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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for mdubay</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/mdubay/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/mdubay/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 07:52:41 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Red Sox Do Not Recall Aaron Cook: MLB Rumors - MLBTradeRumors.com</title><link>http://www.mlbtraderumors.com/2012/05/red-sox-do-not-recall-aaron-cook.html#comment-516522084</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The red sox brass has been full of disservice these past few years, why stop now&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 07:52:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: He Says: I Bet It Was Easier Replacing Paula Abdul!</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/he-says-i-bet-it-was-easier-replacing-paula-abdul/#comment-22573750</link><description>&lt;p&gt;"If they only knew I am just looking for resume tips for my own use!"&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Don't mean to double-post...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sorry, my user information didn't come through!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:39:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: T.A.P. Q#361 &amp;#8211; Hey Mr. Hiring Manager! What&amp;#8217;s the Deal?</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/t-a-p-q361-hey-mr-hiring-manager-whats-the-deal/#comment-22048477</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I know what you are going through! I know I have had similar experiences with job hunting. Very Frustrating...but simply put, the company may have a couple more people they are looking at and they have yet to complete all of the same interviews that you have.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The hiring manager may have vacation time coming and wants to take care of the hiring process when he/she comes back -- this has happened to me before&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The company decided to go in a different direction --- this reason got me a couple of times&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 12:25:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: You Will Get Googled&amp;#8230;Are You Afraid?</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/you-will-get-googled-are-you-afraid/#comment-21060915</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for this article and the &lt;a href="http://Pipl.com" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="Pipl.com"&gt;Pipl.com&lt;/a&gt; site. Great advice!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:01:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Which Generation is Losing the Career Fight? (It&amp;#8217;s Not Who You Think)</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/which-generation-is-losing-the-career-fight-its-not-who-you-think/#comment-20633208</link><description>&lt;p&gt;...there are not too many Gen Y-ers at my company of over 15,000...sad, because I think the Gen Y-ers are getting a bad rap. "One bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch"&lt;br&gt;To be honest, I would think many companies would want to hire the recently graduated because they will have less bad habits, gained from working at another company. &lt;br&gt;With the right training anyone can be molded into a fine employee.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:06:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: T.A.P. Q#312 &amp;#8211; How Do I Remind My Boss I Have Skills?</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/t-a-p-q312-how-do-i-remind-my-boss-i-have-skills/#comment-17850997</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I had a situation like this occur. I worked for a Time and Attendance company before joining my current company. My current manager did not know my experience because he was assigned to our group after I was hired. We were purchasing a Time and Attendance software and I sent an email to my manager of my experience with my former company. I was immediately assigned to the implementation team.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Look for your opportunity and send a friendly email. It may work out or it may not, but at least you showed the initiative.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 11:40:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Time to Take a &amp;#8220;STRAYcation&amp;#8221; from Work?</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/time-to-take-a-stray-cation-from-work/#comment-14975529</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I suggest cutting back a week and simply take one week off now and save the second week for later in the year (if possible)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:59:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Do You Have an &amp;#8216;Integrity Gap?&amp;#8217;</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/do-you-have-an-integrity-gap/#comment-14441244</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I tend to not wait till someone completes their speaking before attempting to jump in and respond. I am working on this...patience is the key&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 13:57:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: T.A.P. Q#235 &amp;#8211; You Aren&amp;#8217;t the Boss of Me (Or Are You?)</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/q235-you-arent-the-boss-of-me-or-are-you/#comment-14002235</link><description>&lt;p&gt;You need to have a conversation with your manager and talk about this situation. Maybe your manager saw how you were receptive to the situation originally and thought that would be an ongoing working solution.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 17:57:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: T.A.P. Q#233 &amp;#8211; I&amp;#8217;m Being Stalked By An Old Co-Worker!</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/tap-q233-im-being-stalked-by-an-old-co-worker/#comment-13996255</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Just click IGNORE!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 16:09:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Netiquette 101 = 6 Must-Follow Rules</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/netiquette-101-6-must-follow-rules/#comment-13994841</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Nice article Debra,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People unleash emails carelessly in the business world. Many have been written up or fired over sent emails. Remember that an email can be forwarded!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Rule 7, never click "Reply All" to an email unless all parties need to see your response.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I could go on...I follow many rules! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 15:40:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: &amp;#8216;Am I Money?&amp;#8217; #8 &amp;#8211; Mark, Mid-Career &amp;#038; Wondering How He Compares</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/am-i-money-8-mark-mid-career-wondering-how-he-compares/#comment-10456103</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you, JT. So valuable!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am glad you have given me some great items to work on!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take care,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mark&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:36:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Take the &amp;#8216;AM I Money&amp;#8217; Quiz (Think &amp;#8220;Hot-or-Not for Job Seekers)</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/take-the-am-i-money-quiz/#comment-9935892</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for listing out all of these progressive concepts to find the money. I am not dissapointed with my score ("you're broke") because I could have lied and said "yes" . Where is the point in that? I desire to learn more about these concepts and hope to "be money" from more research and practice.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 16:47:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Are You Guilty? How 4 Words Control Your Career Decisions</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/are-you-guilty-how-4-words-control-your-career-decisions/#comment-7263788</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Great article, JT. Your timing, of this article, is perfect! I think this is the right question to begin asking to get to know someone!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 15:58:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Are You a Dishonest Employee? For Young Guys, Survey Says It&amp;#8217;s More than a Little Likely</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/are-you-a-dishonest-employee-for-young-guys-survey-says-its-more-than-a-little-likely/#comment-6922495</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hello Brendan. I didn't mean for the "4 years" comment to come off as negative. I was actually impressed with your research on the subject and finding that article from 4 years ago.&lt;br&gt;Have a great day! Mark&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 16:17:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Are You a Dishonest Employee? For Young Guys, Survey Says It&amp;#8217;s More than a Little Likely</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/are-you-a-dishonest-employee-for-young-guys-survey-says-its-more-than-a-little-likely/#comment-6905925</link><description>&lt;p&gt;yes, you are so right. No company owes someone a job! And people who take having a steady position with a company for granted are going to be sorely mistaken. &lt;br&gt;I hope you find some good apples soon! Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:05:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Are You a Dishonest Employee? For Young Guys, Survey Says It&amp;#8217;s More than a Little Likely</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/are-you-a-dishonest-employee-for-young-guys-survey-says-its-more-than-a-little-likely/#comment-6905326</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wow, Brendan, that article is 4 years old! Great research! Companies do have to re-invent themselves in order to appeal and retain the new batch of employees. There has to be a limit to these practices though. I guess that is what scares me...what is that limit? &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 10:51:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Are You a Dishonest Employee? For Young Guys, Survey Says It&amp;#8217;s More than a Little Likely</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/are-you-a-dishonest-employee-for-young-guys-survey-says-its-more-than-a-little-likely/#comment-6900599</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think many of the young people want to work hard! However, there are a few bad apples, just like with any situation. Maybe part of the issue is that the survey only gained a good population of people 35 and Under, because people 36 and older don't spend time filling out surveys.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am 37 and I do see a big difference between a 27 year old and myself, when it comes to work attitude, but this survey doesn't prove that people 36 and older are not pulling some of the same negative actions identified in the survey.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 09:40:21 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: A.B.L. (Always Be Looking) &amp;#8211; Unspoken Truth of Successful Careerists</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/abl-always-be-looking-unspoken-truth-of-successful-careerists/#comment-6839476</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good luck, Katrina! Finish strong this semester!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 10:41:43 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Respect Authority? Not Me! (and it helps my career!)</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/respect-authority-not-me-and-it-helps-my-career/#comment-6839182</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Nice article of perseverance, Chris! I hope your new degree has opened the doors you were hoping for! Best of luck with your career goals!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 10:26:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: A.B.L. (Always Be Looking) &amp;#8211; Unspoken Truth of Successful Careerists</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/abl-always-be-looking-unspoken-truth-of-successful-careerists/#comment-6704642</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I love all of the comments, everyone! I am glad people found my article worthy of their time! To see follow-up thoughts and questions opens up a dialog and that was my goal for the post!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mark&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 12:40:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Feeling Bad About Your Career? It&amp;#8217;s a Good Thing</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/feeling-bad-about-your-career-its-a-good-thing/#comment-6619869</link><description>&lt;p&gt;When I read this story, I translate the "Ah-ha" moment to the moment of Clarity in your position. Everyone starts a new position in a haze. It takes a good amount of time before you gain clarity on what your role is and how to perform your role with great success. &lt;br&gt;When you gain that moment of clarity the sky is the limit! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 14:39:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Career In Progress: I Won&amp;#8217;t Give Up My Dream!</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/career-in-progress-i-wont-give-up-my-dream/#comment-6571582</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This exposure on Careerealism is a great way to get your work out there. I hope this avenue will provide some leads for you in your job hunt. But, don't be afraid to send a company your resume, even if there are no jobs open! You may be seen as a good fit for a position that is not listed. Good luck! Mark&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 10:59:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: 3 Rules to Managing Up</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/3-rules-to-managing-up/#comment-6415282</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the wisdom. Will try to implement these three ideas in my current role. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 16:34:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why HR&amp;#8217;s Just Not That Into You</title><link>http://www.careerealism.com/why-hrs-just-not-that-into-you/#comment-6376267</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hello JT. I am employed with a great company. I just added those company names from experience. I love the site and see great, useful, advice for those employed. So, I keep checking back and reading the articles! Thanks for your concern! Take care, Mark &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Dubay</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 11:36:00 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>