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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for oystersandchocolate</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/oystersandchocolate/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/oystersandchocolate/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:08:18 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/default3.aspx</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/default3.aspx#comment-19902446</link><description>&lt;p&gt;test&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:08:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/HTMLPage.htm</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/HTMLPage.htm#comment-19902328</link><description>&lt;p&gt;here is a test&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:06:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Vampire Lust Erotic Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1711/VampireLustEroticFictionContest.aspx#comment-14661435</link><description>&lt;p&gt;It should be sexually explicit, after all we ONLY publish erotica here!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 17:56:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Vampire Lust Erotic Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1711/VampireLustEroticFictionContest.aspx#comment-14021610</link><description>&lt;p&gt;By law we require that all visitors/contributors to this site are eighteen years or older. It would be helpful if you formatted the story like we format those on the site. Single spaced with double returns between paragraphs. Thanks! J&amp;amp;S&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:56:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Essay - SLURP: Testes &amp; Tubes: The Art and Science of a Great Blow Job</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1733/SLURPTestesTubesTheArtandScienceofaGreatBlowJob.aspx#comment-14021547</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Catherine Millet IS super intelligent and an inspiration to all of us female sex fiends. We love the excerpts you chose from her work - what a fresh way to describe a blow job!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:54:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sex Advice - My girlfriend is a disability devotee</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1600/Mygirlfriendisadisabilitydevotee.aspx#comment-13346784</link><description>&lt;p&gt;All excellent points. Thank you for sharing.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 04:10:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: In the Small Hours</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/795/IntheSmallHours.aspx#comment-13125777</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hehe that's funny because "Wanton" is one of my favorite words. :) xxo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 15:09:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Vampire Lust Erotic Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1711/VampireLustEroticFictionContest.aspx#comment-13093067</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes it is open internationally. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 00:10:16 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sex Advice - My girlfriend is a disability devotee</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1600/Mygirlfriendisadisabilitydevotee.aspx#comment-12519136</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This really isn't about men v. women. If the gender roles were reversed in&lt;br&gt;both of these instances I would have still given out the same advice. In the&lt;br&gt;other scenario, the porn viewer is open and honest and is also giving their&lt;br&gt;partner plenty of love and affection and great sex- hence the suggestion&lt;br&gt;that this may be a self-esteem issue on the part of the non-porn viewing&lt;br&gt;partner. In this article the porn viewer is secretive and hiding a very&lt;br&gt;unusual kink, the only way this relationship will work is with serious&lt;br&gt;therapy (if that). I don't view these questions in broad strokes (for&lt;br&gt;example I'm *not* setting a rule that men can watch porn but women can't), I&lt;br&gt;view them as specific case studies, each with their own sets of rules and&lt;br&gt;complications.&lt;br&gt;I think the main issue that you may disagree with me on is I don't think&lt;br&gt;pornography is all bad. In fact I think it can play a healthy part in a happy&lt;br&gt;sexual relationship.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 21:47:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Happy Birthday O&amp;C - Editors' Letter - July 2009</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1709/EditorsLetterJuly2009.aspx#comment-11982457</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Awww shucks thank you! However we couldn't do this without wonderful, sexy&lt;br&gt;people like yourself. xxoo J&amp;amp;S&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:08:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Heat</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/891/TheHeat.aspx#comment-9309060</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes Brian Crawford is a talented erotica writer indeed. We are pleased to&lt;br&gt;say he has a wonderful story titled "The Window" in our just released print&lt;br&gt;anthology that you don't want to miss! &lt;a href="http://www.oceroticbooks.com" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.oceroticbooks.com"&gt;http://www.oceroticbooks.com&lt;/a&gt; xxoo J&amp;amp;S&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:58:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Anal Sex! Eight Steps to Satisfaction</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1037/AnalSexEightStepstoSatisfaction.aspx#comment-9263369</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I don't want to look like a porn queen...and I don't. But I really, really&lt;br&gt;enjoy anal sex. In fact the my most reliable and easy way for me to achieve&lt;br&gt;orgasm. I think every woman is different. xxoo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 20:55:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stripper Erotica - For Four One Gets the Job</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1653/ForFourOneGetstheJob.aspx#comment-8662139</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wow! Thanks for sharing your experience. Definitely takes the fantasy out of&lt;br&gt;an erotic story, doesn't it? You have to remember that erotica has a great&lt;br&gt;deal of creative license. In erotic stories people have the right to create&lt;br&gt;fantasies in a world where there are no real-life repercussions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I agree with you about strippers having few rights. I actually know a&lt;br&gt;fabulous woman named Mary Taylor who danced for 21 years and retired at age&lt;br&gt;40. She is now working hard in Canada to fight for the rights of exotic&lt;br&gt;dancers. You can find her story at &lt;a href="http://peelandplay.com/mary.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://peelandplay.com/mary.html"&gt;http://peelandplay.com/mary...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;xxoo&lt;br&gt;JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 14:31:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Domination Erotica - Save a Horse</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1597/SaveaHorse.aspx#comment-8661980</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Kim,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Force Fantasy is definitely a controversial topic. We had a difficult time&lt;br&gt;publishing the rest of Kris Williams "Bad Girl" series as it got deeper and&lt;br&gt;darker - but oddly enough we also received a lot of positive comments on&lt;br&gt;that one. I'm not sure what you mean by "men-beating-women" stories&lt;br&gt;populating so much of our site I think we have quite a bit more&lt;br&gt;stories/poetry/articles that aren't at all like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks for your comments!&lt;br&gt;JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 14:26:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sex Advice - Why do men like porn?</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1562/Whydomenlikeporn.aspx#comment-8648244</link><description>&lt;p&gt;While I appreciate everyone's compliments and concern for our subject in&lt;br&gt;this question, it seems to me you ladies are missing the point in this&lt;br&gt;article. It's evident that this couple has a good relationship and  a great&lt;br&gt;sex life (she stays so herself "I'm told I'm beautiful, and my partner finds&lt;br&gt;me very sexy. We have a very full and abundant, fun and passionate sex&lt;br&gt;life.")  The important deep-seated issue is that she is lacking in&lt;br&gt;self-esteem. A woman who is confident in herself, and who has a full and&lt;br&gt;abundant sex life would not be troubled by porn in the least. IF however she&lt;br&gt;had come to me and said "my husband can't stop watching porn, he doesn't&lt;br&gt;touch me, we have a terrible sex life" my response would have been very&lt;br&gt;different. I would have definitely said the problem was his.&lt;br&gt;I originally published this article on &lt;a href="http://Examiner.com" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="Examiner.com"&gt;Examiner.com&lt;/a&gt; and the woman who first&lt;br&gt;asked the question indeed appreciated my advice. You can see her response&lt;br&gt;there:&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-1720-Denver-Sex-and-Romance-Examiners~y2009m1d5-Why-do-Men-Love-Porn" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.examiner.com/x-1720-Denver-Sex-and-Romance-Examiners~y2009m1d5-Why-do-Men-Love-Porn"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/x-1...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;xxoo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 09:30:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Cum Article - Cum</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1647/Cum.aspx#comment-8228329</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hehe you are so funny YY - and have apparently got a way with words! (Or is&lt;br&gt;it got away with words...in this context?).JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 11:16:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: She Doesn't Suck Cock!</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1095/SheDoesntSuckCock.aspx#comment-6137543</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Woops thanks! Those were links to our old site. Should be good to go now.&lt;br&gt;xxoo&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 09:16:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Best Erotica - Editor's Letter - January 2009</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1568/EditorsLetterJanuary2009.aspx#comment-5694343</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Randy,&lt;br&gt;Quite a few people have this same reaction when they learn they are vanilla.&lt;br&gt;It seems that most people decide that vanilla is boring. That's simply not&lt;br&gt;true. Vanilla is classic, classy, sexy and smokin' hot. It's romantic and&lt;br&gt;seductive and naughty. It's so many wonderful things and we are both so very&lt;br&gt;glad that you are finally embracing your vanilla-ness. ;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;xoxo&lt;br&gt;JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:37:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: 2008 Erotic Poetry Contest - Deadline is Midnight PST!</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1308/2008EroticPoetryContestStillAcceptingSubmissions.aspx#comment-5086215</link><description>&lt;p&gt;We are currently running an erotic fiction contest with a deadline of&lt;br&gt;February 15th 2009:&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx"&gt;http://oystersandchocolate....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;We will likely open up a poetry contest later this year, but no solid plans&lt;br&gt;have been made yet! Be sure to sign up to our e-mail list so you don't miss&lt;br&gt;any publishing opportunities. &lt;a href="http://oystersandchocolate.com/ContactUs.aspx" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://oystersandchocolate.com/ContactUs.aspx"&gt;http://oystersandchocolate....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;xxoo&lt;br&gt;J&amp;amp;S&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:49:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotica - Pudding and Pie</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1564/PuddingandPie.aspx#comment-5024419</link><description>&lt;p&gt;We are so very happy to welcome the talented Donna George Storey to our&lt;br&gt;site!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 17:43:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Waiting...On the Rocks</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1314/WaitingOntheRocks.aspx#comment-5024418</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes Aimee often scratches on the underbelly of sex for sure!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 17:43:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotica - Editor's Letter - December 2008</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1539/EditorsLetterDecember2008.aspx#comment-4091049</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ah yes, the simple kiss. Let's all be sure to include plenty of kissing in&lt;br&gt;our daily lives. :D&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 15:27:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Forty Days and Forty Nights Erotic Open Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx#comment-4072666</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Just follow the guidelines as outlined in the contest entry rules to the&lt;br&gt;letter and you will be fine.  The one thing missing from this list is rights&lt;br&gt;- those are the same as described on the submissions page.  xoxo J&amp;amp;S&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 12:18:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Best Erotica - A Technicality</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1534/ATechnicality.aspx#comment-4024792</link><description>&lt;p&gt;We really, really hope to help Sommer put this story in print some day...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 10:58:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stawberries</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1167/Stawberries.aspx#comment-3969270</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Mmm yes and excellent prose as well "And I, deliriously drunk on her nectar,&lt;br&gt;drank deep at the humid fountain of her sex. "&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">oystersandchocolate</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 12:21:32 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>