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Re: The Talk

Deon — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 02:38:39 -0000

First of all, let me thank you all. I have been ready and wanting to have this talk with him. I just didn't want to end our little conversation feeling like it was incomplete.

I have been given some great advice. Most stated I should be direct and sure. I was told to let the parent role go for a bit. I know I have to be sure and upfront. I also learned that I could give him information and let him come to me with thoughts, questions and concerns. I was given the ideas to demonstrate proper prophylactic use and discussing other methods of birth control. Talking to and interacting with girls and how to know if a girl likes him all also came up.

I have decided to have a father/son or just boys day out with him. Just the two of us, having fun... maybe a movie and dinner at one of our favorite spots. Maybe we might get away for a weekend. I figure it would be easier to ease him and myself into it and set the pace of the conversation if I we can talk through out the day. Not just about sex, but whatever might be on his mind. I don't want to rush into then out of it.

I am ready though. I will keep you guys up to date.

Re: Still Waiting

Deon — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 00:12:59 -0000

Damn, well at least you are direct & to the point. I find that the people at my agency isn't being given enough information to let us know what is going on. The company I am trying to get into is feeding them bits and pieces. I informed them of somethings. They weren't even aware that there were additional assessments the company wants us to take part in. I am just really tired of waiting. They want me to return Monday evening for "pod" training. Funny thing is, no one has ever heard of that before.

Re: I am means…..

Deon — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 14:17:28 -0000

The struggle... I am too in a constant struggle. I love the way you write. This is the second post I've read and I can't wait for the next... I think the reward of our struggles are the lessons we learn. I have had it kinda hard recently. Things are better now, but I have learned to appreciate my struggle in it's moment as it seems you have. My current struggle... Love... I think that sums it all up.

Re: Remember

Deon — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 00:22:07 -0000

I am trying to live more in the here and keep an eye on future. I have been doing a good job recently but it's still hard sometimes. I will get it though... Someday... Hopefully soon.

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from Nameless

Deon — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 09:36:37 -0000

LOL He seems more interested in her than the book...

Re: Check to Check

Deon — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 20:46:12 -0000

Unfortunately, for me, at the moment, it isn't that simple. Due to my living situation, I am not in position to cook or even refrigerate food.

This week, I started buying from Fresh Direct. I figure, I could get some fruits and canned goods to microwave. So far, I am only buying food while out and it seems as though, I have put myself on a bit of a diet. Let's see how this goes.

Re: aday

Deon — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 14:18:19 -0000

Just because!

Re: Blog Updates

Deon — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 18:08:43 -0000

Switching to Disqus you can import all of your old comments over to the new system.

Unfortunately, I have found that things aren't so easy over on Blogger. I wanted to import my comments on the old blog. I have received a lot of feedback, both positive and negative. It would have been nice to see how they stack up all together, not to mention the trip down memory lane. Perhaps, I should have just migrated the older posts when I switched to WordPress... I don't know! I wonder, if I were to import, would it bring my comments with the posts and keep the posts in order? I don't want to do that though, upon further thought, it would break a lot of links.

I guess I have to accept things as they are for the moment. I suppose, all things are as they should be.

Re: Manly Monday: Jezebel - The Unfuckables

Deon — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 11:12:20 -0000

LOL @ blow job... My X used to ask for a blow job all the time, it confused me.

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from Nameless

Deon — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:22:04 -0000

Still don't understand why women have to carry such big bags... Then either have a drug store in there or nothing at all...

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from D Rox

Deon — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 18:44:36 -0000

Looks good!

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from Brittany

Deon — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 12:39:24 -0000

Turkey or pork? Is them grits I see in the background? Haven't had that in a looong time. Where are the cheese eggs and biscuits?

Re: On the Second Day… I never thought

Deon — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 20:55:28 -0000

She is still around. Just thought she was playing before. She just texted me, right before I received the notification for this comment. I don't know where this is going or even if it will go any further. Right now, we are friends and getting to know each other. She also realizes that this is very new for me and is giving me the space to explore myself and anything else I need to.

She even recognizes I have other friends and interests and is not getting funny about it. She just wants me to be happy.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:22:27 -0000

LOL too bad the sleep only lasted the one night. I seem to get enough sleep now every few days, but nothing near what it should be.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:26:49 -0000

I have been trying various things actually. Nothing will be a permanent fix until I can slow my mind down at night. I go into this overdrive and can't slow my thoughts, "The Noise." It just keeps getting louder and louder.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:28:08 -0000

I know! We have spent a lot of time plurking with and around each other after hours. I hope it has gotten better since the new edition :)

Re: phodroid | akaredz

Deon — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 12:34:28 -0000

Pretty! Was still in the tabs on my phone. Decided to comment today :)

Re: Random Updates, Part 1

Deon — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 09:06:55 -0000

I don't know what happened, but this was supposed to post the other day. I just realized it was in my recent drafts.

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from D Rox

Deon — Wed, 20 May 2009 12:54:34 -0000

Look at her all happy :)

Re: Men and their inability to be express themselves

Deon — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 13:12:34 -0000

I don't usually have a problem telling a woman how I feel. It's about delivery, I would much prefer to show her how I feel. Women, say they want a man to be more open, but sometimes like Knowledge... pointed out, these guys are not favored. They do get cut fast... Emotional men can be overwhelming.

I am cut a little different because I had a hand in raising a bunch of girls, when I was just a boy myself. I know what it is to be a man and I had to teach them to be women. It wasn't beneficial to me to shut off. While I may not be completely happy with how the women turned out, I think they will raise better girls. I see it already in how my cousin deals with her daughter.

It's OK for men to be emotional sometime. The emotional cut off extends far beyond guy / girl issues. Many times men never tell their sons that they love them. My son knows, he will be able to say it to his son and I know he can deal with women, or in his case girls, very intelligently. Like he said, all girls are different and you have to treat them that way.

That being said, I do have my shut off points. On the surface, I am the strong silent type... But I have learned when to say and / or do what need to be said or done. I try to be respond appropriately. If you are unsure about something, just ask... Even if I couldn't tell you, right then and there, my eyes will not lie.

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from D Rox

Deon — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:08:08 -0000

LMAO!

Re: Ping.fm / Uploaded Image from Devyl

Deon — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 21:41:51 -0000

LOL :)

Re: http://yellowmello.tumblr.com/post/2560166896

Deon — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 12:02:35 -0000

This is dope. I want one...

Re: Nicki Minaj Ft. Rihanna – Fly [Video]

Deon — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 17:42:55 -0000

LOL funny how similar this was to my thoughts. I love the post apocalyptic imagery but I agree, the video would have been better without the fight scene.

Re: AllThickWomen, What show is this from!

Deon — Sun, 09 Jun 2013 21:02:40 -0000

Bad Girls Club Reunion.