A year is outside the range of normal. Physically, six weeks post delivery is all most women need to be ready for sex. I\'d say at this point, it\'s neglect of your needs. There\'s a head problem now. Whatever\'s going on between you needs attention by a counselor. GL dude.
You can\'t just say that you better have maxed out this and that before you buy a bag. The needs of the present need to be balanced with the needs of the future. Are you responsible with your money? Are you planning and executing steps for the future? Is it OK to splurge right now? If the answer is yes, go ahead.
