i don't think i can change the world, i'm not even trying to, but just trying to change my little world. u are right, i would be damned if i go down without a fight. even if this means my father in law calling me a 'feminist' and thinks is a passing 'fad' to keep you maiden surname. can u believe that!! i'm not changing my name for anybody. i have much respect for my parents and where i come from. i am not going to change it for someone who has spent a fraction of his life with me. NO. NEVER
Gossip, I understand u have some Dreamserver "RaQ 4r" in mind (thats the one they offer for $400). I don't know about traffic/storage u need, but did u consider to rent some dedicated puretec.de server ? Traffic/storage is a bit less than the RaQ 4r, but perhaps it fits (and its about EUR100/month)