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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for ellebelle</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/ellebelle/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/ellebelle/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 12:37:39 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1582140658</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1582140658#comment-97505834</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The text on the front page is messy, darker and a different font and when&lt;br&gt;viewed in the dashboard it shows the formatting language (um...I have no&lt;br&gt;idea what this is called).  I'm using Firefox, maybe this is the problem?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 12:37:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1432366063</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1432366063#comment-91516484</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I feel like I should reply to this but I'm not sure what to write, You're&lt;br&gt;welcome isn't appropriate because I didn't even have a new picture but you&lt;br&gt;know how I am with time and I have been saying this over and over in my&lt;br&gt;head, don't forget Mills' birthday, it is in October and sitting at my desk&lt;br&gt;today repeating it to myself I realized this was the day and so I am tempted&lt;br&gt;to apologize for it being so small.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Gosh, this is such a small gesture.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You have been one of the best friends that I have ever had.  I remember once&lt;br&gt;saying this to you and you replied that you didn't think it was true because&lt;br&gt;I didn't seem any happier than I had been before but that wasn't what&lt;br&gt;mattered or does matter, what is and was important is that I am better for&lt;br&gt;having had known you and for having been your friend even if on the surface&lt;br&gt;I still struggle in the same old ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I often think how remarkable you are and I admire you for so many reasons,&lt;br&gt;mostly that you always try to do right by the people you care about, even&lt;br&gt;when it isn't easy or convenient, even to those who don't hold a large part&lt;br&gt;of your heart.  It is easy to speak of your mind and your many talents and&lt;br&gt;your personality and sense of humor because they are so exceptional but&lt;br&gt;above all else it's your heart and compassion and generosity that make you&lt;br&gt;such an extraordinary person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'll stop here, the tears welling in my eyes being a signal that this has&lt;br&gt;become too sentimental.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Happy Birthday Mills!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 14:49:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1314074406</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1314074406#comment-87028247</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yeah, you like to see the creative behind the scenes, the work before the&lt;br&gt;great masterpiece?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wish there was a queue that was a real queue, or maybe I should post in&lt;br&gt;the middle of the night, where I can edit publicly in private because I'm&lt;br&gt;not sure what I like until it is there.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2010 17:53:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1207342232</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1207342232#comment-81857719</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Fat Frickin Chance...I'm four years away from a logical half-life and you&lt;br&gt;just left college!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#butthanksforthesentimentanyways&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 21:54:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I&amp;#8217;m a bad writer</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1174084917#comment-80584093</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ok, here we go:&lt;br&gt;He has a dick, of course he's gonna call you out.&lt;br&gt;It wasn't rude, just a little shocking that I have aged SOOO much in the&lt;br&gt;last five years.&lt;br&gt;Ask your dad, he knows what color my hair is, yo&lt;br&gt;I can't shave my head because I won't have anywhere to hide when I am&lt;br&gt;embarassed&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 12:39:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1092199635</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1092199635#comment-76734509</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I learned my ABC's from you!  and what I can't make up for in words I can&lt;br&gt;make up for in smiles and pinches (could you imagine me as a sales person,&lt;br&gt;not wanting to engage but being so competitive that I wouldn't want to&lt;br&gt;lose...I'd be fucked.)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 13:45:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: People die. Their burdens don&amp;rsquo;t.</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/1087927946#comment-76733247</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Call me yo, I'd be happy to tell you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Things They Carried is (not past tense) very much affecting.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 13:39:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/660651751</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/660651751#comment-54849507</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Why thank you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm following in your footsteps and your hippie-do with less-no blow dry&lt;br&gt;mantra!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 00:49:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: from the (not so)sweet mouths of babes</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/555688066#comment-47349189</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Did you tell them the bad words? Sometimes I catch myself being too&lt;br&gt;honest (or what I can imagine is being too honest but usually ends up&lt;br&gt;being totally prudish by most standards in the end).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The conversation ended with the babe saying stupid was a bad word and&lt;br&gt;I nodded, still slightly in shock from the first word, and then he&lt;br&gt;asked if stoop was a bad word and just like that, we pulled up in&lt;br&gt;front of school.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 23:33:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/472480452</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/472480452#comment-41815334</link><description>&lt;p&gt;You did with this comment, thank you Erica!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 16:20:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/440342925</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/440342925#comment-38948570</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Sigh.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:45:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/421212303</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/421212303#comment-38433674</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh Ellen! This is so nice, really truly sincerely, thank you&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 11:59:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/385586866</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/385586866#comment-34007025</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes!  Wednesday I felt like we were forsaken, possibly forever, Thursday was&lt;br&gt;a resurrection and today is so glorious; two days of sunshine and blue skies&lt;br&gt;feel like paradise!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 10:30:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/381997788</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/381997788#comment-33573915</link><description>&lt;p&gt;There are too many points: you didn't remember saying this when you read it in my post; you didn't remember saying this days after you said this; I couldn't find the essay you thought it might have come from; you said this about your girlfriend and you still don't remember ever saying anything like this; I confused Peter Attenberg for Peter Altenberg; there was another man involved; I don't like to publicly admit we are friends because: you don't know what my children look like despite being being friends for a very long time; I had to publicly shame you into following my on twitter; you think I am a yankee; you, like some of the worst men alive, also think that women talk to much about food.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 21:13:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/374829138</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/374829138#comment-32870296</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ok, you win - this made me snort laugh.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 17:56:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/371514526</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/371514526#comment-32684864</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This one isn't mine!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For the millionth time: Oh. My. God.  I thought we were friends!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:21:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://langer.tumblr.com/post/361209827</title><link>http://langer.tumblr.com/post/361209827#comment-32346700</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Matt, I apologize, I should have been more careful with the tone of my comment because it wasn’t my intent to be political.  I was disagreeing with the use of the word consumers because the majority of U.S. purchasers are not wealthy or elite (and with Mac sales not making up more than ten percent of the net U.S. computer purchases I think it’s safe to say that those concerned with new Mac products and applications are not a majority of consumers) and I think if we are calling people out than we should use the proper names.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Politically, I’m not in agreement with your response; I don’t think that it is unjust for people to command billion-dollar empires but I don’t think it is just for children to die from lack of food.  Fair and just are a luxury to talk about but also a waste because they’ll always exist, the world will always be this way, it’s the nature of life.  People are hungry in the shadows of these empires but they were hungry before them and they will be hungry afterwards.  The disparity of wealth is so immensely large that I find it almost entirely impossible to wrap my mind around it but closing the gap would do little to alleviate suffering on a whole because it’s inevitable, it abounds, it’s part of the human condition.  If there wasn’t one billionaire hording power and comfort at the expense of others there would be another one.  It’s also true that hugely complex and deeply layered problems are not solved with singular solutions and in fact, simple solutions often expound the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I sympathize with you.  I think that we should grant a majority of our considerations to people and not things.  I think you have a good heart.  I think that once someone has experienced true suffering than it makes it impossible to ever turn your head completely away to that kind of pain again; to not recognize it and to feel it shudder deep in your bones but with that said we all do it everyday on some scale.  We are surrounded by hungry people, desperate people, people who are disenfranchised, disengaged, and forgotten and I think that the best we can do and the most many of us can hope for is to channel our efforts into making smaller impacts that ripple throughout humanity by reaching out where we can and by doing the best by our neighbors as we can.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 22:59:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://langer.tumblr.com/post/361209827</title><link>http://langer.tumblr.com/post/361209827#comment-32145140</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Matt!  Really?  December's national unemployment rate was 10%.  The Congressional Budget Office estimated that government spending on food stamps will rise to $50 billion this year.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm willing to bet that for a majority of current consumers it is a luxury to think about the location and processes by which their food is grown.  &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 10:02:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/357300526</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/357300526#comment-31784139</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Really?!  I just woke, slightly worried, at 5am to do research and this gave me a head start.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 05:10:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Everly Veda’s Birth Story.
 I’ll start this story... - Dear Baby</title><link>http://dearbaby.tumblr.com/post/327570952#comment-31059444</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This was so beautiful, tears streamed down my face, thank you for sharing such a meaningful and intimate experience.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Congratulations!  xoxo&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 10:12:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: the beautiful and the ordinairy</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/137288099#comment-30982933</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Kate Rose is a nice alias; I feel like it fits you really well.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 12:56:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Life is hard. Here is someone.</title><link>http://meaghano.com/post/332705378#comment-29700188</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ba da dum!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What is that sound that the drum plays when the joke has been delivered?  Other than silence...I'm all to familiar with that sound and the accompanying awkward stares.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whatever!  This isn't the point.  The point is that you should forget the novels and pursue comedy.  You and your sister could switch.  Like a movie.  Except not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Oh fuck.  I wish I didn't have to attach any identifying information to this comment.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 19:55:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: the beautiful and the ordinary</title><link>http://beautifulordinaire.tumblr.com/post/329518990#comment-29449637</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm laughing and coughing, coughing and choking, laughing and coughing thinking about you in Florida, all of it, the whole thing, the insults, the slander, the hippie hostel with the community living...it was the best.  Except for that time that you lied about what you were reading.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 21:24:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: heaven spent</title><link>http://cricketbites.com/post/294115548#comment-26906868</link><description>&lt;p&gt;'Everyone is going to unfollow us simultaneously and I don't care, we make me laugh!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 19:28:43 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Reason one thousand and two I am grateful for my cat allergy</title><link>http://cricketbites.com/post/294027516#comment-26906288</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Seriously, you're the best.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">ellebelle</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 19:21:27 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>