all that...I too associate that act with homosexuality. And i hate hearing the" Be down for whatever your man wants b/c what you won't do another girl will." Thats B.S. b/c whats to say he won't go her regardless if i do it or not. Some things i am just not down for. Can't say i will never try it but 1 thing i know for sure i ain't neva gonna try is a 3some. That would just lead to many types of problems and do i wana look back one day and say to myself, "Damn i brought that upon myself" when my man is all caught with the other girl. Xilla u shoud really have a post on that cuz these brothers are really feeling this 3some bullshit.
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VIChick Like everyone keeps saying to each is own. Never had anal and never been in a 3some. But it all goes down to what you are comfortable with. I know a 3some isn't a good option for me because I am stingy and don't like to share ESPECIALLY MY MAN. i Don't think I can watch my man fucking someone else. So 3some action probably won't happen because that would be an uncomfortable feeling for me. Of course men would ask if u are willing to do it, because THEIR MEN. They into all kinds of shit. They try to see how far they can go.
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Ness @ Stephanie,

If a man is wanting a FFM 3some and ur not down then ask him if he can give u a MMF 3some and see how he reacts to it. And make sure u get graphic with the details (i.e. him watching u give another man pleasure by sucking his d*ck, or taking back shots from another man while u moan louder than u ever moaned with him). All of this is just to prove they can't handle it so why ask u as his woman to deal with it.
Men can dish it out, but can't take their own sh*t sometimes. A lot of things isn't for everyone, and everyone has their limits on what they will do sexually.

9 months ago

in Tat Tat Tatted Up on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
A male friend of mine got 2 huge tats of stars on top of his shoulders, one on each....he said it something's sexual. Like what?

9 months ago

in Tonight On The Bleach Johnson Show on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Wow, you need to leave him now. Yes you are 28 and have 2 kids but that's exactly it you are 28 and now 38 or older. Do you still want to be saying this then? You should not feel guilty and base on what you said u are staying for all the wrong reasons. And don't listen to his mama, does she know all the shit he done to be telling u that + even if she did, she's he's momma what else would she say? Leave girl please.

10 months ago

in Don’t You Know You’re A H*e? on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
This was a really good post, thorough but straight to the point and all TRUE. I hesitated at the church comment for a little but though LOL but still true. Let em know, cuz every girl is proud of and wants to be that freak in the bed but sadly she's a hoe.
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