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Re: Beyoncé Accused of Photoshopping Her Bikini Photos…Again + Bey & Jay Reportedly Settle On $85 Million Mansion [Photos]

kweenkiwi — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 23:57:27 -0000

I just have a suggestion for the site. If you're going to have so many pics, install a slide show widget. Going in and out of the page is inconvenient.

Re: It Happened To Me: I Saw A White Girl On My Train And I’m Suddenly Uncomfortable With It

kweenkiwi — Thu, 30 Jan 2014 12:37:52 -0000

I don't know if I'm laughing more at the possibly stolen Latino child, the cerulean orbs or the deceptively spicy mild salsa...among so many other things...I live. lol this post is EVERYTHING!!

Re: Open Letter: What Really Happened to Me at the BET Awards

kweenkiwi — Tue, 02 Jul 2013 03:11:01 -0000

I for one am pissed and was hurt FOR you, B. We all (especially your love muffins who watch you and love you) know exactly who you are! I felt as if they tried to break you down purposely and that was heinous. You didn't deserve that at ALL. I for one am DONE with BET and their programming. That was my last viewing of anything they have to offer. To invite you, "approve" you and then DISapprove you....wow, that was abuse. Period. Abuse of power, abuse of rights, ABUSE of spirit. God bless you, B. I pray you get the apology you deserve, even though I have a feeling it would be a day late and a dollar short. (((HUGS of love)))

Re: Black Mother of Two Who Died in Hurricane Sandy Was Refused Help By White Man

kweenkiwi — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 18:02:23 -0000

Folks make that shit a job. smh

Re: Black Mother of Two Who Died in Hurricane Sandy Was Refused Help By White Man

kweenkiwi — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 18:00:59 -0000

You're disrespectful ways do not defer from the truth. No one is talking about YOUR shit right now. We're talking about THIS situation. Two wrongs don't make a right. I personally, haven't and wouldn't deny a white person help because of race. Growing up would be not to assume I'm immature because you don't agree...now, kissing my ass...that's totally an option!

Re: Why Did He Stop Calling? Maybe Because Of One Of These Reasons

kweenkiwi — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 17:55:55 -0000

I, too am disconcerted that the reason why a MAN won't call has everything to do with what a woman does or doesn't do. What happened to us all being responsible for our own behavior? Why is it a must that the issue is the woman. Perhaps, even if it WERE something a woman did...wouldn't it be more of an adult thing, for a man to properly disconnect himself? Communicate to the person in question that he is no longer interested or vested? Everything is relative. He may deem her normal affection as clingy because perhaps HE is emotionally insecure and detached. We could do the blame game all day, but it will always come back around to an adult being an adult, facing the music and stating their position with respect.

Re: A Misfit's Musings: When People Don't Understand Something...

kweenkiwi — Sun, 04 Nov 2012 12:19:59 -0000

Yep. I have those days where I simply can't get up on my own and I'm internally frustrated with my mother for not remembering that just because I have an alarm doesn't mean it's working. Sometimes I need the extra tap on the door to see if I'm up. I woke up 20mins before I was supposed to be to work the other day. Normally, I'm good. Like I told you. I've learned my personal pattern and can almost tell when I'm having "episodes" of involuntary sleep. For the most part, I still can never really tell WHEN I'll fall asleep or for how long, but at least the time of day gives me an idea as to the possibilities.

I hope you get some help soon...not medical help...emotional support. Having someone or many someones to be there for you is important. "You Don't Look Sick" is on Facebook, too.

Re: Black Mother of Two Who Died in Hurricane Sandy Was Refused Help By White Man

kweenkiwi — Fri, 02 Nov 2012 19:22:52 -0000

This is ridiculous...there's NO excuse for this. none. To leave ANYONE out in that destruction with a clear conscience is evil to me. Dispute that if you will, but no way was this right.

Re: Why Would I Want To Be A Lady?

kweenkiwi — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 10:41:12 -0000

I agree with every word written. Far too often we let society's men, community's men, family's men...tell us what a lady is. Hell, even a woman for that matter. We are DEFINITELY "inherently whole and precious".

Re: KEEPING IT REALITY: Love and Hip Hop Atlanta Episode 3 Recap

kweenkiwi — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 16:43:50 -0000

LMFAOO @ this whole recap. You, Luvvie...are a cut up!! I'm still giggling at "help him pack his small white tees" *does a Luvvie wall slide because I'm too weak*

Re: Nick Cannon Discusses Rare Form of Lupus, Kidney Disease Awareness & Dr. Carey’s Medicine on GMA! [Video]

kweenkiwi — Mon, 05 Mar 2012 16:09:30 -0000

Oh man, I pray Nick feels better and that his health improves. I personally love he and Mariah together. God bless them!

Re: One Opinionated Woman: Twitter Discovery: Luvvie Ajayi

kweenkiwi — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 12:11:45 -0000

She is DEFINITELY awesome. I love her writing style and wit and I'm proud of her and Afrobella both for kicking the door in on everything fabulous and necessary...okay, and some senseless fun! lol Beautiful post!!

Re: http://www.insaneasylumblog.com/2011/10/facebook-check-in-leads-to-arrest.html

kweenkiwi — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 18:05:19 -0000

Yep. Folks' minds have been eaten by the bits and bytes of the Internet...I ain't checking in with nobody but GOD. Hmph!

Re: http://thequeenscastle.net/post/7341166327

kweenkiwi — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 23:04:47 -0000

She does look good! I'd love to the see the babies...I hope we don't have to wait until they're like 3. lol

Re: My Twisted Mind: Question: SHOULD they put a ring on it?

kweenkiwi — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 21:27:09 -0000

If I'm married and my husband decides he doesn't want to wear his ring...it's an issue for me. Unless we're THAT kinda couple that doesn't hold significance to the jewelry of matrimony...then wear that shit. A lot of couples don't believe in it, they don't think it's necessary if there's trust...blah muhfuckin blah. Truth is...if you've taken the initiative to stand in front of God (ceremoniously) and commit to the institution of marriage...then respect what comes with it. If you didn't care about the rings...then why marry under society's standard? Be commonwealth and get finger tattoos or some shit. LOL

I just think it's at the least a public statement to your commitment. Then it serves as a "deflector" of sorts to those who actually have respect for it's symbolism. Otherwise, don't kid yourself. If you're not ready to behave as a married person...why bother?

Re: CEO Superintendent of Failing Urban School District Calls Black Girls “Our Worst Enemy”

kweenkiwi — Fri, 20 May 2011 16:58:46 -0000

Wow...Black women/girls are REALLY taking a beating lately. I sometimes wonder if the male population isn't trying to make us obsolete...I mean, technically...the world doesn't "need" us. Black children can continue to be born through Non-Black women and basically put the Black seed "through the rinse". We've been blamed for EVERY damn thing and personally it's getting ridiculous.

Tracy you did a great job with this blog...thanks for representing and being the exception to this dude's rule O_O

Re: Primal's ponderings: In support of the "30 day Erotic Challenge"

kweenkiwi — Tue, 17 May 2011 03:25:31 -0000

Aw, thanks Prime! :)

Re: Pepsi Max: Jungle Fever in a Can, Baby!!!

kweenkiwi — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 19:13:19 -0000

I actually thought it was funny. What "I" saw, was a Black woman doing things to keep her man healthy...and then at the end...I saw HIM save HER ass in a park. "Let's go Boo!" That's real love. lmaoo

I find that so many of "us" are quick to pull out the race card, but in our everyday attitudes, speak and actions...we, too can be discriminatory. Yes, it's got the racist tinge to it...but if I'm not mistaken they also had commercials for the Superbowl that could've infuriated some of the gay community. (oops, someone's gonna get me for that comparison). Any damn way...back to lmao. She got KNOCKED the fugg out! LOL

Re: Black Indiana Teen Sings National Anthem "Too Black", Asked to Sing the "Less Black-More Traditional" Version After Complaints

kweenkiwi — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 05:09:51 -0000

I'm gonna go ahead and chuckle NOW @ the overuse of "post-racial"...yea...right.

I'm neither shocked and appalled. Actually, I'm more shocked and appalled at my inability to be shocked and appalled...but, not really.

To me, it IS a violation of her artistic expression. The song's lyrics still make it the same song, but I suppose they're haters. Yep...hatin' ass monotoned haters who probably can't understand the lyrics with all that "flava". O_O

What I think is quite PUNK ASS is that the school never had a problem with the way she sung it until Kluxville had to bring it to their attention. "Remember whose side you're on boy, get that nigger in line...too much house love over there." That's what it looks like to me.

I do respect sis for redoing it in the fashion in which they requested...a sista like me would've said...HELL NO. I WON'T FLOW! I ain't singing JACKOLA. Get Becky to do it. Ooops...sorry, I forgot. This is post-racial America.

Re: My Twisted Mind: Headphones = Leave me the Fuck alone!

kweenkiwi — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 13:28:31 -0000

LMAO...I sooo agree. My mom has the annoying habit of doing ALL of that. AND...AND...when I'm on the damn phone this chick act like she doesn't see me with a cell to my face. WTF...(pointing at phone) don't you see this dude?

Let it be HER though? I get all kinds of looks, snappy responses and even the occasional diss to whomever she's speaking to, "She SEE me on the phone..." Oh NO you didn't!!!

Maaan...I'm riled up now. lol

Re: No Wedding, No Womb: DICK, DUDES, & DECISIONS [#NWNW]

kweenkiwi — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 13:07:26 -0000

Yes! Now THAT I can get with. That whole idea of marriage making it better was pissing me off. Married people can be as unhappy, irresponsible and clueless as a single person can be. All of that talking down on how "unwanted" a woman with children is in this society...as if these chicks are speaking for men all over the world. It felt like an attempt to make women who are already in the single mom position...feel badly for their lives. No good.

Value. Of self, your body, your life's direction, respect upon your person entirely! THAT is what needs promoting. I love me some Tracy Renee! lol

Re: THE INTERSECTION | MADNESS & REALITY: So this is What Republicans Do on Friday Nights! Damn I Love the Post-Racialness!!

kweenkiwi — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 19:44:38 -0000

Not surprised, not at all. I don't know WHY some people really think that the racism of yesterday isn't the racism of today. If people could really see what's going on behind closed doors in the name of political parties and secret orders...they'd never be the same. There are layers upon layers of inner sanctum rituals that have yet to be revealed. Unlearn and re-learn.

Re: THE INTERSECTION | MADNESS & REALITY: Random Thoughts

kweenkiwi — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 19:49:57 -0000

Your brain is sexy man! haha! I haven't seen anything from you since the Ply! Your thought process is bananas.

Crazy how you go from your own personal issue to your final point. Random, but relevant. I'm not going into the whole political opinion debate. I got the gist of your post and that's all that matters.

Re: Fantasia, Suicide, & the Natural Progression of Hoe-Shit

kweenkiwi — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 19:11:39 -0000

I read Wizzy's comment...I love my bro. He touched on a lot of how I feel. I do believe in caring about people...so, I'm not totally "Her dumb ass deserved it"...I'm more like, "Damn, Tasia...why?" My only issue is judgment. Yes, I felt badly for McNair. Even though relationships make you WANT to pop a cap in someone's dome...it's not enough reason to take someone's life or take your own and that is something I'll never agree with. Your anger, resentment, feelings is NOT enough to decide for someone else if they should live and yes, it's selfish to attempt suicide...but those things are usually the actions of people who have one psychosis or another. There's nothing "normal" about thinking that way. You can't apply logic to an illogical thing. THAT is insanity.

I concur with and repeat what Wizzy said. These celebrities are people, too. They just have more means and opportunities to screw up. Giving someone millions of dollars doesn't improve their IQ...just their status quo. Until your slate is wiped clean and you can genuinely say that you're living right...who are you to judge? With all that's reported and written you can never be sure of the gray area details. Have a damn heart. And guess what? If you don't have sympathy so be it...but that doesn't change the truth of THEIR lives. I try not to even be concerned for what they do privately. As a matter of fact, sing for me and that's it. I didn't even know about this affair until the "suicide attempt" was posted on every other FB friend's page. lol

*mumbling* I get tired of folks passing out judgments like candy...we are SO hard on our own people...damn ridiculous.

Re: Can it be that Halle Berry is just as bad at picking crappy men as the rest of you?

kweenkiwi — Tue, 04 May 2010 16:13:34 -0000

(taking as a sign that the wind is ripping around my house as an omen of how I'm about to rip Rippa's ass up) lol

Rip...this some bullshit. You know this, right? What's getting me is the insistence that it's ALL her. Yea, yea, yea...it is indeed a result of her choice of men. Yet, are you absolutely sure that each time...SHE is getting the old heave ho? You sure? I mean, what if chick get tide of upgrading a mofo and he still can't find some ack right? He still chewing the clit, etc...I'm just saying...

NO one can be 100% or even 20% sure what it is. Her crazy? Well, that's a possibility since all us women are crazy, right? O_o BULLSHIT. Men do some effed up things...and eventually, a chick's intuition twitches like her eye 10 secs before she pounces.

WHAT if...she's believing her OWN hype? "I'm Halle Berry, bitch!" What if she's around there expecting dude to do some unnatural shit for her love...or because she IS Halle...he's looking to do unnatural things with HER. "Halle...please...pee on me girl..." AGAIN...I'm just saying.

We can speculate, assume, build scenario after scenario...but the truth is...that most of these Hollywood relationships have a short shelf life. There are plenty of reasons why that is...but, the truth is...a LOT of people take love lightly. A lot of people DON'T want to be alone. Some want to just have fun. Some want a notch on their belt. SOME are pretending not to be gay...it's all kinds of things. And it's not just rich gorgeous Halle folk...but regular ole, average ass looking folk with empty pockets, facial/body flaws and wack ass bedroom skills. Add all of that together...and eventually...even HALLE is gonna fall through the cracks. Stop beating that woman up.

Halle...go solo for a while boo. lol