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Is beating a woman, a sign of masculinity?---GOOD QUESTION !BUT INSTEAD OF SHOWING YOUR EMOTIONAL DRAMA ABOUT WOMEN INEQUALITY INSOCIETY—WHY NOT START FROM YOUR OWN HOUSE—i.e …..FILM INDUSTRY….YOU ARE JUST ADOUBLE FACED HYPOCRITE---DO YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO CALL THE FOLLOWING ACTORS WHOHAVE BEEN ACCUSED OF GENDER INEQUALITY, TO YOUR SHOW … (MENTIONED BELOW) :-- ( All the cases have been settled out ofcourt and brushed under the carpet)---
1. October 5, 2011--Sexual harassment case against Nagarjuna
Nagarjuna was in the news for a wrong reason. A womanfreelance journalist filed a sexual harassment case against him at the JubileeHills police station in Hyderabad under Section 506 (illegal confinement of aperson) and Section 509 (outraging the modesty of a woman) of the Indian PenalCode.
2. 16 Mar,2011----Chiranjeevi'sdaughter Srija, who eloped to get married to Sirish Bharadwaj on October 17,2007, is making headlines yet again with her marriage, but this time with herfiling a case of dowry harassment against her husband Sirish.
3. August 13, 2001---CHANDIGARH
Nirupa Roy faces dowry case
chandigarh: yesteryears'"perfect mother" of silverscreen nirupa roy has been charged in a dowry case by herdaughter-in-law in panchkula near here, haryana police said on sunday. "acase has been filed by the veteran actress' daughter-in-law una roy withpanchkula police and a team headed by an inspector would be leaving for mumbaisoon," panchkula sp manoj yadav said. the charges against the star, whomost often played the role of a sobbing mother and an affectionatemother-in-law, included causing cruelty to...
August 25, 2001
panchkula, haryana: a court here saurday adjourned tillaugust 27 the anticipatory bail plea of veteran bollywood actress nirupa royand two others in a dowry harassment case. additional district and sessionsjudge h s bhangoo adjourned the case after nirupa roy's counsel told the court that the familywas trying to workout a compromise. the complainant, una roy,daughter-in-law of nirupa, submitted before the court that she has no objectionif the court grants anticipatory bail to her in-laws.
4. ShineyAhuja has been sentenced to seven years in prison for raping his maid. But thisis not the first time that Shiney has done something like this. In the pasttoo, this Gangster hero misbehaved on the sets. He tried to hug femaledirector; cozied up with make-up woman and Russian co-star.
Debutant director Puja Jatinder Bedi alleges the actor misbehaved on thesets of Mary Magdalene. She has a lot of stories to tell about the actor’slecherous and womanizing ways on the film’s sets.
Trouble and Shiney Ahuja, walk hand-in-hand. Yet again, Shiny lands himselfin hot soup. The actor has been written off from Bollywood, ever since he wasinvolved in a rape case. Now, the latest accusation he faces is of sexualharassment from actress Sayali Bhagat.
An upcoming horror flick Ghost has Sayali acting opposite Shiney Ahuja. Theactress recently revealed that during the shooting of the film, Shiney used tomake indecent passes at her. Buzz also has it that Shiney even pinched herbutt. However, Sayali denies it.
“During an intimate scene, he (Shiney) took me to the makeup room andmade me hold his hands and look into his eyes and feel the ‘warmth’. I chose toignore,” Sayali Bhagat says in an interview.
It also happened that during a scene where Sayali teaches him to chopvegetables, Shiney forced her to feel up his arms n number of times. Not jusSayali but the light-man too got frustrated and walked out. Even between shots,Shiny used to whisper in Sayali’s ear that they should hook up.
5. When KavyaMadhavan tied the knot with Nischal Chandra in February 2009, their friendsdescribed it as a marriage made in heaven. She was the reigning queen ofMollywood and he was a child actor turned businessman who understood movies.
Allegations and counter allegations flew thick and fastbetween the two sides with Kavya filing two cases against Chandra and hisfamily, including a dowry harassment complaint. After all this brouhaha, theduo officially decided to separate in October 2010 and jointly filed a divorcepetition in Ernakulam.
6. Veteranactress Amani and her family members have been dragged tocourt under dowry harassment case by herbrothers wife Sashikala. Its learnt that, Amani and her family members haveharassed her and forced her to separate from her husband as she fails to meettheir demands. Sashikala, who is living with her parents now, has filed a petition in Nelloer court againstAmani, her husband and other members of their family.
Earlier, it was reported by a leading Telugu News Channel that, Amani, herbrother and family members have locked Sashikala inside a room while she washaving pains for delivery. It reported that, neighbors who heard her screaminghave broke open the doors and rushed to her a near byhospital. Amani and her family members were severely criticized by one and allin the society for their cruel attitude shown towards their own family memberwho desperately needs their help at that moment.
Shashikala also accused in her petition that, her husband not only harassed herfor dowry but also married another girl before divorcing her. Therefore, Amaniand her family members were at receiving end in this case.
Mr aamir khan---go on callthese actors on your show---I am sure there are many more cases of ‘ Casting Couchstories’’ of bollywood….call them on your show….there are many obscene ways inwhich a women is portrayed in films made in india…call all those directors andproducers, too….YOU DO NOT HAVE THE GUTS TO SHOW THEIR FACES ON YOUR SHOW…BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT A HYPOCRITE YOU ARE…..AND THEN YOU GO ABOUT AND SHOWSTATASTICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASESALL OVER INDIA….IS BOLLYWOOD NOT PART OF THE SOCIETY AT LARGE…….INFACT THEINDUSTRY YOU REPRESENT…..THE INDUSTRY THAT HAS GIVEN YOU SO MUCH FAME….ABUSESWOMEN LIKE NO OTHER INDUSTRY…LIKE THE SONGS LYRICS THAT DEPICT WOMEN AS ‘ ITEMS’’---
1. Lyricsof Sheila Ki Jawani Song
I know you want it but you nevergonna get itTere haath kabhi na aaniMaane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, mere ishq ki hai deewani
Hey you, I know you want it but you never gonna get itTere haath kabhi na aaniMaane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, mere ishq ki hai deewaniAb dil karta hai haule haule se, main toh khud ko gale lagaunKisi aur ki mujhko zaroorat kya, main toh khud se pyaar jataun(what's my name, what's my name, what's my name)My name is SheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aaniNa na na sheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aani
Take it off, take it off, take it off, take it off
Silly silly silly silly boysO o o (you're so silly)Mujhe follow follow karte hainO o oHaan jab unki taraf dekhun, baatein haule haule karte hainYeh magar, beasar mujhpe har paintra
Haye re aise tarse humkoHo gaye sau arse reSookhey dil pe megha ban ke teri nazariya barse reI know you want it but you never gonna get itTere haath kabhi na aaniSheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aaniNa na na sheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aani
Paisa gaadi mehnga gharI need a man who can gimme all thatJaibein khaali fateecharNo no I don't, I don't like that
Chal yahan se nikal tujhe sab laa dungaKadmon mein tere laake jag rakh dungaKhwaab main kar dunga pooreNa rahenge adhooreYou know I'm going to love you like that, whatever
Haye re aise tarse humkoHo gaye sau arseSookhey dil pe megha ban ke teri nazariya barse reI know you want it but you never gonna get itYou never gonna get my bodyI know you want it but you never gonna get itTere haath kabhi na aaniMaane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, tere ishq ki main deewaniAb dil karta hai haule haule se, main toh khud ko gale lagaunKisi aur ki mujhko zaroorat kya, main toh khud se pyaar jataun(what's my name, what's my name, what's my name)My name is SheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aaniO no no sheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm too sexy for youMain tere haath na aaniSheelaSheela ki jawaniI'm way too sexy for youMain tere haath na aani
Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)Everybody want the body I have (sheela)Drive you crazy coz my name is (sheela)Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)Everybody want the body I have (sheela)Drive you crazy coz my name is (sheela)Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)
2. Here is the song 'Zara Zara Touch Me' frommovie 'Race'.
zara zara touch me touch me touch me
little little touch me touch me
zara zara kiss me kis me kis me
little little kis me kis me
zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me
little little hold me, hold me
zara zara o o o o o.......
little little o o o o o......
touch me, touch me, touch me zara zara kiss me, kiss me, kiss me
(bin tere sanam iss jahan mein, bekraar hum dam da dam da dam
without you i am restless in thisworld
bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (2)
without you i am restless in this world
(tera hi tera hi intzar hai, mujhe toh bas tujhse pyar hai
i am waiting for only you, i love only you
tera hi tera abb khumar hai, khud pe na mere ikhtiyar hai) - (2)
its only your intoxication, i dont have control on me
(yeh darde dil toh ho na agar, sataaye abb duriyo ka gum
there is no pain in heart but the grief of distanceis teasing me
behek jaye na yeh kadam, hai tujhe meri jaan ki kasam) - (2)
dont let my footsteps mislead, i am ing you swear of my life
bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (3)
3. Saari Duniya Mere Ispe Lyrics
Oh macho oh macho Play banjo play banjo Queen B yeah c’mon bhuh! Oh macho oh macho Play banjo play banjo
Hmm… saari duniya mere ispe Mere ispe... ispe Saari duniya mere ispe Mere ispe... ispe !
Jeb na apni khaali hai Apni baat nirali hai Naa koi nakhre wali hai yahaanHai yahaan
Din mein humne sona hai Raat mein sab kuch karna hai Peene ki koi tension nahi yahaan Nahi yahaan
Saari duniya mere ispe Mere ispe... ispe !Oh Oh OhOh macho oh macho Play banjo play banjo
Hai kisme dum, aage khade Kiska hai din bura jo humse lade Apna hai din, apni hai raatAayega kon yahaan jo humse bhide
Chhotta rajan apna bhai hai Daaud se apni kamaaiNahi kisi se ladaai hai yahaan
Na koi lafda shafda hai Kaam ye apna tagda hai Humse panga lega kaun yahaan Kaun yahaan
Neta abhineta mere ispe Mere ispe...ispeYeah yeahSheela ho ya munni Inki gaal pe lunga chummiPriyanka deepika kareena Tumhari choodi mein dunga nageena
Sun meri jacquelinaMera London jaaan chheenaKab aayega saawan maheenaToh main nikalunga tera paseena
Oh macho oh macho Play banjo play banjo High energy! Jhukna kabhi seekha nahiAur rukna humko to aata nahi
Aandhi tale baazi koiHaar ka humne to socha nahiPM se apna pyaar haiCM apna yaar hai Gathbandhan sarkar hai yahaan Hai yahaan
Rab se apna naata hai Wo bhi humko chahta hai Paap-punya ki gin.ti nahi yahaan Nahi yahaan
Aandu Ye sabhi gapaandu mere ispe Mere ispe...ispe Saari duniya mere ispe Mere ispe,ispe Oh macho oh machoPlay banjo play banjo
Ha ha huh..Taat lo patte ……AND MORE SONGS LYRICS(CHIKNI CHAMELI, ETC…)
MR. AAMIRKHAN INSTEAD OF CHANGING THE WHOLE OF INDIA, START BY CHANGING YOUR FILMINDUSTRY AND STOP DEGRADING A WOMEN TO A STATURE OF AN ITEM….THIS IS YOUR MORALAND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY…BECAUSE IN INDIA EVERYONE IS INFLUENCED BY FILMSTARS….THIS SHOW IS ALSO GETTING SO MUCH TRP… ONLY BECAUSE IT IS HOSTED BY AFILM STAR…BE MORE RESPONSIBLE !!
To Amar1303 (who callshimself TRUE INDIAN)
Read verycarefully, Mr. Aamir Khan has nothing to do with all those actors, directors,lyricists, etc. He is just trying to bring the reality to common people. Moreover,what has happened with MS. NIRUPA ROY, MS AAMINI etc. is their personal lifeand not related to the film industry as you said repeatedly and if you wantedthem there on screen you cannot show all the examples at the one hour program.He just showed the extreme cases. I have read a page full of negative pointsregarding his work SATYAMEV JAYATE, and I am shocked to see those points. Evenif someone is trying to do the best for the society, for the people, there aredark minded people who only look for the negative effect of somethingregardless of the majority of the positive effects. I hate such guys whothemselves don't even try to bring good for the society but in addition to thatbring barriers to those who try... Aamir Khan is one of the personalities who aretrying his best to eradicate the darker side of the society and you (AMAR1303)are his barrier. In addition, we all want that moment when everyone includingyou (AMAR1303) will become the driving force to these angels of the society andthen only we can actually win over all our problems.
Well lets start with dark minded people who only look for the negative effect of something, LIKE YOU FOR EXAMPLE.... WHAT AN IRONY YOU ARE. SUPPOSE YOU HAVE RASHES ALL OVER YOUR BODY AND THE DOCTOR SAYS THAT LETS JUST TREAT YOUR HANDS AND FORGET THE REST OF YOUR BODY.....YOU HAVE TO TREAT THE COMPLETE BODY....ITS ONLY WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND ALL ASPECTS OF THE PROBLEM THEN ONLY YOU CAN FIND A SOLUTION......YOU CANNOT LEAVE ANY ONE OUT OF THE PROBLEM....YOU SEEM TO BE AS BIASED AND ONE SIDED IN YOUR THINKING AS AAMIR KHAN. I AM SO SHOCKED AFTER READING YOUR COMMENT THAT I HATE TO COMMENT FURTHER....BECAUSE YOU ARE JUST A WASTE ...!!
sorry my friend you had understand the fact which true indian want to show to satyamev jayate team it is not because as you address the things like mr aamir wants to show the reality of society what you call as darkness of soceity but to address both the things side by side as film industries has a great influence on our soceity. Plz think over it.
Absolutely Great, True and straight on face.It would be great if Mr. Khan can gather the guts to bring his own wife (first) on the show for her story.It would be basic expectation with Mr. Khan to atleast do some basic research before throwing wrong numbers and blatant lies in the public.
What happens to a mother and father when their married son dies? If you are not aware, only based on suicides, one married man commits suicide every 9 minutes in India. In terms of Deaths, of all reported cases, 92% deaths are for males in India and then you spread women are victims? Just because media and people like you dont let Husband Killings, Husband Suicides, Male Foeticide come to Blind Indians, doesnt mean that your FALSE statistics have any truth in them.
Type your comment here.Absolutely right. There is no news about the Husbands torchured by Wives. There should also be NGO/Men Cell to listen their problems, which created by their wives unnecessary.
Male foeticide ???? What a laughing stock. Which world do you live in ?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?...have a look
last time I checked he was/is the only one out there trying to make a CHANGE. what have you done so far to make India a better place. He's bringing these issues in front of India, to education people, to make them understand that things are NOT suppose to be that way. STOP pin point out the mistakes and for once in your life appreciate the effort he has put to make INDIA a better place for everyone. Having said that, I do agree with everything you said, BUT certain things can only be said at certain times. So, I suggested you start appreciating the EFFORT before you said pointing fingers at people.
SEX..... I CANNOT FIGURE OUT, IF THERE IS A PROBLEM INYOUR NAME OR IN YOUR MIND OR BOTH.
ANYWAYS, THERE IS A SAYING IF YOU WANT CHANGE, THEN START FROM YOUR OWNHOUSE. IF MR. AAMIR KHAN IS SO CONCERNED ABOUT GENDER INEQUALITY, DOMESTICVIOLENCE IN WHOLE OF INDIA, THEN MY QUESTION TO AAMIR KHAN PRODUCTIONS IS WHYARE YOU SO BIASED, PARTIAL, POLARIZED IN YOUR THINKING AND RESEARCH TOWARDSWOMEN IN GENERAL:- FACTS ARE:-
1. THERE ARE CASES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SEXUAL ABUSE, CASTING COUCH ISSUES,NEW ASPIRING MODELS BEING MISTREATED AND ABUSED IN BOLLYWOOD--WHY ARE THEY NOTBEING MENTIONED IN THIS SHOW AND IN ALL THESE YEARS IN THE FILM INDUSTRY, MRAAMIR KHAN COULD NOT RAISE HIS VOICE THROUGH MEDIA ABOUT ALL THE WRONG THINGSAGAINST WOMEN, THAT HAS HAPPENED AND CONTINUES TO HAPPEN IN FILM INDUSTRY...AND NOW HE WANTS THE WOMEN ALL OVER INDIA, NOT TO BE MISTREATED...WHATAN IRONY.
...ALSO THE FILM INDUSTRY THAT HE SO REPRESENTS, MAKES SONGS OF WOMEN AS ITEMS,SHOW WOMEN IN BAD TASTE AS IF THEY ARE ONLY ITEMS OF GLAMOUR ANDEYE-CANDY...WHY DOES HE NOT GO TO THE CENSOR BOARD AND THEN TO THE MEDIA TOHIGHLIGHT THIS MISREPRESENTATION OF A WOMEN.......HE DOES NOT HAVE THEGUTS..... INFACT, IT IS HIM WHO IS POINTING FINGERS AT OTHERS, WHEN HE SHOULDBE CLEANING HIS OWN HOUSE....
AND THEN YOU MENTIONED-- " He's bringing these issues in front of India,to education people, to make them understand that things are NOT suppose to bethat way.".....WELL YOU REALLY UNDERESTIMATE THIS COUNTRY....DO YOU THINKTHAT PEOPLE ARE SO UNEDUCATED AND NOT AWARE OF INEQUALITY OF GENDER ININDIA....
WHAT ABOUT CASES OF MISUSE OF SECTION 498a IPC---WHERE IS THE GENDER EQUALITYIN SUCH LAWS...WHAT ABOUT HARASSMENT BY MONEY HUNGRY WIVES MISTREATING THEIRHUSBANDS AND THEIR FAMILIES.....Mr/Mrs.SEX, BEFORE YOU SPIT SOMETHING OUTOF YOUR MOUTH, KINDLY TASTE IT YOURSELF, TOO !!
2. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MUCH INFLUENCE BOLLYWOOD FILM STARS AND SONGS HAVEOVER THE NEW GENERATION..... THERE ARE SO MANY PARENTS DRESSING UP THEIR DAUGHTERSAS KATRINA FOR CHIKNI CHAMELI SONG OR SHEILA KI JAWANI SONG---IN THEIR SCHOOLPLAYS AND DRESS SHOWS....DOES ANYBODY EVEN REALIZE, THAT GIRLS HAVE TO MEMORIZETHOSE LYRICS WHICH ARE SO DEROGATORY TO WOMEN IN GENERAL.....THIS IS THE KINDOF INFLUENCE, BOLLYWOOD STARS HAVE ON YOUNG GIRLS AND THEN MR. AMMIR KHANTALKS ABOUT EQUALITY AND DIGNITY TO WOMENHOOD IN GENERAL...WHAT AN IRONY...HESHOULD BE MORE RESPONSIBLE OF THE KIND OF INFLUENCE HIS INDUSTRY HAS...THATSWHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT !! BUT I AM SURE YOU WILL NOT UNDERSTAND ANY OF THIS BECAUSE, YOU ONLY HAVESEX IN YOUR MIND..ERR... NAME...MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO FOR A CHANGE...A ''SEX''CHANGE.. TO UNDERSTAND EQUALITY OF GENDER....LOL !!
Let's try and understand the purpose of his show. Maybe you are right. But if we see from a positive side the show has a great impact on the younger generation like me. Supposing hypothetically I'm exposed to bollywood culture and think of women as 'item'. But then this show was definitely for me. I may learn from this show that I'm wrong. I may change my ideology. I may start respecting them. I mean the young are the future of India. They have to change their ideologies. What's done is done. The wrong past should be dead and buried. We have to learn from it. And someone trying to do just that should be appreciated for it. It is tough to change, buddy. A resistance runs deep in every human's veins. And I think a star like Aamir can make change a little bit easy owning the influence he has on people. I appreciate your post on Satyameva Jayate's website. And if you were banned because of it then it was wrong to do so from their side. But don't try and come too strong and one sided on Aamir. On one side you are accusing him of being a hypocrite and you are being just like him by seeing only the negative side. Learn to give credit where it is due. Instead of a blame game I would have loved a strong logical argument from your side. I mean you have done one good research. That means you are serious about the issue. But instead of trying to prove someone wrong or right and being judgmental, let's just appreciate the effort and pick up the good points. A better India is hoped for by all of us. And we will not see that hope fulfilled until we keep blaming each other for all the wrongs in our society. Please don't take this post the wrong way. If I have offended in any way I apologize. You definitely are a good critic.
Why to look at the black spot on a white paper? Look at the solutions he is giving for so many problems that people aren't aware of. YOU ARE ALSO OPPOSING THIS SHOW SO MUCH .. ONLY BECAUSE IT IS HOSTED BY A FILM STAR.. I agree he might be missing some points and even some inaccurate statistics like the men death rate but I guess his efforts to come up with all the possible things he can is more important than what he is not focusing on. You are looking at the points he did not bring to the show but do you think if you were in the same place would you have gutts to bring up those, people you mentioned, into the sets? Its obvious that you cannot do it and not because you or he has no gutts but its because you have to wind up the program, which is atleast trying to find solutions for many problems to make INDIA a better one, just because of such offence.
So, please do not try stopping the one who is doing something good for the nation. No one would like getting into loss to do some favor. Aamir ji postponed his film and left all other contracts just to put all his efforts in this project. Aamir ji is ofcourse responsible and hence he is doing all that is possible for him.
I appreciate Amir's initiative but he seems not to take hisresponsibility seriously. He should first investigate and reach the bottom ofany issue before broadcasting an episode. I am not disagreeing to the fact, thetorture and trauma women go through, but it is only ONE SIDE of the story. Doyou have any idea how many people, who are not brides (as for you only Bridesappear to be women) but for sure are women, going through the torture,violence, false allegation and humiliation vested by the WOMEN of yours’? Makesome small effort and go through the files in the police stations and courts,talk to the lawyers and REAL people!! You will see that more than 90% of theseallegations are false. On the contrary, these 'helpless' women falsely accusetheir husband, the in laws and whoever possibly in reach for them. In someparts of India, of course there are cases of torture and violence happening onwomen, some remote areas of India but what about those 'n' number of caseshappening in the broad daylight and all over the country? I am surprised toeven think that there are people in India who actually believe that the womenwho even want special seats in Metro Rails for a journey of 20 mins (on anaverage) and needs reservation in every aspect of life and SIMULTANEOUSLY keepson screaming for women liberation can be tortured by anyone. Also, the domesticviolence act is not only against the husband or the 'males', it is equally to harassthe women member of the grooms family. So, even if we are actually concernedabout the women, we should refer to the statistics that show that 98% cases ofDomestic Violence cases are false and 498A allegations are to teach husband andhis family a lesson and to make them bow down to the bride. Moreover, on anaverage, there are 4 women from the groom’s side harassed in every allegationof DV, which means almost 400 innocent women are tortured in order to givejustice to 2 actually tortured women, what a JUSTICE. And this is beinghighlighted all over the country through cinemas, TV shows, newspaper, etc. Thenation has some REAL expectation from Satyameva Jayate, I hope this showrestrains itself from gaining easy publicity, stop following the trend and comeup with some real issue, some current issue that actually needs to beportrayed. These so called issues are already popular and whole India is awareand there are acts and laws for it, bring up problem that our masses are notaware of and government doesn't seem to bother, only then will the show justifyits name, else these kind of 'Satya' has been selling in the market for morethan half a decade now.
We really had gr8 expectation from this show but it seems that this one too is eager to follow the trend and does not dare to show something which our society really needs to know.
sir you only showed about men that beats his wife but there are many cases that a women beats her daughter in law.we called her saans aur nanad.so you must also share this kind of stories.I'm a MBBS student and my mother is doing this hilarious job to my sister in law .i feel this must be stopped but as I'm away and no one listen to me next time I'm going to police to complaint about this.and about my mothers bad behavior to my sister in law. wish me luck and Keep doing this great Job.hatsoff
Well said. Jay. What was there so difficult to understand what kamlajee said. It was so inspiring to hear her. I wish there were many many more kamlajee. She explained so simply and clear our cultural burden , no one could have said better. I have great respect for her.
Hi ramesh, wherever domestic violence takes place, I believe everyone connected to that victim is equally responsible for the torture. First of all, her own parents, brothers & sisters, even the extended family members ( in your sister-in-law ,s case, you, your brother and all the family are equally to blame. I was victim of dv, as soon as my brother heard about it, it was the end of dv for me. My parents, brothers & sisters ( brother-in-law ) all ensured me their support and I had the courage to walk out of that loveless marriage. But without my family,s support & encouragement I probably be one of the victims on amir khan,s show telling him I suffered for soo many years. How a father can send his well loved daughter send back to be beaten up by a brute ( just cause he is good actor and can cry and look sorry ) I hope you will take the step and stop the dragon mother of yours to stop the dv against your poor sister-inlaw. Please do not wait for a miracle to happen. You make it happen. All the best.
Hats off to you for stepping up
sometimes wives are taking advantage better to say capitalized the Law in the name of 498 act and nowadays it's increasing rate being high ...... it's hard to believe most of all (married male ) husband in India are dishonest corrupt immoral inhuman crooked and lack of mental education and if it's true then it indicate their (married females) wife are very honest moral full of humanity mentally educated and also helpless . BOTH ARE WRONG ASSESSMENT.
husband and wife relationship is not a battle field neither be a Competition who is greater to whom ! everybody knows everything today's women are not illiterate or fool they know what is call slavery and what is call dominating . I personally know two of my friend who are beaten up by their wife . They are helpless because of our society if they speak up people will laugh at them and If they blocked from beaten up by their wife it could have been more danger cause then and then their wife picked up the chance to prove they are tortured . sorry for my pre nursery English .https://www.youtube.com/watch?...
it doesn't matter about your english many folks like me can understand what you wanna say !
i agree,i am not against women,but dey can make married life hell too.u hav to research at wot extend a man raise hand on his wife.its a habit of some man to beat women but there are some man who raise hand on his wise after tolerating so much.i have seen ppl,who couldnt show any logic in favor of women and den dey goes like "woteva it is but souldnt have raise hand on her".there are soooo many man who love their wife so dearly but dey at least for once raised hand on their partner.why???dats u got to find out.but u have to respect each other view point.dont go like "u hit her for dis silly reason?".wot is silly to some of us can a very big deal for some one,
in your point of view u r absolutely right mr. ghosh . let's see what'll happen in this series .wish mr.amir khan must be cover another side .
Domestic violence is not limited to women only. Nowadays male are also victim of the same. Domestic violence act and 498A are now being misused by women at will to torture their husbands. I am against domestic violence on women and am also against the fact that only one side of the coin is shown. The fact is that thousands of families are suffering because of such treachery by their daughter in law. I think SatyamevJayate should also have an episode on the misuse of such laws as well.
It is true domestic violence happens to man woman children and elderly too, and the criminals should be punished equally whether man or woman. Man should come forward if he is a victim of violence
I am an Indian doctor working in the NHS. I have been married for 12 years filled with violence. The violence is not just physical. The breaking of bones, the facial burns, the flurry of punches and kicks, the flying knives and furniture. There is emotional and mental abuse. Called me a cow or worse a prostitute. In front of my young son. There is sexual abuse. Forced sex within the marital relationship is still rape. Forced abortion. Then there is financial abuse. Controlling everything I need to buy- cannot choose lingerie without his permission. Destroying my career as a doctor.But worst of all is the emptying of my self. My thoughts are controlled. I am not my self anymore but am what he wants me to be. As he said once ,' You do not have a right to think. you do what I tell you to'.It took me an ongoing divorce battle and struggle to rebuild myself and my child- covering over 2 years. It took me even longer to build courage again to make my own decisions.And I plead with all women who recognise themselves in this description. Get out NOW. The longer you live this existence ( and that is what it becomes) the harder it is to rebuild your self. If nothing else consider your child(ren)- the effects on them are forever; therefore get out before it is too late.
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well done, i'm a school student and and i appreciate whatever u've done.i would like to ask u. u r a doc. not a housewife and i'm sure u have ur salaries paid, y did u take so long?
Mr. Khan, good episode.. but just want to know why it is always men who are showed as doing injustice in the society and why the other side of the coin is never showed.. Haven't we heard of the number of case where women are misusing these laws just to remain superior in the family. If the boy favors his mother over his wife, some or the day he is falsely accused of taking Dowry. Where is the Justice then and what is the question u want to ask to such people. If your society is asking for equal rights of women, then why are we reserving around 50% seats for women in all the public transports. where is the equality then.. Some Women are no longer "Abla" they are aa-bala.. Men are not meant only to fulfill the needs of his family by working 24*7 and handle all the stress alone. If u support equality also make a episode covering the reason as to why more men are committing suicides compared to women... Thanks.
Mayank, i agree with you, but it all comes down to numbers, percentages, how many people... How many cases do you come across of men being harassed (rarely physically abused) by women? I think both these and many others are menace for our societies. But if we had to start examining from somewhere, it will be the ones that impact the largest number of people.You will agree in cases of domestic violence the cases of women being abused are much much higher then men being harassed.
Dear nishi i think u are just residing in home and listining to the rumors please move out to society and check to whom u called as male dominant society this had make the males weak if any man slaps on face of a women she will go and file a case but if same think happens with man and if he approaches the police and court they will not believe and listen to him this is why you will get a rare cases of physical harassment by women to men. This a mind set of our society where we are living.
You are absolutely right. But any government can make "gender- neutral" laws only when your statistics successfully show that violence is not gender biased. In India, the statistics clearly show that violence & abuse is phenomenally higher against women than men. Hence, in a democratic society the laws needs to crafted to protect the majority. May be, in the future once we have transitioned into an gender neutral society from a patriarchal one, then the government can be expected to make gender neutral laws. One has to protect the majority, if one can not protect everyone. Even with so called "women-favoring" laws, India has one of the highest crime rates against women. Instead of blaming the government for making gender biased laws, we as a society should feel ashamed of the fact that we need "gender biased laws" to help protect women in the country. Hope this helps your prospective a little bit. When you mention "there are a number of cases where women are misusing laws", that is true, but still a smaller percentage of society as a whole
Mayank, I agree with you too. But if these reservations and procedures are not in place, you will never be able to be assertive to the males to respect women & to instill that women are equal. By and large it is only these reservations that has brought about the changes we see today. When you look at equality, just don't see apple to apple. Orange has its strength & weaknesses and so does apple. Both are a necessity in the diet. Likewise, women and males have their weaknesses and strengths which are covered up by each other. That is why it is said that a gender completes the other....thanks....
dear mayank u r right ofcourse that (ek haat se talli nahi bajthi ) but what i want to know is who gave the men the right to hit and asult a woman no matter what but i dont think a man shld ever hit his wife. from my own personal experiences i believe men who hit there wives r very weak and cowred.
Dear khalida i am also agree with ur point that man had no rights to hit to a women but what if a women hits a man in our society it is a belief that if a women hits a man the man had committed some big mistake so was beaten by a women and so it is valid but if same case occured in reverse manner then the statement will be made just what made by U so please think.
Beating a woman,is not a sign of masculinity.............
Mr. Amir Khan and his TEAM,“Ask those women’s husbands who claim had faced domestic violence, are their Husbands had not faced domestic violence?” I ashamed for people like you who promote the hate speech in open television, at least Rakhi swahant show was is far far better than you at least she had guts to show the both partners real face to public.Disclose the Study to whom they asked question and then ask the same question to their husbands, then publish the truth.We had already done the same and expose the 70% data earlier by UN was false and fabricated. If they have at least .0001% honesty and transparent, let make the study by engaging both partner Husbands and wife and then show the result, all over the world all study shows the violence is not a gender issue, women are as violent as men , but in India the violence done by women termed as brave work and the crime done by them got Scot free, result all the husbands killers very year more than 56K as per crime bure data as moving freely in this country and making such one sided , biased scripted view on nation TV and promoting the hate speech and result more and more Domestic violence .Make the law gender neutral then compare who get convicted more men or women, then only some direction or solution can be think, otherwise, the gender war and hate to each other they promoting is nothing but to create more and more family disputes and create huge father less child society. In India as per Crime Bure Report Every 9mins one Age old Mothers Loosing their Married Son, but Mr. Amir Khan can’t see those mothers pain or suffering and result they get abused every day as they can’t give him Crs of ruppes for doing scripted show in the name of Satyam Jayata, which reconfirms beyond reasonable drought , he had no Love , respect or any concern for those Mothers of India. Now read the below : The real study :India’s New “Domestic Violence Act” – A Study ReportOne of the most pervasive myths of our society is that domestic violence is something men do to women. Solid scientific research reveals that domestic violence is something women do to men more frequently than men do to women.While it is true that men account for most violence outside the home, women instigate most domestic violence and they injure men more frequently and more severely.The Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire, under grants from the National Institute of Mental Health, recently finished the last of three national studies on domestic violence. The first two studies revealed results similar to the latest study. Anyone who would like a copy of it may order it from the University of New Hampshire (ask for Document V55). The data tape and documentation of the 1975 and 1985 studies are available from the Interuniversity Consortium For Political and Social Research at the University of Michingan. Original data is also available on CD-ROM fromSociometrics, Inc. in Palo Alto, CA.The average results in the ‘severe assault’ category are reported below:* Wives report they have been severely assaulted by husband 22 per 1000* Wives report they have severely assaulted husband 59 per 1000* Husbands report they have been severely assaulted by wives 32 per 1000* Husbands report they have severely assaulted wives 18 per 1000* Husbands & wives both report wife has been assaulted 20 per 1000* Husbands & wives both report husband has been assaulted 44 per 1000There are dozens of other studies that reveal similar findings. For instance:Indian Husbands End thier life:It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man ?Crime Bure data,In the Year 2005, the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks sixty Four Thousands ( 92.88%) vs One Lack fifty-five thousands against women( 6.38%)?http://ncrb.nic.in/crime2005/c.... Sue Moto By Police(FIR Registered): 24,37,973/- Crime Against Women : 1,55,553/-Crime against Child : 17,975/-Crime against Men : 22 ,64 , 445/-In the Year 2005 the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks sixty Four Thousands vs One Lack fifty-five thousands against women?% Wise All India Crime Against Men, Woemn and Child as Under :Crime Against Women : 6.38%Crime Against Child : 0.73%Crime Against Men : 92.88%We wonder Whose life is in More Danger in India : Men or Women?Crime Bure data 2005 : Married Men Sucide : 52k vs Married WomenSucide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?2006 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:55452 vs. Married Women Sucide:29869.2007 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:57593 vs. Married Women Sucide:30064.Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B( dowry death) to 304C( SowryDeath) and 498A ( harrasement to wife) to 498B ( Sowry harrasement bywife) ?
easy easy Hey You have all right to say and perhaps it's true ... but why you are getting so hysterical may be you are allowing your emotion to over power you and your thinking .... but why you are using [quote] I ashamed for people like you [/quote] Is not enough to prove that you use same kind nasty behavior with your surrounding person needless to your family members also . they are also worried and hurt about it !
dude,he is right.u have to understand and listen to both side.u shouldn't get judgement by only a watching tv show.u shouldn't be ashamed of Gladiator498a and u should not tak ab8 sumthin where u hav minimum knowledge.Gladiator498a was tryin to establish a point here dat we should take both husband and wife in account wen we r being judgmental. Gladiator498a did say or his comment doesnt seem dat woteva happened with those women on the show was rite.his point was is u r talking ab8 a husband and wife den u got to speak wid both of dem.only classifying women as victim is stupid and not beliveable.its was a one sided show.
and now take it easy and think before u say sumthin.but oh well ppl like u wid minimum knowledge and a preacher will nt understand dis.
hey perhaps you don't know what you are telling about . easy yourself first.
Rightly said....the laws in India are really gender biased. Women is some segment of the society are equally or more dominant and violent too but it seems they get bravery award for being so.
Hello Mr. Khan,
I have been constantly watching your episodes but its been lately observed that rather than showing whats right, you have been focusing on weaker section of society. An example is female. I myself is a female but a non-biased one.
This is with respect to your sixth episode. Its not that the facts which was shown was incorrect but I think if you select a topic then try to do full justice to it and make it non-biased. Your episode showcased on one side of the coin. In today's world, I have seen many instances where male's are dominated by woman due to which they have to even leave their parents and stay with wife and their kids. Not only this but they are forced to live a life planned/decided by their better halves. In my opinion you should also have focused on this area and then should have concluded that not only females but now a days males are also victim though in small section of society and happy living constitutes of both sides of coin have equal understanding.
Hope you are getting my point.
Warm Regards,Preeti Kaushal
Thanks for the wonderful show.. There are many cases Women applied violence against Women...especially in-laws... A mother-in-law, who should be in the place of a mother , sister-in-law are also playing a major role in domestic violence.. There were many places in A.P where parents of a girl have to worry more about in-laws than the boy.. In many cases, Mother-in-law will say that her mother-in-law hurted her a lot.. then why should she continue that as well..... In some places it has become like a hereditary DISEASE. . . If men feel that beating women is the sign of masculinity, then what could be the reason for this????? I Aamir ji I think you forgot about the role of in-laws in domestic violence... hope you bring it up the next time...
I think Kruthi has a very important point here. And I think the problem here is based in the patriarchy which was talked about in the show. Why does a women have to get married and go and live with her in-laws? Here there is an hierarchy which says a man's parent's are the ones with whom the son should live and it is the daughter-in laws duty to take care and look after them. What about the wife's parents? Is the husband expected to be equally responsible for his wife's parents? She also loves her parents equally. The second most important thing is why does a women have to change her last name and take over her husband's last name? And also his name as her middle name? "It's a tradition" people would say. I say it's nothing but another example of suppression and marginalization of the women around the world (with few exceptions in some cultures). Why cant the children be recognized by their mother's maiden family name. People should think about it....The law does not state that a women needs to change her middle name and the family name after marriage... so why does the society practice it on such a large scale?
How is it better if a child is recognised by a mother's maiden name? A woman is never forced to change her name at all. She does it in our society to integrate seamlessly into her husband's family. Nobody is forced to do that, as nobody should be. In fact many woman do not change their names after marriage at all. Finally it does not matter at all because finally you derive your name from somebody, here its your father in place of your husband. There is no logical end to such issues as even if they are changed according to your suggestions, my question is so what? How does that make things better?
I am with Kruthi here. One stark example is my 57 year old mother who is still suffering among such monsters. Please re-run this topic with improvements. You have to do it for us. You have to do it for us. I cannot believe, I am begging you to do something, I should take charge of, but my engg degree, nor my foreign MBA taught me how to give support to a woman, who is scared of her own shadow. I think confronting her repressors is the only way to find her peace. I promise you, I will take from there. I promise you.I also hope she lives to confront these evil people. I will never be able to live with myself if she dies without doing that much. married to a old man and then beaten up to death every single day. A mother of 4 educated but , I guess weak, women herself.I will stand by promise if you help me.
Kruthiji, agree with you in that case even women should be charged and must be punished in the court of law
Raising the issues of national concern is certainly a commendable step, but the last episode & the issue raised showed that the program is coming in the league of commons. Every second organization in the country is raising voice against DV against women, but can anyone for God Sake, come out to raise a voice against the misuse of the Act by women? Has anyone got the guts to show the violence against men?? Can you, Aamir, become the first one to show the cases where women or their maternals have used the DV Act as a tool to harass their in-laws??? If its not possible than, I am sorry Aamir, you are also trying to be on a safer side & are somewhere biased with the TRP of your program...
Aamir...i never wanted to beat my wife but i have beatten her atleast 3 times...My wife is very lovely and caring but at the sametime she feels very insecure and keeps on fighting with me every day for no reason. Almost everyday she starts an oral fight with me ( topic could be anything.i don't know from where the topic starts )..she graduallly start blaming me and then slowly mover over to my parents and sisters although after marriage we never lived with my parents and being always away from them.... I have given her all the freedom...i try to fullfill all her wishes.... i even buyed a property in her name.......She doesnot stops the quarrel until i reply to it angrily..... I kept on noticing this...and then now i don't allow her to speak much instead i interfere her by fighting at the higher pich than her.. and 2 time i had to raise my hands..
But again i say she is very caring and lovely wife...just i am afraid some day this quarrel should not seriously affect us.
Control your emotions ,dear , if this is the case then just try to ignore the matter . Listen to her n dont react. If she says anything against ur parents then let her. I know i know iknow it is difficult to but dont react one day she will realise every thing herself. When she will realise then only change is possible. Dont beat her it is not the solution. U love her n ur love can only change her. Best of luck
What is this.... women are praising Aamir and Men are critisizing Aamir. Why not be equal. This is a tug of war like game.Praise Aamir for this show... and of course as some ppl say that women are harassing men.... men are also harassing women! It should be equal... of coure Aamir is not critisizing the men! He says that there should be love among the family.Some ppl are arguing so much... both women and men... only if we stay equal and hope for a healthy Nation... Arre bhai Parivaar pyaar se judaa ho te hai...Not for their children only.. there should be real love between the husband and wife...Only then everyone will be happy! :)