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Naeema Raj • 11 years ago

NAEEMA RAJ
A women shouldn't be tortured physically and mentally by her husband..to beat a woman is not at all a symbol of masculinity..In India there is no equality between a wife and a husband..which pressurizes the mind of their children and finally results in breaking of their house..but in most of the cases the  women tolerate these violence..Beating a woman is in fact a big crime according to human rights..A women who gives birth to a child, converts a home into a house by giving her love, motherhood, hard work..how a man can slap her...he should get ashamed of doing all  these things...A women is an inspiration of love, sacrifice, beauty, doing hard work, motherhood, success..She is not at all a percent down in any case from man..I  only think that a husband would be a maniac if he creates any violence with his wifeI really want to thank AAMIR SIR and your team to concentrate on this topic.  

TRUE INDIAN • 11 years ago

TO,

Mr.AAmir Khan,

 

Is beating a woman, a sign of masculinity?---GOOD QUESTION !
BUT INSTEAD OF SHOWING YOUR EMOTIONAL DRAMA ABOUT WOMEN INEQUALITY IN
SOCIETY—WHY NOT START FROM YOUR OWN HOUSE—i.e …..FILM INDUSTRY….YOU ARE JUST A
DOUBLE FACED HYPOCRITE---DO YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO CALL THE FOLLOWING ACTORS WHO
HAVE BEEN ACCUSED OF GENDER INEQUALITY, TO YOUR SHOW … (MENTIONED BELOW) :--   ( All the cases have been settled out of
court and brushed under the carpet)---

1.    October 5, 2011--Sexual harassment case against Nagarjuna

 

Nagarjuna was in the news for a wrong reason. A woman
freelance journalist filed a sexual harassment case against him at the Jubilee
Hills police station in Hyderabad under Section 506 (illegal confinement of a
person) and Section 509 (outraging the modesty of a woman) of the Indian Penal
Code.

 

 

2.    16 Mar,2011----Chiranjeevi's
daughter Srija, who eloped to get married to Sirish Bharadwaj on October 17,
2007, is making headlines yet again with her marriage, but this time with her
filing a case of dowry harassment against her husband Sirish.

 

 

3.     August 13, 2001---CHANDIGARH

Nirupa Roy faces dowry case

chandigarh: yesteryears'
"perfect mother" of silverscreen nirupa roy has been charged in a dowry case by her
daughter-in-law in panchkula near here, haryana police said on sunday. "a
case has been filed by the veteran actress' daughter-in-law una roy with
panchkula police and a team headed by an inspector would be leaving for mumbai
soon," panchkula sp manoj yadav said. the charges against the star, who
most often played the role of a sobbing mother and an affectionate
mother-in-law, included causing cruelty to...

 

August 25, 2001

panchkula, haryana: a court here saurday adjourned till
august 27 the anticipatory bail plea of veteran bollywood actress nirupa roy
and two others in a dowry harassment case. additional district and sessions
judge h s bhangoo adjourned the case after nirupa roy's counsel told the court that the family
was trying to workout a compromise. the complainant, una roy,
daughter-in-law of nirupa, submitted before the court that she has no objection
if the court grants anticipatory bail to her in-laws.

 

4.       Shiney
Ahuja has been sentenced to seven years in prison for raping his maid. But this
is not the first time that Shiney has done something like this. In the past
too, this Gangster hero misbehaved on the sets. He tried to hug female
director; cozied up with make-up woman and Russian co-star.

Debutant director Puja Jatinder Bedi alleges the actor misbehaved on the
sets of Mary Magdalene. She has a lot of stories to tell about the actor’s
lecherous and womanizing ways on the film’s sets.

Trouble and Shiney Ahuja, walk hand-in-hand. Yet again, Shiny lands himself
in hot soup. The actor has been written off from Bollywood, ever since he was
involved in a rape case. Now, the latest accusation he faces is of sexual
harassment from actress Sayali Bhagat.

An upcoming horror flick Ghost has Sayali acting opposite Shiney Ahuja. The
actress recently revealed that during the shooting of the film, Shiney used to
make indecent passes at her. Buzz also has it that Shiney even pinched her
butt. However, Sayali denies it.

“During an intimate scene, he (Shiney) took me to the makeup room and
made me hold his hands and look into his eyes and feel the ‘warmth’. I chose to
ignore,” Sayali Bhagat says in an interview.

It also happened that during a scene where Sayali teaches him to chop
vegetables, Shiney forced her to feel up his arms n number of times. Not jus
Sayali but the light-man too got frustrated and walked out. Even between shots,
Shiny used to whisper in Sayali’s ear that they should hook up.

 

5.    When Kavya
Madhavan tied the knot with Nischal Chandra in February 2009, their friends
described it as a marriage made in heaven. She was the reigning queen of
Mollywood and he was a child actor turned businessman who understood movies.

 

Allegations and counter allegations flew thick and fast
between the two sides with Kavya filing two cases against Chandra and his
family, including a dowry harassment complaint. After all this brouhaha, the
duo officially decided to separate in October 2010 and jointly filed a divorce
petition in Ernakulam.

 

6.     Veteran
actress Amani and her family members have been dragged to
court under dowry harassment case by her
brothers wife Sashikala. Its learnt that, Amani and her family members have
harassed her and forced her to separate from her husband as she fails to meet
their demands. Sashikala, who is living with her parents now, has filed a petition in Nelloer court against
Amani, her husband and other members of their family.

Earlier, it was reported by a leading Telugu News Channel that, Amani, her
brother and family members have locked Sashikala inside a room while she was
having pains for delivery. It reported that, neighbors who heard her screaming
have broke open the doors and rushed to her a near by
hospital. Amani and her family members were severely criticized by one and all
in the society for their cruel attitude shown towards their own family member
who desperately needs their help at that moment.

Shashikala also accused in her petition that, her husband not only harassed her
for dowry but also married another girl before divorcing her. Therefore, Amani
and her family members were at receiving end in this case.

 

 

 

Mr aamir khan---go on call
these actors on your show---I am sure there are many more cases of ‘ Casting Couch
stories’’ of bollywood….call them on your show….there are many obscene ways in
which a women is portrayed in films made in india…call all those directors and
producers, too….YOU DO NOT HAVE THE GUTS TO SHOW THEIR FACES ON YOUR SHOW…
BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT A HYPOCRITE YOU ARE…..AND THEN YOU GO ABOUT AND SHOW
STATASTICS OF  DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES
ALL OVER INDIA….IS BOLLYWOOD NOT PART OF THE SOCIETY AT LARGE…….INFACT THE
INDUSTRY YOU REPRESENT…..THE INDUSTRY THAT HAS GIVEN YOU SO MUCH FAME….ABUSES
WOMEN LIKE NO OTHER INDUSTRY…LIKE THE SONGS LYRICS THAT DEPICT WOMEN AS ‘ ITEMS’’---

 

1.  Lyrics
of Sheila Ki Jawani Song

I know you want it but you never
gonna get it
Tere haath kabhi na aani
Maane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, mere ishq ki hai deewani

Hey you, I know you want it but you never gonna get it
Tere haath kabhi na aani
Maane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, mere ishq ki hai deewani
Ab dil karta hai haule haule se, main toh khud ko gale lagaun
Kisi aur ki mujhko zaroorat kya, main toh khud se pyaar jataun
(what's my name, what's my name, what's my name)
My name is Sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani
Na na na sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani

Take it off, take it off, take it off, take it off

Silly silly silly silly boys
O o o (you're so silly)
Mujhe follow follow karte hain
O o o
Haan jab unki taraf dekhun, baatein haule haule karte hain
Yeh magar, beasar mujhpe har paintra

Haye re aise tarse humko
Ho gaye sau arse re
Sookhey dil pe megha ban ke teri nazariya barse re
I know you want it but you never gonna get it
Tere haath kabhi na aani
Sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani
Na na na sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani

Paisa gaadi mehnga ghar
I need a man who can gimme all that
Jaibein khaali fateechar
No no I don't, I don't like that

Chal yahan se nikal tujhe sab laa dunga
Kadmon mein tere laake jag rakh dunga
Khwaab main kar dunga poore
Na rahenge adhoore
You know I'm going to love you like that, whatever

Haye re aise tarse humko
Ho gaye sau arse
Sookhey dil pe megha ban ke teri nazariya barse re
I know you want it but you never gonna get it
You never gonna get my body
I know you want it but you never gonna get it
Tere haath kabhi na aani
Maane na maane koi duniya yeh saari, tere ishq ki main deewani
Ab dil karta hai haule haule se, main toh khud ko gale lagaun
Kisi aur ki mujhko zaroorat kya, main toh khud se pyaar jataun
(what's my name, what's my name, what's my name)
My name is Sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani
O no no sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani
Sheela
Sheela ki jawani
I'm way too sexy for you
Main tere haath na aani

Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)
Everybody want the body I have (sheela)
Drive you crazy coz my name is (sheela)
Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)
Everybody want the body I have (sheela)
Drive you crazy coz my name is (sheela)
Ain't nobody gotta body like (sheela)

 

2.    Here is the song 'Zara Zara Touch Me' from
movie 'Race'.

zara zara touch me touch me touch me

little little touch me touch me

zara zara kiss me kis me kis me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

touch me, touch me, touch me
zara zara kiss me, kiss me, kiss me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

(bin tere sanam iss jahan mein, bekraar hum dam da dam da dam

without you i am restless in this
world

bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (2)

without you i am restless in this world

zara zara touch me touch me touch me

little little touch me touch me

zara zara kiss me kis me kis me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

touch me, touch me, touch me
zara zara kiss me, kiss me, kiss me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

(tera hi tera hi intzar hai, mujhe toh bas tujhse pyar hai

i am waiting for only you, i love only you

tera hi tera abb khumar hai, khud pe na mere ikhtiyar hai) - (2)

its only your intoxication, i dont have control on me

(bin tere sanam iss jahan mein, bekraar hum dam da dam da dam

without you i am restless in this world

bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (2)

without you i am restless in this world

touch me, touch me, touch me
zara zara kiss me, kiss me, kiss me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

(yeh darde dil toh ho na agar, sataaye abb duriyo ka gum

there is no pain in heart but the grief of distance
is teasing me

behek jaye na yeh kadam, hai tujhe meri jaan ki kasam) - (2)

dont let my footsteps mislead, i am ing you swear of my life

(bin tere sanam iss jahan mein, bekraar hum dam da dam da dam

without you i am restless in this world

bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (2)

without you i am restless in this world

zara zara touch me touch me touch me

little little touch me touch me

zara zara kiss me kis me kis me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

touch me, touch me, touch me
zara zara kiss me, kiss me, kiss me

little little kis me kis me

zara zara hold me, hold me, hold me

little little hold me, hold me

zara zara o o o o o.......

little little o o o o o......

(bin tere sanam iss jahan mein, bekraar hum dam da dam da dam

without you i am restless in this world

bin tere sanam iss jahan mein bekraar hum) - (3)

without you i am restless in this world

 

3.  Saari Duniya Mere Ispe Lyrics

Oh macho oh macho
Play banjo play banjo
Queen B yeah c’mon b
huh!
Oh macho oh macho
Play banjo play banjo

Hmm… saari duniya mere ispe
Mere ispe... ispe
Saari duniya mere ispe
Mere ispe... ispe !

Jeb na apni khaali hai
Apni baat nirali hai
Naa koi nakhre wali hai yahaan
Hai yahaan

Din mein humne sona hai
Raat mein sab kuch karna hai
Peene ki koi tension nahi yahaan
Nahi yahaan

Saari duniya mere ispe
Mere ispe... ispe !
Oh Oh Oh
Oh macho oh macho
Play banjo play banjo

Hai kisme dum, aage khade
Kiska hai din bura jo humse lade
Apna hai din, apni hai raat
Aayega kon yahaan jo humse bhide

Chhotta rajan apna bhai hai
Daaud se apni kamaai
Nahi kisi se ladaai hai yahaan

Na koi lafda shafda hai
Kaam ye apna tagda hai
Humse panga lega kaun yahaan
Kaun yahaan

Neta abhineta mere ispe
Mere ispe...ispe
Yeah yeah
Sheela ho ya munni
Inki gaal pe lunga chummi
Priyanka deepika kareena
Tumhari choodi mein dunga nageena

Sun meri jacquelina
Mera London jaaan chheena
Kab aayega saawan maheena
Toh main nikalunga tera paseena

Oh macho oh macho
Play banjo play banjo
High energy!
Jhukna kabhi seekha nahi
Aur rukna humko to aata nahi

Aandhi tale baazi koi
Haar ka humne to socha nahi
PM se apna pyaar hai
CM apna yaar hai
Gathbandhan sarkar hai yahaan
Hai yahaan

Rab se apna naata hai
Wo bhi humko chahta hai
Paap-punya ki gin.ti nahi yahaan
Nahi yahaan

Aandu
Ye sabhi gapaandu mere ispe
Mere ispe...ispe
Saari duniya mere ispe
Mere ispe,ispe
Oh macho oh macho
Play banjo play banjo

Ha ha huh..
Taat lo patte ……AND MORE SONGS LYRICS(CHIKNI CHAMELI, ETC…)

MR. AAMIR
KHAN INSTEAD OF CHANGING THE WHOLE OF INDIA, START BY CHANGING YOUR FILM
INDUSTRY AND STOP DEGRADING A WOMEN TO A STATURE OF AN ITEM….THIS IS YOUR MORAL
AND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY…BECAUSE IN INDIA EVERYONE IS INFLUENCED BY FILM
STARS….THIS SHOW IS ALSO GETTING SO MUCH TRP… ONLY BECAUSE IT IS HOSTED BY A
FILM STAR…BE MORE RESPONSIBLE !!

 
 

Gunjan Jain • 11 years ago

To Amar1303 (who calls
himself TRUE INDIAN)

     
                     
              

 

     
                 Read very
carefully, Mr. Aamir Khan has nothing to do with all those actors, directors,
lyricists, etc. He is just trying to bring the reality to common people. Moreover,
what has happened with MS. NIRUPA ROY, MS AAMINI etc. is their personal life
and not related to the film industry as you said repeatedly and if you wanted
them there on screen you cannot show all the examples at the one hour program.
He just showed the extreme cases. I have read a page full of negative points
regarding his work SATYAMEV JAYATE, and I am shocked to see those points. Even
if someone is trying to do the best for the society, for the people, there are
dark minded people who only look for the negative effect of something
regardless of the majority of the positive effects. I hate such guys who
themselves don't even try to bring good for the society but in addition to that
bring barriers to those who try... Aamir Khan is one of the personalities who are
trying his best to eradicate the darker side of the society and you (AMAR1303)
are his barrier. In addition, we all want that moment when everyone including
you (AMAR1303) will become the driving force to these angels of the society and
then only we can actually win over all our problems. 

TRUE INDIAN • 11 years ago

 Well lets start with dark minded people who only look for the negative effect of something,  LIKE YOU FOR EXAMPLE.... WHAT AN IRONY YOU ARE. SUPPOSE YOU HAVE RASHES ALL OVER YOUR BODY AND THE DOCTOR SAYS THAT LETS JUST TREAT YOUR HANDS AND FORGET THE REST OF YOUR BODY.....YOU HAVE TO TREAT THE COMPLETE BODY....ITS ONLY WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND ALL ASPECTS OF THE PROBLEM THEN ONLY YOU CAN FIND A SOLUTION......YOU CANNOT LEAVE ANY ONE OUT OF THE PROBLEM....YOU SEEM TO BE AS BIASED AND ONE SIDED IN YOUR THINKING AS AAMIR KHAN. I AM SO SHOCKED AFTER READING YOUR COMMENT THAT I HATE TO COMMENT FURTHER....BECAUSE YOU ARE JUST A WASTE ...!!

Sunil • 11 years ago

sorry my friend you had understand the fact which true indian want to show to satyamev jayate team it is not because as you address the things like mr aamir wants to show the reality of society what you call as darkness of soceity but to address both the things side by side as film industries has a great influence on our soceity. Plz think over it.

India • 11 years ago

Absolutely Great, True and straight on face.
It would be great if Mr. Khan can gather the guts to bring his own wife (first) on the show for her story.
It would be basic expectation with Mr. Khan to atleast do some basic research before throwing wrong numbers and blatant lies in the public.

What happens to a mother and father when their married son dies? If you are not aware, only based on suicides, one married man commits suicide every 9 minutes in India. In terms of Deaths, of all reported cases, 92% deaths are for males in India and then you spread women are victims? Just because media and people like you dont let Husband Killings, Husband Suicides, Male Foeticide come to Blind Indians, doesnt mean that your FALSE statistics have any truth in them.

Anita_bms2004 • 11 years ago

Type your comment here.Absolutely right.  There is no news about the Husbands torchured by Wives.  There should also be NGO/Men Cell to listen their problems, which created by their wives unnecessary.

Have a Voice • 11 years ago

Male foeticide ???? What a laughing stock. Which world do you live in ?

Narendra • 11 years ago
Sex • 11 years ago

last time I checked he was/is the only one out there trying to make a CHANGE. what have you done so far to make India a better place. He's bringing these issues in front of India, to education people, to make them understand that things are NOT suppose to be that way. STOP pin point out the mistakes and for once in your life appreciate the effort he has put to make INDIA a better place for everyone. Having said that, I do agree with everything you said, BUT certain things can only be said at certain times. So, I suggested you start appreciating the EFFORT before you said pointing fingers at people.

TRUE INDIAN • 11 years ago

 

SEX..... I CANNOT FIGURE OUT,  IF THERE IS A PROBLEM IN
YOUR NAME OR IN YOUR MIND OR BOTH.

ANYWAYS, THERE IS A SAYING IF YOU WANT CHANGE,  THEN START FROM YOUR OWN
HOUSE. IF MR. AAMIR KHAN IS SO CONCERNED ABOUT GENDER INEQUALITY, DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE IN WHOLE OF INDIA, THEN MY QUESTION TO AAMIR KHAN PRODUCTIONS IS WHY
ARE YOU SO BIASED, PARTIAL, POLARIZED IN YOUR THINKING AND RESEARCH TOWARDS
WOMEN IN GENERAL:- FACTS ARE:-

1. THERE ARE CASES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SEXUAL ABUSE, CASTING COUCH ISSUES,
NEW ASPIRING MODELS BEING MISTREATED AND ABUSED IN BOLLYWOOD--WHY ARE THEY NOT
BEING MENTIONED IN THIS SHOW AND IN ALL THESE YEARS IN THE FILM INDUSTRY, MR
AAMIR KHAN COULD NOT RAISE HIS VOICE THROUGH MEDIA ABOUT ALL THE WRONG THINGS
AGAINST WOMEN, THAT HAS HAPPENED AND CONTINUES TO HAPPEN IN FILM INDUSTRY...
AND NOW HE WANTS THE WOMEN ALL OVER INDIA, NOT TO BE MISTREATED...WHAT
AN IRONY.    

...ALSO THE FILM INDUSTRY THAT HE SO REPRESENTS, MAKES SONGS OF WOMEN AS ITEMS,
SHOW WOMEN IN BAD TASTE AS IF THEY ARE ONLY ITEMS OF GLAMOUR AND
EYE-CANDY...WHY DOES HE NOT GO TO THE CENSOR BOARD AND THEN TO THE MEDIA TO
HIGHLIGHT THIS MISREPRESENTATION OF A WOMEN.......HE DOES NOT HAVE THE
GUTS..... INFACT, IT IS HIM WHO IS POINTING FINGERS AT OTHERS, WHEN HE SHOULD
BE CLEANING HIS OWN HOUSE....

AND THEN YOU MENTIONED-- " He's bringing these issues in front of India,
to education people, to make them understand that things are NOT suppose to be
that way.".....WELL YOU REALLY UNDERESTIMATE THIS COUNTRY....DO YOU THINK
THAT PEOPLE ARE SO UNEDUCATED AND NOT AWARE OF INEQUALITY OF GENDER IN
INDIA.... 

WHAT ABOUT CASES OF MISUSE OF SECTION 498a IPC---WHERE IS THE GENDER EQUALITY
IN SUCH LAWS...WHAT ABOUT HARASSMENT BY MONEY HUNGRY WIVES MISTREATING THEIR
HUSBANDS AND THEIR FAMILIES.....Mr/Mrs.SEX,  BEFORE YOU SPIT SOMETHING OUT
OF YOUR MOUTH, KINDLY TASTE IT YOURSELF, TOO !!

2. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MUCH INFLUENCE BOLLYWOOD FILM STARS AND SONGS HAVE
OVER THE NEW GENERATION..... THERE ARE SO MANY PARENTS DRESSING UP THEIR DAUGHTERS
AS KATRINA FOR CHIKNI CHAMELI SONG OR SHEILA KI JAWANI SONG---IN THEIR SCHOOL
PLAYS AND DRESS SHOWS....DOES ANYBODY EVEN REALIZE, THAT GIRLS HAVE TO MEMORIZE
THOSE LYRICS WHICH ARE SO DEROGATORY TO WOMEN IN GENERAL.....THIS IS THE KIND
OF INFLUENCE,  BOLLYWOOD STARS HAVE ON YOUNG GIRLS AND THEN MR. AMMIR KHAN
TALKS ABOUT EQUALITY AND DIGNITY TO WOMENHOOD IN GENERAL...WHAT AN IRONY...HE
SHOULD BE MORE RESPONSIBLE OF THE KIND OF INFLUENCE HIS INDUSTRY HAS...THATS
WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT !!
 
BUT I AM SURE YOU WILL NOT UNDERSTAND ANY OF THIS BECAUSE,  YOU ONLY HAVE
SEX IN YOUR MIND..ERR... NAME...MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO FOR A CHANGE...A ''SEX''
CHANGE.. TO UNDERSTAND EQUALITY OF GENDER....LOL !!

Ravi • 11 years ago

 Let's try and understand the purpose of his show. Maybe you are right. But if we see from a positive side the show has a great impact on the younger generation like me. Supposing hypothetically I'm exposed to bollywood culture and think of women as 'item'. But then this show was definitely for me. I may learn from this show that I'm wrong. I may change my ideology. I may start respecting them. I mean the young are the future of India. They have to change their ideologies. What's done is done. The wrong past should be dead and buried. We have to learn from it. And someone trying to do just that should be appreciated for it. It is tough to change, buddy. A resistance runs deep in every human's veins. And I think a star like Aamir can make change a little bit easy owning the influence he has on people. I appreciate your post on Satyameva Jayate's website. And if you were banned because of it then it was wrong to do so from their side. But don't try and come too strong and one sided on Aamir. On one side you are accusing him of being a hypocrite and you are being just like him by seeing only the negative side. Learn to give credit where it is due. Instead of a blame game I would have loved a strong logical argument from your side. I mean you have done one good research. That means you are serious about the issue. But instead of trying to prove someone wrong or right and being judgmental, let's just appreciate the effort and pick up the good points. A better India is hoped for by all of us. And we will not see that hope fulfilled until we keep blaming each other for all the wrongs in our society. Please don't take this post the wrong way. If I have offended in any way I apologize. You definitely are a good critic.

Shravani7417 • 11 years ago

Why to look at the black spot on a white paper? Look at the solutions he is giving for so many problems that people aren't aware of. YOU ARE ALSO OPPOSING THIS SHOW SO MUCH .. ONLY BECAUSE IT IS HOSTED BY A FILM STAR.. I agree he might be missing some points and even some inaccurate statistics like the men death rate but I guess his efforts to come up with all the possible things he can is more important than what he is not focusing on. You are looking at the points he did not bring to the show but do you think if you were in the same place would you have gutts to bring up those, people you mentioned, into the sets? Its obvious that you cannot do it and not because you or he has no gutts but its because you have to wind up the program, which is atleast trying to find solutions for many problems to make INDIA a better one, just because of such offence.

So, please do not try stopping the one who is doing something good for the nation. No one would like getting into loss to do some favor. Aamir ji postponed his film and left all other contracts just to put all his efforts in this project. Aamir ji is ofcourse responsible and hence he is doing all that is possible for him. 

Sabyasachi Sarkar • 11 years ago

I appreciate Amir's initiative but he seems not to take his
responsibility seriously. He should first investigate and reach the bottom of
any issue before broadcasting an episode. I am not disagreeing to the fact, the
torture and trauma women go through, but it is only ONE SIDE of the story. Do
you have any idea how many people, who are not brides (as for you only Brides
appear to be women) but for sure are women, going through the torture,
violence, false allegation and humiliation vested by the WOMEN of yours’? Make
some small effort and go through the files in the police stations and courts,
talk to the lawyers and REAL people!! You will see that more than 90% of these
allegations are false. On the contrary, these 'helpless' women falsely accuse
their husband, the in laws and whoever possibly in reach for them. In some
parts of India, of course there are cases of torture and violence happening on
women, some remote areas of India but what about those 'n' number of cases
happening in the broad daylight and all over the country? I am surprised to
even think that there are people in India who actually believe that the women
who even want special seats in Metro Rails for a journey of 20 mins (on an
average) and needs reservation in every aspect of life and SIMULTANEOUSLY keeps
on screaming for women liberation can be tortured by anyone. Also, the domestic
violence act is not only against the husband or the 'males', it is equally to harass
the women member of the grooms family. So, even if we are actually concerned
about the women, we should refer to the statistics that show that 98% cases of
Domestic Violence cases are false and 498A allegations are to teach husband and
his family a lesson and to make them bow down to the bride. Moreover, on an
average, there are 4 women from the groom’s side harassed in every allegation
of DV, which means almost 400 innocent women are tortured in order to give
justice to 2 actually tortured women, what a JUSTICE. And this is being
highlighted all over the country through cinemas, TV shows, newspaper, etc. The
nation has some REAL expectation from Satyameva Jayate, I hope this show
restrains itself from gaining easy publicity, stop following the trend and come
up with some real issue, some current issue that actually needs to be
portrayed. These so called issues are already popular and whole India is aware
and there are acts and laws for it, bring up problem that our masses are not
aware of and government doesn't seem to bother, only then will the show justify
its name, else these kind of 'Satya' has been selling in the market for more
than half a decade now.

Sirsen21 • 11 years ago

We really had gr8 expectation from this show but it seems that this one too is eager to follow the trend and does not dare to show something which our society really needs to know.  

Ramesh • 11 years ago

sir you only showed about men that beats his wife but there are many cases that a women beats her daughter in law.
we called her saans aur nanad.so you must also share this kind of stories.
I'm a MBBS student and my mother is doing this hilarious job to my sister in law .
i feel this must be stopped but as I'm away and no one listen to me next time I'm going to police to complaint about this.
and about my mothers bad behavior to my sister in law. wish  me luck and Keep doing this great Job.
hatsoff

Malwinder • 11 years ago

Well said. Jay. What was there so difficult to understand what kamlajee said. It was so inspiring to hear her. I wish there were many many more kamlajee. She explained so simply and clear our cultural burden , no one could have said better. I have great respect for her.

Malwinder • 11 years ago

Hi ramesh, wherever domestic violence takes place, I believe everyone connected to that victim is equally responsible for the torture. First of all, her own parents, brothers & sisters, even the extended family members ( in your sister-in-law ,s case, you, your brother and all the family are equally to blame. I was victim of dv, as soon as my brother heard about it, it was the end of dv for me. My parents, brothers & sisters ( brother-in-law ) all ensured me their support and I had the courage to walk out of that loveless marriage. But without my family,s support & encouragement I probably be one of the victims on amir khan,s show telling him I suffered for soo many years. How a father can send his well loved daughter send back to be beaten up by a brute ( just cause he is good actor and can cry and look sorry )
I hope you will take the step and stop the dragon mother of yours to stop the dv against your poor sister-inlaw. Please do not wait for a miracle to happen. You make it happen. All the best.

Puneet • 11 years ago

Hats off to you for stepping up

Narendra • 11 years ago

sometimes wives are taking advantage better to say capitalized the Law in the name of 498 act and nowadays it's increasing rate being high ...... it's hard to believe most of all  (married male ) husband in India are dishonest corrupt immoral inhuman crooked and lack of mental education and if it's true  then it indicate their (married females) wife are very honest moral full of humanity mentally educated and also helpless . BOTH ARE WRONG ASSESSMENT.  

husband and wife relationship is not a battle field neither be a Competition  who is greater to whom ! everybody knows everything today's women are not illiterate or fool they know what is call slavery and  what is call dominating  . I personally know two of my friend who are beaten up by their wife . They are helpless because of our society if they speak up people will laugh at them and If they blocked from beaten up by their wife
it could have been more danger cause then and then their wife picked up the chance to prove they are tortured .
sorry for my pre nursery English  .
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onek • 11 years ago

 it doesn't matter about your english  many folks like me can understand what you wanna say ! 

Parvez Hossain • 11 years ago

 i agree,i am not against women,but dey can make married life hell too.u hav to research at wot extend a man raise hand on his wife.its a habit of some man to beat women but there are some man who raise hand on his wise after tolerating so much.i have seen ppl,who couldnt show any logic in favor of women and den dey goes like "woteva it is but souldnt have raise hand on her".there are soooo many man who love their wife so dearly but dey at least for once raised hand on their partner.why???dats u got to find out.but u have to respect each other view point.dont go like "u hit her for dis silly reason?".wot is silly to some of us can a very big deal for some one,

Sorbongsoha Sontras • 11 years ago

in your point of view  u r absolutely right mr. ghosh . let's see what'll happen in this series .wish  mr.amir khan must be cover another side .

Sirsendu • 11 years ago

Domestic violence is not limited to women only. Nowadays male are also victim of the same. Domestic violence act and 498A are now being misused by women at will to torture their husbands. I am against domestic violence on women and am also against the fact that only one side of the coin is shown. The fact is that thousands of families are suffering because of such treachery by their daughter in law. I think SatyamevJayate should also have an episode on the misuse of such laws as well.

Bondhia • 11 years ago

It is true domestic violence happens to man woman children and elderly too, and the criminals should be punished equally whether man or woman. Man should come forward if he is a victim of violence

Mure1603 • 11 years ago

I am an Indian doctor working in the NHS. I have been married for 12 years filled with violence. The violence is not just physical. The breaking of bones, the facial burns, the flurry of punches and kicks, the flying knives and furniture.
There is emotional and mental abuse. Called me a cow or worse a prostitute. In front of my young son. There is sexual abuse. Forced sex within the marital relationship is still rape. Forced abortion. Then there is financial abuse. Controlling everything I need to buy- cannot choose lingerie without his permission. Destroying my career as a doctor.But worst of all is the emptying of my self. My thoughts are controlled. I am not my self anymore but am what he wants me to be. As he said once ,' You do not have a right to think. you do what I tell you to'.It took me an ongoing divorce battle and struggle to rebuild myself and my child- covering over 2 years. It took me even longer to build courage again to make my own decisions.And I plead with all women who recognise themselves in this description. Get out NOW. The longer you live this existence ( and that is what it becomes) the harder it is to rebuild your self. If nothing else consider your child(ren)- the effects on them are forever; therefore get out before it is too late.

Dinesh Vinjuda • 11 years ago

sir gr8 , r u on facebook ?????????????????????/

Genius • 11 years ago

well done, i'm a school student and and i appreciate whatever u've done.
i would like to ask u. u r a doc. not a housewife and i'm sure u have ur salaries paid, y did u take so long?

Mayank • 11 years ago

Mr. Khan, good episode.. but just want to know why it is always men who are showed as doing injustice in the society and why the other side of the coin is never showed.. Haven't we heard of the number of case where women are misusing these laws just to remain superior in the family. If the boy favors his mother over his wife, some or the day he is falsely accused of taking Dowry. Where is the Justice then and what is the question u want to ask to such people. If your society is asking for equal rights of women, then why are we reserving around 50% seats for women in all the public transports. where is the equality then.. Some Women are no longer "Abla" they are aa-bala.. Men are not meant only to fulfill the needs of his family by working 24*7 and handle all the stress alone. If u support equality also make a episode covering the reason as to why more men are committing suicides compared to women... Thanks. 

 

Nishi • 11 years ago

Mayank, i agree with you, but it all comes down to numbers, percentages, how many people... How many cases do you come across of men being harassed (rarely physically abused) by women? I think both these and many others are menace for our societies. But if we had to start examining from somewhere, it will be the ones that impact the largest number of people.
You will agree in cases of domestic violence the cases of women being abused are much much higher then men being harassed.

Sunil • 11 years ago

Dear nishi i think u are just residing in home and listining to the rumors please move out to society and check to whom u called as male dominant society this had make the males weak if any man slaps on face of a women she will go and file a case but if same think happens with man and if he approaches the police and court they will not believe and listen to him this is why you will get a rare cases of physical harassment by women to men. This a mind set of our society where we are living.

MK • 11 years ago

You are absolutely right. But any government can make "gender- neutral" laws only when your statistics successfully show that violence is not gender biased. In India, the statistics clearly show that violence & abuse is phenomenally higher against women than men. Hence, in a democratic society the laws needs to crafted to protect the majority. May be, in the future once we have transitioned into an gender neutral society from a patriarchal one, then the government can be expected to make gender neutral laws. One has to protect the majority, if one can not protect everyone. Even with so called "women-favoring" laws, India has one of the highest crime rates against women. Instead of blaming the government for making gender biased laws, we as a society should feel ashamed of the fact that we need "gender biased laws" to help protect women in the country. Hope this helps your prospective a little bit. When you mention "there are a number of cases where women are misusing laws", that is true, but still a smaller percentage of society as a whole

Sameer • 11 years ago

Mayank, I agree with you too. But if these reservations and procedures are not in place, you will never be able to be assertive to the males to respect women & to instill that women are equal. By and large it is only these reservations that has brought about the changes we see today. When you look at equality, just don't see apple to apple. Orange has its strength & weaknesses and so does apple. Both are a necessity in the diet. Likewise, women and males have their weaknesses and strengths which are covered up by each other. That is why it is said that a gender completes the other....thanks....

Khalida Sidiqi • 11 years ago

dear mayank u r right ofcourse that (ek haat se talli nahi bajthi ) but what i want to know is who gave the men the right to hit and asult a woman no matter what but i dont think a man shld ever hit his wife. from my own personal experiences i believe men who hit there wives r very weak and cowred.

Sunil • 11 years ago

Dear khalida i am also agree with ur point that man had no rights to hit to a women but what if a women hits a man in our society it is a belief that if a women hits a man the man had committed some big mistake so was beaten by a women and so it is valid but if same case occured in reverse manner then the statement will be made just what made by U so please think.

Yogesh barania • 11 years ago

Beating a woman,is not a sign of masculinity.............

Gladiator498a • 11 years ago

Mr. Amir Khan and his TEAM,
“Ask those women’s husbands who claim had faced domestic violence, are their Husbands had not faced domestic violence?” 
I ashamed for people like you who promote the hate speech in open television, at least Rakhi swahant show was is far far better than you at least she had guts to show the both partners real face to public.Disclose the Study to whom they asked question and then ask the same question to their husbands, then publish the truth.
We had already done the same and expose the 70% data earlier by UN was false and fabricated. If they have at least .0001% honesty and transparent, let make the study by engaging both partner Husbands and wife and then show the result, all over the world all study shows the violence is not a gender issue, women are as violent as men , but in India the violence done by women termed as brave work and the crime done by them got Scot free, result all the husbands killers very year more than 56K as per crime bure data as moving freely in this country and making such one sided , biased scripted view on nation TV and promoting the hate speech and result more and more Domestic violence .Make the law gender neutral then compare who get convicted more men or women, then only some direction or solution can be think, otherwise, the gender war and hate to each other they promoting is nothing but to create more and more family disputes and create huge father less child society. In India as per Crime Bure Report Every 9mins one Age old Mothers Loosing their Married Son, but Mr. Amir Khan can’t see those mothers pain or suffering and result they get abused every day as they can’t give him Crs of ruppes for doing scripted show in the name of Satyam Jayata, which reconfirms beyond reasonable drought , he had no Love , respect or any concern for those Mothers of India. Now read the below : The real study :India’s New “Domestic Violence Act” – A Study ReportOne of the most pervasive myths of our society is that domestic violence is something men do to women. Solid scientific research reveals that domestic violence is something women do to men more frequently than men do to women.While it is true that men account for most violence outside the home, women instigate most domestic violence and they injure men more frequently and more severely.The Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire, under grants from the National Institute of Mental Health, recently finished the last of three national studies on domestic violence. The first two studies revealed results similar to the latest study. Anyone who would like a copy of it may order it from the University of New Hampshire (ask for Document V55). The data tape and documentation of the 1975 and 1985 studies are available from the Interuniversity Consortium For Political and Social Research at the University of Michingan. Original data is also available on CD-ROM from
Sociometrics, Inc. in Palo Alto, CA.The average results in the ‘severe assault’ category are reported below:* Wives report they have been severely assaulted by husband 22 per 1000* Wives report they have severely assaulted husband 59 per 1000* Husbands report they have been severely assaulted by wives 32 per 1000* Husbands report they have severely assaulted wives 18 per 1000* Husbands & wives both report wife has been assaulted 20 per 1000* Husbands & wives both report husband has been assaulted 44 per 1000There are dozens of other studies that reveal similar findings. For instance:Indian Husbands End thier life:It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man ?Crime Bure data,
In the Year 2005, the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks sixty Four Thousands ( 92.88%) vs One Lack fifty-five thousands against women( 6.38%)?http://ncrb.nic.in/crime200.... Sue Moto By Police(FIR Registered): 24,37,973/- 
Crime Against Women : 1,55,553/-
Crime against Child : 17,975/-
Crime against Men : 22 ,64 , 445/-
In the Year 2005 the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks sixty Four Thousands vs One Lack fifty-five thousands against women?% Wise All India Crime Against Men, Woemn and Child as Under :Crime Against Women : 6.38%Crime Against Child : 0.73%Crime Against Men : 92.88%We wonder Whose life is in More Danger in India : Men or Women?Crime Bure data 2005 : Married Men Sucide : 52k vs Married WomenSucide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?2006 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:55452 vs. Married Women Sucide:29869.2007 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:57593 vs. Married Women Sucide:30064.Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B( dowry death) to 304C( SowryDeath) and 498A ( harrasement to wife) to 498B ( Sowry harrasement bywife) ?

Venom • 11 years ago

easy easy
Hey
You have all right to say and perhaps it's true ... but why you are getting so hysterical may be you are allowing your emotion to over power you and your thinking .... but why you are using [quote] I ashamed for people like you [/quote] Is not enough to prove that you use same kind nasty behavior with your surrounding person needless to your family members also . they are also worried and hurt about it !

Parvez Hossain • 11 years ago

 dude,he is right.u have to understand and listen to both side.u shouldn't get judgement by only a watching tv show.u shouldn't be ashamed of Gladiator498a and u should not tak ab8 sumthin where u hav minimum knowledge.Gladiator498a was tryin to establish a point here dat we should take both husband and wife in account wen we r being judgmental. Gladiator498a did say or his comment doesnt seem dat woteva happened with those women on the show was rite.his point was is u r talking ab8 a husband and wife den u got to speak wid both of dem.only classifying women as victim is stupid and not beliveable.its was a one sided show.

and now take it easy and think before u say sumthin.but oh well ppl like u wid minimum knowledge and a preacher will nt understand dis.

onek • 11 years ago

 hey perhaps you don't know what you are telling about . easy yourself first.

Sirsen21 • 11 years ago

Rightly said....the laws in India are really gender biased. Women is some segment of the society are equally or more dominant and violent too but it seems they get bravery award for being so.

Preeti Kaushal • 11 years ago

Hello Mr. Khan,

I have been constantly watching your episodes but its been lately observed that rather than showing whats right, you have been focusing on weaker section of society. An example is female. I myself is a female but a non-biased one.

This is with respect to your sixth episode. Its not that the facts which was shown was incorrect but I think if you select a topic then try to do full justice to it and make it non-biased. Your episode showcased on one side of the coin. In today's world, I have seen many instances where male's are dominated by woman due to which they have to even leave their parents and stay with wife and their kids. Not only this but they are forced to live a life planned/decided by their better halves. In my opinion you should also have focused on this area and then should have concluded that not only females but now a days males are also victim though in small section of society and happy living constitutes of both sides of coin have equal understanding.

Hope you are getting my point.

Warm Regards,
Preeti Kaushal

kruthi • 11 years ago

Thanks for the wonderful show.. There are many cases Women applied violence against Women...especially in-laws... A mother-in-law, who should be in the place of a mother , sister-in-law are also playing a major role in domestic violence.. There were many places in A.P where parents of a girl have to worry more about in-laws than the boy.. In many cases, Mother-in-law will say that her mother-in-law hurted her a lot.. then why should she continue that as well..... In some places it has become like a hereditary DISEASE. .  .  If men feel that beating women is the sign of masculinity, then what could be the reason for this????? I Aamir ji I think you forgot about the role of in-laws in domestic violence... hope you bring it up the next time... 

Sujata Datar • 11 years ago

 I think Kruthi has a very important point here. And I think the problem here is based in the patriarchy which was talked about in the show. Why does a women have to get married and go and live with her in-laws? Here there is an hierarchy which says a man's parent's are the ones with whom the son should live and it is the daughter-in laws duty to take care and look after them. What about the wife's parents? Is the husband expected to be equally responsible for his wife's parents? She also loves her parents equally. The second most important thing is why does a women have to change her last name and take over her husband's last name? And also his name as her middle name? "It's a tradition" people would say. I say it's nothing but another example of suppression and marginalization of the women around the world (with few exceptions in some cultures). Why cant the children be recognized by their mother's maiden family name. People should think about it....The law does not state that a women needs to change her middle name and the family name after marriage... so why does the society practice it on such a large scale?

RKM • 11 years ago

How is it better if a child is recognised by a mother's maiden name? A woman is never forced to change her name at all. She does it in our society to integrate seamlessly into her husband's family. Nobody is forced to do that, as nobody should be. In fact many woman do not change their names after marriage at all. Finally it does not matter at all because finally you derive your name from somebody, here its your father in place of your husband. There is no logical end to such issues as even if they are changed according to your suggestions, my question is so what? How does that make things better? 

Neha • 11 years ago

Yes Aamir,

I am with Kruthi here. One stark example is my 57 year old mother who is still suffering among such monsters. Please re-run this topic with improvements. You have to do it for us. You have to do it for us.
I cannot believe, I am begging you to do something, I should take charge of, but my engg degree, nor my foreign MBA taught me how to give support to a woman, who is scared of her own shadow. I think confronting her repressors is the only way to find her peace. I promise you, I will take from there. I promise you.
I also hope she lives to confront these evil people. I will never be able to live with myself if she dies without doing that much. married to a old man and then beaten up to death every single day. A mother of 4 educated but , I guess weak, women herself.
I will stand by promise if you help me.

Bondhia • 11 years ago

Kruthiji, agree with you in that case even women should be charged and must be punished in the court of law

Anonymous • 11 years ago

Raising the issues of national concern is certainly a commendable step, but the last episode & the issue raised showed that the program is coming in the league of commons. Every second organization in the country is raising voice against DV against women, but can anyone for God Sake, come out to raise a voice against the misuse of the Act by women? Has anyone got the guts to show the violence against men?? Can you, Aamir, become the first one to show the cases where women or their maternals have used the DV Act as a tool to harass their in-laws??? If its not possible than, I am sorry Aamir, you are also trying to be on a safer side & are somewhere biased with the TRP of your program... 

raj • 11 years ago

Aamir...i never wanted to beat my wife but i have beatten her atleast 3 times...My wife is very lovely and caring but at the sametime she feels very insecure and keeps on fighting with me every day for no reason. Almost everyday she starts an oral fight with me ( topic could be anything.i don't know from where the topic starts )..she graduallly start blaming me and then slowly mover over to my parents and sisters although after marriage we never lived with my parents and being always away from them.... I have given her all the freedom...i try to fullfill all her wishes.... i even buyed a property in her name.......She doesnot stops the quarrel until i reply to it angrily..... I kept on noticing this...and then now i don't allow her to speak much  instead i interfere her by fighting at the higher pich than her..  and 2 time i had to raise my hands..

But again i say she is very caring and lovely wife...just i am afraid some day this quarrel should not seriously affect us.

Geetika • 11 years ago

Control your emotions ,dear , if this is the case then just try to ignore the matter . Listen to her n dont react. If she says anything against ur parents then let her. I know i know iknow it is difficult to but dont react one day she will realise every thing herself. When she will realise then only change is possible. Dont beat her it is not the solution. U love her n ur love can only change her. Best of luck