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Re: What are your 3 top priorities this week?

Jess — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 07:39:12 -0000

My priorities focus around "cherish:"
1. Cherish time spent with family.
2. Cherish my own time, I do not need to let others make me feel guilty that I can't spend every day with them.
3. Cherish time spent with friends, laid-back time, not all-over-the-place-doing-something-every-10-seconds time.

Re: How has astrology influenced your life or a decision?

Jess — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:09:07 -0000

When I read more about what it means to be an Aries, it made so much sense as to who I was and why I reacted to things a certain way.
I haven't looked into it too much, but I usually pay attention to when Mercury's in retrograde and prepare for communication blunders.

Re: How would you spend your last $20?

Jess — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:01:04 -0000

An small meal at McD's, a gelato, a magazine and snuggle up in my bf's nook and I am happy :)

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Jess — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 17:01:49 -0000

One thing I have learned is that it is EXHAUSTING trying to be perfect all the time, so I've stopped! No one ever asked me to be perfect and I put that pressure on myself. Your partner is more forgiving and understanding than you think!
Also - trust is a big one. If you have no reason to feel uncomfortable, then let it go. And also, if you feel anxious or jealous, it's usually a sign you need to work on YOUR self-esteem.
Finally, I totally agree that you need to protect your inner circle. I am making more time for friends and family when I can because they keep me strong and grounded.

Re: What kind of clutter is in your life?

Jess — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 11:04:57 -0000

My clutter is slowly diminishing...I had a lot of stuff bogging my brain down - insecurities, worries, self-criticism, decisions to make - I can tell when I'm retaining stuff because my skin doesn't look as good, then I released it all and fortunately the ppl involved TOTALLY understood where I was coming from and I felt a huge weight off my shoulder.

Re: What do you need to let go of?

Jess — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 08:19:40 -0000

This past weekend! Got in a fight with my boyfriend, unearthed stuff, cried, was insanely exhausted afterward, so I needed to take a night to myself last night.
I'm still feeling residue over it, but I'm not sure how to fully move past.

Re: What’s your favorite eco-friendly habit?

Jess — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 10:41:57 -0000

I try to walk everywhere, use canvas bags when shopping, and using the other side of paper if it's already been printed on for printing out school notes.
I also recycle and turn off everything when not using it.

Re: If you had a totally open day, every day, what 4 or 5 things would you fill it with?

Jess — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:14:37 -0000

1. Meaningful work: whether it's schoolwork, work on myself, cleaning my house.
2. Moving my body: dancing around my apartment, going to an exercise class, lifting weights at home.
3. Love: Appreciating my friends, my family, my significant other (appreciation can take the form of an e-mail, phone call, sex haha)
4. Nourishment: good food, healthy food.
5. Lots of laughing and smiling. As little drama as humanly possible.

Re: Pleasure Priorities: 19 Easy Livin’ Tips

Jess — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:31:39 -0000

Really great ideas :)
I love the whole making time for what makes you happy.
Too often I find myself in situations I don't even enjoy and I wonder "Why did I even come to this?"
Sometimes they're situations you HAVE to be at - so now I've taken to finding out ways I can change or shift things so that I feel more in control of how I feel.

Re: Gettin’ Rich Slowly: The J.D. Roth Interview

Jess — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 08:46:29 -0000

I've recently made the decision to live more frugally, and I really appreciate this article and will check out J.D.'s blog immediately!

Re: If you suddenly inherited $10,000, what would you do with it?

Jess — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 08:47:46 -0000

I'd give $9,000 to my parents to help them pay off their mortgage, then use $1000 for myself on some necessities (trips to see my boyfriend at law school) and maybe some clothes :)

Re: If you suddenly inherited $10,000, what would you do with it?

Jess — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 09:06:10 -0000

Thank you! I'm a student and thanks to my parents hard work, I will be graduating my masters without debt - something many students are not fortunate enough to do - so this would be just a small way to give back (so it'd be great if it actually happened! Haha)
Doing my Style Statement actually helped me to come to this conclusion because before, when I wasn't strong in my choices, I would've spent it on myself or sent my parents on a trip (they don't even like traveling). But now I feel more confident in myself, I don't feel I need to prove so much with my money.

Re: Be a walking contradiction.

Jess — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 08:30:37 -0000

I love this - one of the contradictions I find easily about myself is that I love "geek" things like museums, learning, school, documentaries on certain subjects, having debates about politics...
BUT...
I also adore gossip sites, glossy magazines, pop culture and fashion :)

Re: What do you find sexy?

Jess — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 08:32:45 -0000

My boyfriend's sense of direction. How he opens doors for me. How he can be goofy, really sexy and really adorable all at the same time. When he's in sweatpants and a t-shirt. When he cooks. When he shows how smart he is. And sometimes, when he's a complete smarmy ass and know its :) I find it funny.

Re: What did you learn from your favorite mistake?

Jess — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 08:15:42 -0000

This will sound strange - but it was cheating in a past relationship (the guy never found out) and the emotional pain that went with that. That mistake finally gave me the kick in the rear I needed to realize I'm not living according to my best self, I'm not living up to my values, I'm hurting myself and others - it forced me to be more honest in all areas of my life, to trust myself and others, and to live a life with more integrity. It also help me realize that, in a partner, I want someone who is there for me.

Re: What do you need to move your vision forward?

Jess — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 09:51:42 -0000

Freedom from negative thought patterns and worries about other things in my life.
I find that if other areas of my life are kind of wonky, I get so stuck on them that I can't focus on my vision and my dreams.
I need to be able to separate or take 15 min. each day to just worry about other things so I don't get distracted.

Re: What is something completely luxurious that you dream of owning?

Jess — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 07:18:04 -0000

Subscriptions to my favourite magazines. My own personal gym/fitness instructor to do classes with me whenever I want.
And I'd have to agree with Carrie...more time and money would be awesome...I could take trips to see the boyfriend without worrying about denting the bank :)

Re: What are you excited about right now?

Jess — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 07:45:52 -0000

I am pumped about this weekend. I haven't seen my boyfriend in awhile since he started law school, so I'm really happy we get to spend some quality time together.
I'm excited that I've been making time to meditate and I've only eaten out once this week, so my body doesn't hate me right now haha!
I'm also excited about all the walks I've been going on - enjoying the coming of fall.
And finally, I feel a hair evolution coming on - so I'm excited to switch it up slightly :)

Re: What are you excited about right now?

Jess — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 15:07:04 -0000

Haha I definitely had that in consideration! (I'm Comfortable Bold).
It's more manageable...which fits in with my comfortable part of my style statement.
And it's really blond, and stands out, which helps out with the bold part.

Re: What are you excited about right now?

Jess — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 21:31:43 -0000

Haha I'd love to - but I'm not sure how to do that?

Re: What are you excited about right now?

Jess — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 10:20:48 -0000

Fantastic! Will do!

Re: What do you know the most about?

Jess — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 07:17:06 -0000

I know an obscene amount of pop culture. I'm the one friends ask for updates haha! I also have a pretty good wealth of knowledge about upcoming trends.

On a more spiritual/emotional wellbeing side - I know a lot about forgiving myself, and learning to be authentically myself. I struggle so much with trying to be perfect sometimes, or being upset because I AM upset (whether for a legitimate reason or not), that I've been trying to read up on being okay with all those warts of mine.

Re: What do you find beautiful about your body?

Jess — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 08:21:38 -0000

My beautiful teeth that suffered two years of braces and orthodontic surgery.
My resilient skin that went through adolescent acne and all the methods under the sun to get rid of it. I am so careful with it.
My legs, dancer's legs - no twiggy here! I can walk for MILES! My legs are amazing.
My stomach for being soft and smooth.
My hair, bright and blond and my calling card (working on getting the picture of my comfortable bold haircut!).
My eyes, big and blue - can be filled with tears, flash with anger, sparkle with mischief :)

Re: What’s the best concert you ever attended?

Jess — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 07:39:44 -0000

I loved Jason Mraz because of the context by which I went to the concert.
One of my first serious university relationships had just ended and I wanted to do something for myself. So I bought one ticket, went down on a bus by myself to Toronto, took a cab to the venue and watched the entire thing alone...but I didn't really feel alone because I was surrounded by a ton of people :) I love Jason's laid-back, humourous style of chatting with the audience and his upbeat songs.

Also...NSYNC when I was in...I don't know, grade 8? EPIC haha

Re: How have you changed?

Jess — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 08:05:08 -0000

I'm in my early 20s - these are my years of change :)
I learned to be nicer to myself, to forgive myself for silly and immature decisions I've made in the past.
I do not tolerate people in my life that have a negative influence, nor do I tolerate people who disrespect me.
I do not have the need to be liked by everyone anymore. I'm trying to be more focused on what I want. I am more driven towards my goals. I am more settled into myself, I don't feel myself looking around wondering what people think of me - I realize they probably don't even notice because they're so fixated on themselves!

Re: What is the best relationship book you’ve read?

Jess — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 09:07:02 -0000

I've never read a relationship book. So I'm kind of just reading this post for suggestions - but something makes me nervous about picking one up...

Re: What's on your must-have list for fall fashion? boots - Petit Bateau - Foley and Corrina - vintage - Luchesse cowboy boots - wide leg jeans | Carrie and Danielle

Jess — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 07:46:03 -0000

Sexy sweaters.
Sweaters can be very sexy haha
Style that all works together - if I grab a shirt, a cardigan and some pants, it all seems to work no matter what - no "outfits."

Re: Guy Kawasaki asks: If you could eliminate one activity from your day, what would it be?

Jess — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 07:14:00 -0000

Negative thinking.
All of it haha If I could just STOP negative self-talk or what ifs - I'd get so much more done!

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

Jess — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 07:29:02 -0000

I love the way there are no hidden meanings with men. Despite some of our best efforts to "read into" what they're saying or doing, they're just doing it - there's no real hidden message like women do sometimes.
I like that they just want honesty, my boyfriend always says "Just tell me what you want," and when I do, he just says "Okay." They like simple communication (something I'd like to learn to pick up!).
I love how they can be unbelievably goofy in front of you but be normal for their friend so it's like you get to see a special part of them.
I love when they hold your hand, or get all puffed up and ready to fight if some guy grabs your ass at a bar haha!

Re: What is your favourite form of courtesy that you like to practice?

Jess — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 07:23:54 -0000

When a cashier says "Have a good day," I like to make sure I say "You too."
Usually they're a little surprised and say, "Oh, thanks!"
I also make sure to say thank you whenever the waiter or waitress stops by to do a refill or something...I think it's rude if the table just keeps talking as if they're not there.

Re: What expert help or advice would you like?

Jess — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 07:16:50 -0000

Nutritionist would be great - being a journalism student sometimes means less healthy eating or eating at all!
Life coach - also awesome :) I'd like to know how to prepare for the future.
And Martha Beck - just to keep me sane haha!

Re: What do you collect?

Jess — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 09:10:13 -0000

Magazines, sexy cardigans, perfume, kisses, hilarious quotes, inspiring books :)

Re: Patti Digh asks: What would you be doing today if you only had 37 days to live?

Jess — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 07:42:00 -0000

I'd want to be next to my boyfriend, someone who has been so important to me for so long.
I'd spend time with my family, my old roomates, my classmates in Greece and just recount stories of the past, lessons learned and appreciate everything.
Nothing complicated.
I'd also eat all the stuffing and cheesecake I could! :)

Re: What immediately comes to mind when you say the word, bliss?

Jess — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 11:09:43 -0000

I think of outside as well. Walking.
Fall, apples, turkey, family, cozy,
Not waking up with a jolt because you have a super packed day but leisurely getting up.
Healthy and delicious salads.

Re: Tsh Oxenreider asks: In what way are you delightfully conventional?

Jess — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:45:56 -0000

I've become more traditional in relationships...starting slow, taking time to fall in love. I find a lot of my peers fall fast and have explosive relationships...I like my relatively normal one :)
I love Christmas and Thanksgiving traditions...we always have these particular buns, have a particular party at my aunt's on Christmas Eve.
Traditions keep the crazy world feel like there's a semblance of stability.

Re: What’s your favourite thing to watch on TV?

Jess — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 07:01:47 -0000

Love the Office, Gossip Girl (those clothes!), Good Morning America, Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert's respective shows, ELLEN! when I get the chance.
I like the occasional cartoon too when I'm eating cereal on a Saturday :)

Re: In this very moment, what are you grateful for? (In no particular order of thanks…)

Jess — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 07:45:55 -0000

Getting TWO turkey dinners in a row this weekend and consequently getting to see two families I adore (mine and the boyfriend's).
That it's FRIDAY and I'm spending time just relaxing and going on a long fall walk.
That the boyfriend is coming this evening.
That I have stretched my comfort zone this week and really accomplished things.
That my toast is about to be done :)

Re: What do you secretly desire?

Jess — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:47:55 -0000

A money flow, with no strings attached.
A shopping spree in New York. To live with my boyfriend (shh!). To learn not to bite my nails haha! A tight stomach. Someone to shoot my documentary for me. A trip somewhere for a month!

Re: Your Truth Is In Your Desires

Jess — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:49:45 -0000

I'm going to pay attention to mine this week and guiltlessly follow them.
It'll be interesting to see where they lead me!

Re: Jonathan Mead asks: What’s right with your life?

Jess — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 08:08:02 -0000

I'm on my way to my dream by getting my masters in journalism. I'm focusing on becoming a better partner and it's going really well. I'm becoming more self-confident and less of a worrier, I'm practicing radical self-acceptance everyday.
I'm trying to eat better, and exercise more, but always accepting my body as is.
I'm making wiser decisions - decisions based on my happiness rather than revenge or anger.
I'm making time for family and appreciating their existence in my life.

Re: What’s the best “how to dress right” tip that you know?

Jess — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 07:42:37 -0000

Skin-tight looks good on no one. If you wear something baggy on top, wear something more fitted on the bottom.
Get formal dresses that flatter YOU, they don't need to be the newest thing out there.
Make sure your wardrobe fits together...don't have a million "outfits," be able to throw something together in the morning and have it all work (part of my S.S. - the "comfortable" part).
But don't be afraid to try something different - especially regarding lingerie ;)

Re: What kind of friend are you?

Jess — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:41:02 -0000

Great at making people laugh. Always there for someone. Not very competitive. Not very judgemental.
Excited about everything. Happy for others - genuinely.

Re: Comfortable Bold. How a haircut reflects the true you!

Jess — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 15:23:03 -0000

Haha!
It's so weird to see me on a website! :) Thanks ladies!

Re: Mary Jaksch asks: What’s your best way of coping with stress?

Jess — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 07:25:32 -0000

Exercise is probably my number one. Or meditation. When I can't be in my home to do these things, I like being in nature...or I'll go to a bathroom stall and breathe haha!
If my boyfriend is around, I like snuggling with him for a bit.
Naps also help me calm down too.

Re: What is your favorite flower? (And, are you curious as to why we’re asking?)

Jess — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 08:33:33 -0000

Orange gerberas! Everyone notices them, but they have a calming kind of effect...one that inspires contentment and a smile you don't even know you're smiling.
They fit well with my statement of Comfortable Bold.

Re: What’s something you can NOT do today that will simplify your life?

Jess — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 15:50:55 -0000

I can not feel pressured to fill every moment of my day with over-achievement and instead choose to journal or think about what I'm grateful for.

Re: Gina Trapani asks: What’s the best thing that’s going to happen to you tomorrow?

Jess — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 06:58:07 -0000

New magazines come out! Haha I also get to see a comedy show for charity and it's one day closer to when the person I love the most comes to see me!

Re: Give ‘Em A Break: Everyday Love and Assumptions

Jess — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 18:00:40 -0000

I DEFINITELY needed to hear this today! I was getting so frustrated with people...this is a great way to take a step back and remember we're all going through our own stuff.
Thank you!

Re: What legacy do you want to leave?

Jess — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 09:25:41 -0000

Tough question! Haha I had to think about it on my walk.
I want to leave a legacy of making ppl feel loved for who they are. I want people to feel less judged, more accepted.
Because I want ppl to love me, mistakes and all, so I try to adopt the same policy.
Yeah...I think that's it :)

Re: Pearl Matteson asks: What have you stopped being curious about? And…what would be possible if you let yourself get curious again?

Jess — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 07:58:02 -0000

I tried to pretend I wasn't, but I'm definitely struggling with my curiousity about sex and romance. Having been with my boyfriend for awhile I'm forgetting what a huge stud he really is haha!
I've also stopped being curious into other ppl's lives, and feel like I'm becoming more self-indulged. So I will try to make a concerted effort to reach out and learn something new about someone new today.

Re: What is your current, of-the-moment obsession?

Jess — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 07:52:13 -0000

Oddly enough, I'm obsessed with style. I've been buying magazines, watching people on the street - soaking it all in as I develop my own. I'm currently obsessed with Blake Lively's character Serena's wardrobe on Gossip Girl. I'm also experimenting with belts.

Re: How are you feeling about the U.S. economic situation?

Jess — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 08:28:32 -0000

Everything to do with the economy freaks me out.
I'm still a poor student so I worry about my future and if I'll be able to make money. I worry about my parents although they seem fine.
I'm trying to remember to be grateful always.

Re: Claiming Me

Jess — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 17:13:42 -0000

I love this post! At 22, I'm beginning to really honour what makes me so different - all the facets of my personality - good AND bad.
Doing my Style Statement really helped because it let me see that - yes, THIS is what I care about and it's okay to...I may love magazines, getting dressed up, clothes, and seemingly "silly" pursuits like those, BUT I'm also an amazing friend and advocate for women.
Thanks for sharing your story!

Re: Lucia Frangione asks: What glass ceiling do you want to shatter?

Jess — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 07:13:06 -0000

Changing the way young women feel about themselves.
That's about it :)
I want them to feel like if they want something enough - they will get it, and that the fact they're a girl doesn't mean a damn thing.

Re: What would you do if you weren’t afraid

Jess — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 08:03:07 -0000

Move to New York and take over the magazine world :)
Just move to New York in general.

Re: What do you do to make yourself present in the moment?

Jess — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 09:27:08 -0000

Similar to Carrie - I ask myself if I'm feeling 'comfortable' (I'm Comfortable Bold)...bringing myself back to my emotional and mental state, allows me to gauge what's going on inside and adjust if necessary - bringing me back to the present.

Re: Changing Habits: Tips for Slowing Down

Jess — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 09:29:26 -0000

Thanks for this article!
I'm definitely trying to take more time to relax as my schedule gets more hectic. Great tips!

Re: How do you define your self worth?

Jess — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 15:26:43 -0000

By how proud I am of myself - not necessarily because I accomplished a lot, but even just in everyday decisions I make, like deciding to go for a run, eat something healthy, not put myself down...that kind of stuff.
I also look at how far I've come, and where I'm going and to always remember my roots. It reminds me of how unique I am and why I am awesome as is.

Re: What’s a Jewel of Wisdom You’ve Received From a Child?

Jess — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 14:18:49 -0000

My boyfriend's neice always says "because I want to."
When we ask her why she's doing something slightly unconventional, she just replies with that. And it reminds me that I don't need to justify myself to others all the time, and it's also a great reminder to do what I makes ME happy, even if others think it's weird!

Re: This Weekend, How Are You Going to Play?

Jess — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 08:23:26 -0000

A friend of mine are having a girls' night - baking, watching Ab Fab, talking boys haha!
I'll also be going out tomorrow night with some artists which will be great, and I think I'd like to put together a fashion folder because style is something I'm really getting into and experimenting with.

Re: It Can Be This Good: Four Steps to Living Your Dream

Jess — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 12:49:42 -0000

WHOA! I needed this! Thanks :)

Re: What is your favorite cultural activity that doesn’t cost money?

Jess — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 10:39:56 -0000

Book stores for sure.
I love going to a park in the city when they light everything up for Christmas. I'm still in university, so coffee houses are great - you just have to pay for a cup of coffee, if that, and you get to see some great acts.

Re: What is your favorite cultural activity that doesn’t cost money?

Jess — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 10:40:37 -0000

OH! And our downtown library is awesome as well.

Re: Who has been of service in your life, and how do you remember them?

Jess — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 08:09:32 -0000

I think of my grandfather, who even though he was not the nicest man in his life, he served his country well as a spy.
I think of my grandpa Henry, who served our family through his sense of humour, his impeccable style and his unconditional love for my grandma - how happy he made her. "Grandpa Henry-isms" are now traditions in my family.

Lest we forget.

Re: What’s that one thing you are putting off that would contribute significantly to your well being?

Jess — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 08:49:09 -0000

Taking a break. I feel like I need to move full-throttle ahead every day or else I'll miss my chance/won't succeed/will live in a box.
But then I realize that I'm letting other things suffer like appreciating my time with my boyfriend, family and friends.
Need to sloooooow down.

Re: What items from your childhood make your heart smile with fond memories?

Jess — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 07:13:32 -0000

This bear I had that my mom bought to prevent me from hurting my head when I'd fall asleep in the shopping cart haha! His name was Mr. Bearly. He had been washed so many times that his plastic eyes melted a bit, but it kind of made it look like his eyes were sparkling :)

Re: If you were an animal, what would you be?

Jess — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:10:51 -0000

I've always really identified with my Chinese horoscope - the TIGER! :)
Aggressive and passionate.

Re: What four words describe you?

Jess — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 09:52:09 -0000

Passionate, vivacious, unconventional, impulsive.

Re: What’s your favorite kitchen gadget?

Jess — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:44:24 -0000

Does the toaster count because that's about all I can use haha!

Re: On your birthday, how do you like to be cherished?

Jess — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:18:38 -0000

Acknowledgement from others, but mainly the people I care the most.
Taken out for ice cream, surprised with a small gift.
Just loved haha Like any other day of the week :)

Re: Who or what is your favorite Icon?

Jess — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:53:04 -0000

Coco Chanel, Diane Von Furstenberg - women of true style.
Oprah for her work helping others.
My horoscope symbol for Aries.

Re: What are you sensitive to?

Jess — Mon, 24 Nov 2008 07:56:31 -0000

Touch, people's ulterior motives, spicy food as well, music, movies.
I'm just beginning to realize that it's okay to be sensitive.

Re: What have you done recently to make yourself feel proud?

Jess — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 08:10:41 -0000

I'm proud that I remain optimistic whereas a lot of my classmates are becoming increasingly not haha! I'm proud of myself for taking time to do things that make me happy.
I'm proud of myself for prioritizing and spending time on things that are TRULY important to me.
I'm proud of myself for getting an article published. I'm proud of myself for making time for exercise as much as possible.

Re: How You Can Write for Magazines – Part One

Jess — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 08:12:12 -0000

AMAZING!
This is what I want to do in my future. Thanks!

Re: What is your favorite part of Thanksgiving celebrations?

Jess — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 07:31:32 -0000

These special buns we get. Playing with my cousins' kids. Talking about funny stories from the past :)

Re: What holiday gifts are you excited about giving this year?

Jess — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 08:10:41 -0000

I am going to surprise my boyfriend with his favourite hockey player of all time's jersey :)
I am also excited just for the gift of time - to give and receive it...everyone making the time to spend with each other and create Christmas memories.

Re: What do you love about being a woman (or what do you love about women)?

Jess — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 07:48:32 -0000

Our bodies look nicer naked (everyone knows it's true haha). We can just relate to each other so easily and that's amazing.
We're all so powerful, physically, mentally and emotionally. We can have BIRTH! And while I've never experienced that, I realize how friggin' HUGE that is!

Re: Who are your favorite female entrepreneurs?

Jess — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 07:15:44 -0000

Anita Roddick definitely. I'm not sure if you'd consider these women entrepreneurs - but Coco Chanel and Diane von Furstenberg are amazing to me.
Successful and feminine and quirky :)

Re: How do you make yourself open to others?

Jess — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 08:08:29 -0000

Rebecca's words about reminding herself that she's a human being resonate with me. Often I feel I am apologizing for being or feeling a certain way - ie: if I'm grumpy from a stressful week, or just tired...I need to be more open with my feelings because ppl will love me anyway :)

Re: What are you going to do today, or this weekend, to create joy for someone else?

Jess — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 15:49:24 -0000

I am going to buy some presents to donate to the women's shelter. And tomorrow I am volunteering during a Children's Aid holiday party and bringing smiles to some kids faces!

Re: How do you want your neighborhood to feel?

Jess — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 09:17:20 -0000

I'm thinking in terms of the neighbourhood I grew up in because I still feel very close to it. I want it to feel forever safe, and too not change too much.
I want there always to be farmer's field behind my house and my neighbour's houses...I don't want development to move the neighbourhood into nature.
I want everyone to feel comfortable enough to come to each other to ask for a cup of sugar ;)

Re: What are you trying to achieve?

Jess — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 08:37:51 -0000

I want to be an example for all the growing girls in my life by appreciating my body as is, and shwoing them that with hard work you can do what you want to do.
I want to achieve love and success - I refuse to choose.

Re: Create Your Thoughts: Change The Way You See Yourself And Your Life

Jess — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 17:49:08 -0000

I like this idea! Lately it seems that everything needs to be taken seriously - and I don't like it one bit haha!
Thank you!

Re: What gives you hope in the world?

Jess — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 17:53:04 -0000

Seeing family, my own and my boyfriend's and their unconditional love for one another. Seeing my father battle against alcoholism and win. Seeing my mother with her unwavering sense of humour, optimism and grace.

Re: What are your can’t-live-without-it beauty products?

Jess — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:07:07 -0000

I love Revlon cream blush. The Garnier roller ball for under your eyes and good ole Vaseline :)

Re: So What Would My 80-Year-Old Self Tell Me To Do About This?

Jess — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:13:40 -0000

LOVE this article! I think that's going to be my New Year's resolution - listen to my 80 year old self more!

Re: What would you like to be a master of?

Jess — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 11:23:18 -0000

I'd like to be the master of some sort of self-defence. And as of today - I'd like to be the master of my hair because it's bugging the crap out of me haha!
The master of makeup might be fun and fashion :)

Re: What were the highlights of 2008 for you?

Jess — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 13:09:57 -0000

Starting my masters in journalism, learning to please myself first, writing the best story in my class, staying fit despite being busy, learning to eat better, loving more, spending more time with family, road trip in the US with my boyfriend (and not killing each other haha), learning my Style Statement! (comfortable bold!), joining Al-Anon which inspired my father to stop drinking, as well as other family members to do the same.

Re: What do you want to leave behind in order to start the New Year afresh?

Jess — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 15:56:14 -0000

Much of past situations I sometimes replay in my head that do me no good haha
Any wardrobe that doesn't reflect my new style, any negative thoughts that I can't do what I set my mind to (I CAN! Haha).

Re: What word describes your desire for 2009?

Jess — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 13:43:43 -0000

SHINE :)

Re: Editor’s Notes: What We Acomplished Before The New Year

Jess — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:05:19 -0000

This was really beautiful. Thank you :)

Re: What will you create in 2009?

Jess — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 10:17:30 -0000

The beginnings of my career, an even deeper relationship, priorities around what's important, a healthy body.

Re: What is a Completely Outrageous Thing You Want to do This Year?

Jess — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 09:35:13 -0000

Skydive! Go back to Italy! Be more honest! (too many times I get mad at myself for hiding behind some fake personality to make people like me).

Re: How Would You Like to be Cared For?

Jess — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 10:03:56 -0000

Given my own space to decompress, then quiet snuggling and chuckles and healthy dinner.

Re: What Does Your Little Voice Say?

Jess — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:33:49 -0000

My little voice is very very supportive and believes in me. Sometimes it's overshadowed by a louder, more critical, anxiety-ridden voice.
Slowly it's gaining it's own volume though :)

Re: What’s One New Word You Want to Bring Into Your Vocabulary This Year?

Jess — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 09:49:13 -0000

SHINE - for ME! and no one else.
I want to put myself first and do what I want to do, make MYSELF happy.

Re: What’s The Most Beautiful Part Of Winter For You?

Jess — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 09:27:20 -0000

I definitely have to agree with the stillness of winter walks...especially when the sun it out and it's not too freezing.

Re: What Song Would Best Describe Who You Are Right Now?

Jess — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 09:49:56 -0000

"Miss Independent" - NOT the Kelly Clarkson one, but the one by Ne-Yo, I believe.
I walk like the boss, and talk like the boss ;) It just reflects how I feel about my life, that it's MY own even though I share it with my boyfriend, I don't feel a dependence at all. It also reflects how I feel in my career right now. My internship's going well and I'm being proactive.

Re: What Activity Sets You Free?

Jess — Mon, 19 Jan 2009 09:16:59 -0000

I also find running and dancing to be freeing! Exercise, movement in general is phenomenal :) And laughing!

Re: How Will You Love Yourself Today?

Jess — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:40:34 -0000

I already went for a run this morning, and have been eating healthy food so far today :) I will also make sure my thoughts are gentle because I've been kind of moving slowly lately haha Darn winter!
I want to think about my style statement tonight as well, think about how I can honour it this week.
I will also take some time out today to appreciate myself, all the things I've done and my body.

Re: 7 Reasons Why You’re Not the Woman You Wish to Be

Jess — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 09:50:41 -0000

This is brilliant :)
Thanks!

Re: Karma Points: How Will You Gain Them Today?

Jess — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 09:51:01 -0000

I'm going to not secretly complain when I'm given assignments today. I'm going to be kind to my boyfriend's friend even though I don't necessarily like them. I'm going to let my boyfriend know I appreciate him and the dinners he makes (I do that every day but there's no reason to not keep doing it!).

Re: What’s The Secret That Doesn’t Need To Be A Secret Anymore?

Jess — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:16:36 -0000

My friend taught me that you don't have to be a size 2 to be fabulous :) She reminds me to be more forgiving of my body.

Re: Find Your Color Story With Polyvore - The Website For Color Fanatics

Jess — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 14:37:19 -0000

Thank you so much for introducing me to this site!
I've just spent some time gathering inspiration and starting my own collages.
This is brilliant!

Re: What Will Be Your Indulgence Today?

Jess — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 16:22:24 -0000

Wearing fabulous boots tonight while I go out with friends :)

Re: Taking Risks When It Comes To Love; Is It Always Worth It?

Jess — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 12:45:05 -0000

If you feel whole in yourself and being with this person will only add to your life's loveliness - OF COURSE you do it :)

Re: What Is Your Favorite Meal of the Day, and How Will You Enjoy It Today?

Jess — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 09:22:35 -0000

I'm torn between breakfast and lunch. Breakfast because I love prepping my day with a healthy meal of bran flakes, goji berries and blueberries.
Lunch because it's a break in my day and I sit with a magazine at work and just chill for a bit.

Re: Positivity; How Do You Keep It Alive?

Jess — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 07:50:48 -0000

The quote kind of relates to how I keep it alive. I let myself know that even if something sucks, it'll get better again because I've been strong in the past.
Giving thanks as well also helps. Taking breaks so I don't get overwhelmed in the day-to-day annoyances. Being around people who keep me positive. Treating myself well.

Re: Enlightenment: Through Restriction or Enjoyment?

Jess — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 08:42:54 -0000

Definitely enjoyment! I feel like restriction often leads to resentment - which doesn't help anyone. Enjoying life by making authentic choices. That's the way to go!

Re: What Will You Forgive Yourself For Today?

Jess — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 12:36:44 -0000

I will forgive myself for not being 100% confident every day in everything - I don't need to be "on" all the time.
I will forgive myself for not getting super excited about this new job I have because I'm waiting till I graduate.
I will forgive myself for not feeling like I need to be "nice" all the time - you know what I mean? Forcing smiles, small talk, etc.