Well, to start, the way you began the post is really sexist. You make it sound like famous men have no detractors. ALL famous people have detractors, both men and women.
I also don't think you would worry too much about finding a guy. You don't really come off as slut, more like a smart, liberated girl who isn't afraid to admit she's had sex and *gasp* enjoyed it.
You've let the cat out the bag with this one. I do my best to follow my own advice, but like any other human being, I occasionally slip. That's the problem with writing -- there will always be some hypocrisy. Just because you can say the right thing, doesn't mean you can do it all the time.
That being said, I think that writing a site about self improvement keeps the subject at the front of my mind and motivates me to practice what I preach. While I can't follow my own advice perfectly, I'm definitely doing better than I would be if I didn't write and think about those topics.
