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	 <a href="http://disqus.com/capitolgirl/"><img class="dsq-widget-avatar" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/noavatar92.png"></a>\
	 <a class="dsq-widget-user" href="http://disqus.com/capitolgirl/">capitolgirl</a>\
	 <span class="dsq-widget-comment">Wow, so much wisdom here! Women are especially susceptible to depleting themselves over and over as they try to do it all and make others happy, and consequently end up with nothing. Or worse, ill...</span>\
	 <p class="dsq-widget-meta"><a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/patterns.html">Patterns</a>&nbsp;&middot;&nbsp;<a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/patterns.html#comment-23619926">1 week ago</a></p>\
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	 <span class="dsq-widget-comment">my ex-wife is BPD, i lasted 10 years. how i found out about BPD is i googled "verbal abuse" and found a link to the book walking on eggshells, ordered it by mail, unfortunately she intercepted it...</span>\
	 <p class="dsq-widget-meta"><a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/06/you-can-recover-your-self.html">You Can Recover Your Self</a>&nbsp;&middot;&nbsp;<a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/06/you-can-recover-your-self.html#comment-23072201">2 weeks ago</a></p>\
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	 <a class="dsq-widget-user" href="http://disqus.com/tfiffer/">Tom Aplomb</a>\
	 <span class="dsq-widget-comment">Thank you for sharing this. I love the metaphor, and the advice is excellent.</span>\
	 <p class="dsq-widget-meta"><a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/empower-yourself.html">Empower Yourself</a>&nbsp;&middot;&nbsp;<a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/empower-yourself.html#comment-22834574">2 weeks ago</a></p>\
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	 <a class="dsq-widget-user" href="http://disqus.com/capitolgirl/">capitolgirl</a>\
	 <span class="dsq-widget-comment">10. Routinely imagine yourself a flowering plant: unique, a bright spot in the communal garden, hearty yet fragile, surrounded by other plantlife in a delicately balanced ecosystem. Are you getting...</span>\
	 <p class="dsq-widget-meta"><a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/empower-yourself.html">Empower Yourself</a>&nbsp;&middot;&nbsp;<a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/empower-yourself.html#comment-22833903">2 weeks ago</a></p>\
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	 <a class="dsq-widget-user" href="http://disqus.com/capitolgirl/">capitolgirl</a>\
	 <span class="dsq-widget-comment">Well put, compassionately put, and lovingly motivating. Pointing out that the sun and its light have remained the whole time is brilliant. Thank you, Tom.</span>\
	 <p class="dsq-widget-meta"><a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/hope.html">Hope</a>&nbsp;&middot;&nbsp;<a href="http://tomaplomb.blogspot.com/2009/11/hope.html#comment-21859160">4 weeks ago</a></p>\
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