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How disgusting is this! no words
THE husband if really loves her should hire a high profile lawyer and ask for death penalty to both parents.
Another crazy murderous none sense….i mean such a nice happy looking couple and this end….…. shame!!!
The same type of discrimination exists in all cultures. But in this case it is more acute.
This simply shows the narrowness in of our society
as said earlier. It so happened that one of my aunt allowed their daughter to date yadav
boy from outside caste...they were good study pals. But they ended up
marrying someone else from their college upon approval from parents. So
dating is not marriage. Our culture can allow dating for companionship.
There might not marry them. Did this guy who married Bhawna take
approval from parents to date her?
Was there any exchange of "body-fluid" during the dating. Just asking to compare my past experience.
I lived with 3 girls in the 90s when in India it was considered unthinkable( live-in). One after the other each one of them dumped me and are now happily married and settled( 2 for sure).
I did not kill myself. No one got killed. I just moved to the 4th one who was a Chinese.
Go back to your cave
I hope you meant going back to cave and indulge in the oldest act. Hahahahaha.
Abdul and rest, religion separate people more than caste. As we can see with comments
here. this is why foreign forces could colonize region around india
through converting them and all those converts came to india to hit
their own non-convert kind as they could not beat those who converted
them.
Caste used to be profession..but those who profess no caste exploit religion, language, nationality underhandedly.
get well soon....
friends...a life is gone not in a natural way...please stop discussing about gods and caste here... If again we discuss about caste and religion..its not a way to respect the sacrifice what she made for her love....
why not why shouldn't the world know that this caste monster took another innocent life
ALL THE RIGHTS of PARENTS are gone into Gutters :-( whereas Job-Company-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's RIGHT TO CHECK THE "so-called-grown Up" guys are very much INTACT ....
hahahahaha .... what a Justice to Parents, who loved their Kids and did EVERYTHING for them and took all the PAINS for the kids :-(
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can anyone please Clarify the Confusions of this PARENTS' ADVOCATE ??
Parents have no "right" over their children... moron.
My friend, you are a senseless assssssssshole.
Love should be always unconditional.
please, first understand, what I want to ask ...... Why all the RIGHTS
to regulate "so-called-grown Ups" are Null for "Parents only" ? whereas,
Job-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's RIGHT are very
much INTACT ??
is there NO LOVE between "society and citizen" ?
Answer this ...please ..... I know, you are NOT an asssssshole :-) please my dear :-)
Good show. I appreciate the way Yadavs behave. Very happy to know that 6 of them will be hanged. My only wish is to see the yadavs and Muslims wiped off.
Criminals by birth. Genetically engineered to kill and rappppe.
it is about thinking not about people u moron these kind of peole can be found in any caste because they have the same thinking i.e u cant marry outside ur caste.
But you can fcuk outside your caste, I guess. All Yadavs are haapily entering the muslimah "tunnels of love" because Azhant Khan and Pullayam Singh Chudhav are Bhai-Bhai. Hahahahahah... Bloddy worthless people leading meaning-less lives.
Kill the parents and their relatives. Shove couple of wickets on their back-side and hang them in public square so that people will never commit this crime again.
Sabse bada rog, kya kahengay log!
barbarians.
Sad. A life lost. Honour killing is very cruel. What is honourable in killing. It should be called Dishonour killing
"It was a shotgun wedding" - No it is not.
A shotgun wedding is one where the girl gets pregnant and the guys ends up marrying her to avoid embarrassment.
I feel, it's DUE TO the MODERN-day Social "EPIDEMIC of MOBILE-POWERED Girls/Boys evading Homes to marry without consultation from Parents or Elders" :-(
Jawaan, joshiley, KamUmar aur KamAqal "MOBILE-POWERED" LADKE-LADKIYON ka ghar se bhaagna ek WABAA ki tarah phaela hua hay :-(
Ye PROBLEM har qisam ke ghar mei aaya hua hay : Ameer, ghareeb, Jaahil, Educated(less or high both), Dehaat, Shahar, :-(
MERA KAHNAA hay ke,
Parents love their children and do everything for them only.
BUT,
1> Don't the Parents have any Right over Kids and their Life-Decisions ??
2> Why modern-day youth have made Parents as their TOYS ??
3> If UNDESIRED happens to this "Irresponsible Crazy Youth" , why Parents are hold "responsible' for that ??
4> Why only parents are supposed to bear the pain ??
5> or Are parents are like Slaves to their MODERN-kids ??
it's really a Sorry state of Family Relations in these "so-called-developed" society :-(
please, my friends ..... CLEAR my CONFUSIONS, give me some CONSOLATION and Write some STEPS to tackle or avoid these "Sad Situations" ....
Killing anybody is a crime, not a right. Stopping anyone from exercising his/her fundamental right is a crime, not a right. Casteism is a crime, not a right
Parents don't have the rights to kill their adult children for perfectly legal choices they make.
Your logic is totally stupid...In this case the parents treated the kids like slaves and you are saying the opposite
please, first understand, what I want to ask ...... Why all the RIGHTS
to regulate "so-called-grown Ups" are Null for "Parents only" ??? whereas,
Job-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's RIGHT are very
much INTACT ??
Answer this ...please ..... I know, you are NOT STUPID :-) please my dear :-)
I think you are mixed up...Rights don't regulate - Rights let you do things.
Every body has a right to be treated like a sane individual and their individual choices respected including that of the parents and the adult children...Not sure what is the confusion here for you.
I have only one solution. the parents along with their relatives should have been killed long back and fed to PIGs.
"Don't the Parents have any Right over Kids and their Life-Decisions"
Yeah right, why not just strangle them if they disobey you. Please read the report properly. They told their parents about their friendship and their wish to marry. Just because some people elope without parent's permission doesn't mean all are same.
If you cannot digest truth don't vomit on it at least
please, first understand, what I want to ask ...... Why all the RIGHTS
to regulate "so-called-grown Ups" are Null for "Parents only" ? whereas,
Job-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's "RIGHT to regulate them" are very much INTACT ??
Answer this ...please ..... I know, you are a DIGESTER :-) please my dear :-)
this isn't a "sad situation".. it is a murder.. you're trying to justify murder by slinging mud at the girl.. i hope that clears your confusion
one needs to view this from all perspectives -
Neither children nor parent are toys. Children, once adults are not mere puppets in the hands of their parents and even children should take parents into confidence.
It does seem that eloping wasnt the first thing that the girl/boy did and they did try to convince the parents who did not agree and even decided to marry her off to someone else.
Now think from the other perspective, had the girl agreed to marry off some other person in agreement with her parents, dont you think in actual 3 lives would have been impacted?
And not just the three lives but everyone around them too would have to bear the pain.
The boy and girl were not fooling around and were serious about their commitment which is a great thing.
What is this honour that gets destroyed if children marry out of caste? Is it more important than the happiness of your kids? I agree that due diligence has to be made to make sure that person your boy or girl are getting married to are worthy enough, but caste is a shallow criteria.
Every good relation ship needs connection, communication and love. When this is missing, things like these happen.
you mean : they are Job-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's puppets??
please, first understand, what I want to ask ...... Why all the RIGHTS to regulate "so-called-grown Ups" are Null for "Parents only" ??? whereas, Job-Boss's, Traffic-Police's and College-Principal's "RIGHT to regulate them" are very much INTACT ??
Answer this ...please .... I know, you and I both are NOT puppets :-) please my dear :-)
There is no right answer to this. Some of the rules set out by traffic police or principal are meant for safety, regulation and ease of administration and must be adhered to. As far as Bosses are concerned, you listen to him because your job is at stake. One also has a choice of changing jobs and bosses if they are making life miserable for you. However if your boss is good, you would want to work with him or her forever.
One has to understand that if you are listening to them because of fear, then while it may serve the purpose of a policeman, it may not work well with a boss. Atleast not forever.
Now to come to the point of parents. Not all parents are perfect , just like not all traffic police, principal or boss are not. Also if children or parents have to "obey" one another because of fear, then the relationship is flawed. Parents need to have a strong bond with their children through communication. They have to be able to have a heart to heart talk with their kids. It may work or it may not. And when it doesn't you may feel that your child disappointed you. But that's life and not everything would work according to your plan. If your child was able to talk to you about their life's decision at least you have love and connection. Be happly about it with an open mind.
much worse things can happen!
Great logic buddy- if only Indians have agreed to live peacefully under the British...lots of lives of Independence fighters would have been saved
Sir, Pls stop using mobiles, browsing 'net, watching tv and reading newspapers. that would give u much peace of mind and space for meditation. an adult daughter / son has the right to chose their life partners. In this regard, the westerners seem better off as they ask their son / daughter to leave home as soon as the child turns 18. Parents happy - children happy.
Why are you calling that PIG Sir.
Blame it on Bollywood, media, tvs..and Muslims!!
Get your head examined. u r a pshyco case. None of the 4 u said could be blamed.
Fundamentally, we, the Indians, still live under the concept - "Log Kya Kahenge". We are still more bothered about the society and its norms rather than our own family. Time is changing but still we have to go long way. Till then such instances shall continue to happen even when the family is well educated, belong to an upper strata of the economy. Many of us are yet to gather courage to get out of shackles of old norms. Sad but that remains the ground reality.
Indian parents are fundamentally mistaken in thinking they "own" their children.
question is can the coming generation come out of such mindset ? leave aside our parents, can we stand with the right ?
we are already. i have allowed my sons to marry chamars and sudras.
While that is good....it sounds like you feel like you did a great compromise from the way you write it...I hope that is not the case in your family
Yes we can !
Sad to see these types of incidents in the developing modern India. Are we going back to stone ages?
Religon and old worn out traditions just keep giving sad tales. These murdering parents are just stupid ingnorant people and the faster they die off the better. This world has enough religious and social hate for two worlds.. Stupid traditions and holding your daughters as chattel is akin to selling livestock. Make an example of them and try to educate the other same minded people. India is one huge sewer.