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Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 13:15:11 -0000

hmmm.

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 13:02:54 -0000

yeah thats what is happening as crazy as it ay sound.

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:17:06 -0000

thankyou aurora your comments bring comfort to me and your story that you have experienced is so similar to mine, i hope my happy ending comes as he hasnt bought that ticket home yet and i am helping him through this, i will always love him no matter what he chooses. julie

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:11:00 -0000

my boyfriend told me everything when we first got together about his family, we decided it was worth fighting for and have tried everything to stay together, he told his mother he was marrying me and told her DONT arrange a marriage for me. she ignored him and went ahead anyway and arranged it. he is now saying if he doesnt return to marry this person the families will be at war and murders will be committed. he is really suicidal at this time and his life has been ruined. i knew what i was getting myself in for when we got together as we have always been honest with each other, so i didnt need to look at websites. i will suffer now but i would have rather spent these wonderful 7years with him than to of read up about what could happen and ended it years ago.

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:26:31 -0000

i mean thank u GoriGirl for your comment.

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:11:21 -0000

just ralised its GoriGirls comment i appreciate, thanku

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:59:38 -0000

we fell in love, you cant help who you fall in love with, he has been the love of my life, thankyou "rolls eyes" you understand! you just wouldnt google such a thing

Re: Arranged Marriages and Intercultural Relationships

juliejack — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:32:44 -0000

yeah you are probably right, it is so hard for me though as i trusted him all this time and we have had long discussions about this, we truly felt we were made for each other, thats why we let it go on for so long. thankyou for your comment .