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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for lalanii</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/lalanii/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/lalanii/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 01:48:15 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: The Night of the Non-Believers</title><link>https://untiligetmarried.com/2013/02/06/the-night-of-the-non-believers/#comment-792643995</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Same boat. I've been there, doing a little better now, but still same boat. The thing about finances is they mean so much more when you're low than what they mean when you're smiling at the nail shop in the big massage chair. Having been in fanciful financial situations before and feeling like someone still put the mute button on my happiness, I'll say, being happy wasn't, I repeat wa$ not--lol, and still isn't, my purpose or design. But having a slow-weak-and altogether unsteady climb to get back where I was financially, that has brought some joy now that I'm on the mend. It's like when your money is right everything else falls into place. But when your money is wrong, all you can think about is how wrong your money is. Funny thing, I was just writing about being 'so over the journey' and where's the fri*$%'in destination already, when I realized a few years ago my goal was to be where I am now. Then there's the master's degree in creative writing that everyone said I shouldn't bother with, and the feeling of wanting it all at once. The fact that Dad didn't/doesn't help is a good thing, because the guilt of having a Dad that does-is far worse than what money can buy/fix/or pay enough rent for. I wish you the best Jozen now, before, and evermore. Writers deserve it, we change this world. But why else would I become a producer? Sometimes our talents are temporary and everywhere.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 01:48:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Modeling, vanity and self-awareness</title><link>https://www.modelmayhem.com/education/modeling/5383-modeling-vanity-and-self-awareness#comment-792618302</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This is well written and comes from a very vulnerable and beautiful place. Thanks, Ella Rose for sharing. I hope one day I'm comfortable with my imperfections, but for now, I'll keep striving for my own personal best.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 00:34:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Jozen&amp;#8217;s Incredibly Fun and Exciting Dating Strategy Part 2 of 2</title><link>https://untiligetmarried.com/2011/12/08/jozens-incredibly-fun-and-exciting-dating-strategy-part-2-of-2/#comment-387869219</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm rolling with it! I love this idea! I'm finally single so why not have fun with it? &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 03:48:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Biggest Lie A Man Will Ever Tell A Woman Revealed</title><link>https://untiligetmarried.com/2011/10/26/the-biggest-lie-a-man-will-ever-tell-a-woman-revealed/#comment-355281562</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Loved it. Everyone lies and they lie for different reasons each time. Naïveté to think my love interest would even say I'm the girl of his dreams—not because I'm not, but because over the course of his life I expect him to have had a lot of dreams, hopefully before he knew me. I don't want a man that thinks the sun sets and rises in my eyes, that's a huge turn off. If I am his dreamgal, he'd better keep that to himself and say something a little more original and qualifiable. Maybe he can tell me he likes the way I match up the socks, the way I baked the honey lemon chicken, or when I rolled over the other morning... yes, that's what I want him to rattle off about. Thanks Jozen, actually. Don't you foolish women want a man that doesn't FEEL inclined to lie to your *ss? Ok, well, make him comfortable. You know damn well you aren't the woman of his dreams or any other man's dreams, especially if you're upset about this post. "You are the man of my dreams" phwahhh. It wouldn't come out of my mouth. If so, that's something that is felt, not said. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 21:48:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Queues at capacity</title><link>http://staff.tumblr.com/post/1210604148#comment-82429748</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Awesome!!! I love the queue feature. Hey, no worries. Life happens. I'm sure it'll be better than ever. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2010 13:21:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://lalanii.tumblr.com/post/356690093</title><link>http://lalanii.tumblr.com/post/356690093#comment-55604054</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm sooooo late. It's my favorite font it's called A LITTLE POT. XOXOXO &lt;br&gt;LOvEs, &lt;br&gt;lanii&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 21:03:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://lalanii.tumblr.com/post/358512134</title><link>http://lalanii.tumblr.com/post/358512134#comment-55602533</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm terrible with my comment reply. I cannot keep up! XOXOX Kisses!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:52:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://macnc40.tumblr.com/post/680663713</title><link>http://macnc40.tumblr.com/post/680663713#comment-55511947</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Here’s the thing… I would watch your videos and think you make that look SOOO easy. Then try and almost poke my eye out, or start tearing up! Tears all down my face like my eyelids are allergic!!! HAHAHA! Why o whyyyyy can’t my make-up turn out like yours??? So beautiful…  Lol! Anywho… looking forward to the new videos, congrats on the new place/life, and when/if I get married, honey you're hired!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Always yours, &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 13:28:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/541865562</title><link>http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/541865562#comment-49427708</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Shantell.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Nice to meet you!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My other poems are at &lt;a href="http://lalanii.com" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="lalanii.com"&gt;lalanii.com&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://blog.myspace.com/lalanii" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://blog.myspace.com/lalanii"&gt;http://blog.myspace.com/lal...&lt;/a&gt;\\  \\&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most of the poetry I have displayed there are love poems/spoken word... as I am in my first year of my masters program. I write fashion blurbs and am looking for work on a visual team designing mannequins/window displays. Write back and let me know what you think of the poems! Or if you have any requests let me know...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'll have more posted soon!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hugs and write any time!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lalanii&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 20:03:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/451060630</title><link>http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/451060630#comment-48399269</link><description>&lt;p&gt;LOLZ!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 16:29:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/528856582</title><link>http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/528856582#comment-45776640</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I emailed you. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 01:08:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/516734931</title><link>http://fashionpoetrylalanii.com/post/516734931#comment-44731045</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Urban Outfitters, hurry! XOXOXO Kisssses!!!! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 10:32:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Tyler Knott</title><link>http://tylerknott.com/post/266634232#comment-24633230</link><description>&lt;p&gt;O, Tyler I lOoOooOove this. WOW! YOU MADE A VERY GOOD CHOICE!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:44:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: the Upside</title><link>http://danielleashby.com/post/265062498#comment-24443478</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hey Danielle,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;THANK YOU. Sometimes I feel like no one is really listening so it's great to know you've heard me. I love that. I'm drowning over here sometimes. And yes; you were EXACTLY right with your thoughts and this poem tells some of the reasons I no longer believe in soulmates, but rather wish on the idea.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All yours xoxo! &lt;br&gt;Lalanii&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 12:33:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: My name is lalanii and i&amp;#039;m a shopaholic. I don&amp;#039;t want to change. </title><link>http://misstressmay.tumblr.com/post/234254070#comment-21979189</link><description>&lt;p&gt;HAHAHAHAH! You're here too? I knew you were familiar... &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:43:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: May's Mayhem, Maydays and Maybes...</title><link>http://misstressmay.tumblr.com/post/195033418#comment-17225445</link><description>&lt;p&gt;hahahah! anal obsessives... i love you!!!! i wouldn't have folded them that way either... but beautiful nonetheless!!!! :-) XOXOXO&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: lalanii. stat. - I&amp;#039;m SOoO LATE ...................................................But now I have COMMENTS ENABLED!!!</title><link>http://lalanii.tumblr.com/post/190345549#comment-16835793</link><description>&lt;p&gt;hahahahah! hiya!!!! :-) &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 17:07:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Last Night&amp;#039;s 1st Date With The Crazy Gym Chick</title><link>http://singlemansdiary.com/post/123073386#comment-11481994</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wait. I'm still at the Mexican Body Wrestler part. Lol.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Awesome writing Singleman, I love it all. Raunchy. Sweet. Honest. Real incite into how you think and that's interesting. Don't let any negative/positive feedback affect you. Whose blog is this? YOURS.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lanii. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 16:39:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I&amp;#039;ll probably just have some cheese. That&amp;#039;ll make things better.</title><link>http://andeventhis.tumblr.com/post/120620837#comment-10700988</link><description>&lt;p&gt;hahahahah! sounds like meeeeeeeeeeeee!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 12:02:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Never Have I Been</title><link>http://tylerknott.com/post/93569742#comment-7976831</link><description>&lt;p&gt;WOWOWOWOWO!!! i &amp;lt;3 it.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 11:21:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: And even this...</title><link>http://andeventhis.tumblr.com/post/90217886#comment-7562040</link><description>&lt;p&gt;i know right all the way through your bed&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 13:22:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: And even this...</title><link>http://andeventhis.tumblr.com/post/83503583#comment-6873911</link><description>&lt;p&gt;o lord. i woulda crashed my car. not a good look. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 12:14:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Justo</title><link>http://justo.tumblr.com/post/81434179#comment-6615162</link><description>&lt;p&gt;cute cute cute cute... did i mention this was cute?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 12:05:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Barely Sarcasm - GPOYW - working at work and on the phone with my...</title><link>http://barelysarcasm.tumblr.com/post/79492407#comment-6471592</link><description>&lt;p&gt;hot&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 17:18:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Tyler Knott Photography</title><link>http://tylerknott.com/post/79721807#comment-6442336</link><description>&lt;p&gt;i'm going to say I LOVE it. even though those words don't do it justice.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lalanii R. Grant</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 17:30:36 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>