The wondering part is something that can be dealt with ... the "knowing that someone KNOWS you're out there" but not giving a flying F? Notsomuch.
You know you've found ex'es on FB but couldn't bring yourself to friend them! Everyone has! Shoot I can barely bring myself to accept friend requests from long-gone acquaintences (just out of sheer weirdness) let alone friend people myself that I was acquainted with
