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Re: letters to crushes

pensandquarters — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 20:23:27 -0000

yeah i don't want you to get rid of the page, cuz usually they're great to read, but i like corey's idea of "loved". :DD thank you so much!!

Re: letters to crushes

pensandquarters — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 15:28:41 -0000

how badly i wish this were written to me. :(

i hope you find whoever you've hurt. i hope things work out again.

Re: letters to crushes

pensandquarters — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 01:23:39 -0000

hey. i went through this too with a guy i liked for so long. i can't tell you we had a happy ending and he found out and loved me back because that'd be a shitload of lies.

what i can tell you is that you're referring to him as "asshole." do you really want to be with someone who even YOU - the one who likes him - see as an asshole?

it took me way too long to realize that if i really liked a guy, and really wanted to be with him, there would be much better words to describe him, and none of them would be in contempt or full of resent.

yeah it's hard to stop being addicted to the idea of who-he-is-when-he's-not-with-his-friends, but even if you think he's a beautiful being without them, he's friends with them for a reason, and they like who-he-is-WITH-THEM for a reason, and he's probably not going to give that up. that's kind of WHY he's an asshole. cuz the person he tries to be IS an asshole who is obnoxious and all that.

and let's be real here - if he really is such an asshole, he's probably already forgotten about your conversations anyway. so you probably ought to too. there are better guys out there. guys who care about what YOU think and appreciate who YOU are, not just themselves and their images. i promise.

Re: letters to crushes

pensandquarters — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 16:27:25 -0000

depends how nervous, i should think. if it's like, butterflies-he-still-has-a-crush-on-you-how-sweet kind of nervous, but he's comfortable with who you are and who he is, and WHAT you two are together, then i think that's okay.

if he's nervous because he doesn't know if he likes you or not...that's not okay.

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but i doubt it's the latter so don't worry.

lastly, if his nervousness is getting in the way of your relationship, then talk with him about it, try to work it out. if it isn't in the way, still talk about it if you want, but it isn't such a priority if it isn't a threat.

goood luucck!! :DDD

Re: letters to crushes

pensandquarters — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 16:21:18 -0000

gosh i totally know what you mean!! i wish you the best of luck finding a good someone!! :DD

Re: letters to crushes - bird, you’re absolutely adorable and unreachable....

pensandquarters — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 05:02:17 -0000

...yes?

Re: The William Beckett - Oct. 13th. Flight 101. Ominous numbers to some....

pensandquarters — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:29:44 -0000

i think we romanticize life too much. but i think that's life.

don't get too paranoid, but have fun with it! :DD or sleep, yah know. it is early. i'd rather be sleeping than be at school (don't worry, i ain't skippin. just chillin during my free period. which i'd rather be sleeping during.)

love the stunna shades, btw. all the rage.

peace
and
flying.

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