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Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

black_barbi510 — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 11:09:10 -0000

I have no problem letting him know I'm on birth control, but he bet not think for a minute that just b/c I am, we not using condoms! Birth control only prevents pregnancy, not diseases, and if he dont like it, he can roll out!

Re: It's Not For Everyone....

black_barbi510 — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:05:49 -0000

I'm not married, but have have been engaged before. I want to get married, but I'm in no rush. When the time is right, I'm sure it will happen. But I agree with u Ness, I dont need to spend all that money on a couple of hours.

I also made a pact with my friend about 10 yrs ago that if we arent married or w/anybody at 28 we are going to get married. I'll be 28 at the end of the year and dont see marrying him in my future.

Re: Strut Your Stuff

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 12:20:52 -0000

LOL @ standing in a potato field. I hate seeing crusty feet too, that irritates me.

Re: Strut Your Stuff

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 11:44:25 -0000

I love heels, gotta wear them everyday. Its crazy too because when I was younger all I had was tennis shoes...Jordans like crazy. Now I might have like 2 pair of tennis shoes. I cant even wear flats because I feel weird.

Re: Hating A$$ Haters (THE SEX EDITION)

black_barbi510 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:53:56 -0000

Xilla u are the best, so keep doin what u been doin. Dont let them haters get to u. Thank them, they makin u more famous!

Re: Baby Mama’s And Exes Can Still Get It

black_barbi510 — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:36:47 -0000

I have slept with an ex before, and at the time it was cool, but eventually I caught feelings again and it didnt work out. So I probably would never do it again. As far as my baby daddy, he'll never get it again!

Re: I Pissed On Her Because I Loved Her

black_barbi510 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 13:26:53 -0000

I was thinking the same thing.

Re: Summer Time

black_barbi510 — Thu, 28 May 2009 11:06:18 -0000

I dont feel summer time is a reason to be single...But I know a lot of people do. My question is what happens when fall/winter comes back around, then what do you do?
Its crazy you posted this, b/c I was just telling a friend my dude has been acting different lately and I'm sure it has something to do with the summer approaching...that and his a$$ just bought a new Escalade on 28'' so he think he really doing something...smch

Re: My New Life Will Start At 40

black_barbi510 — Tue, 19 May 2009 15:46:21 -0000

There's nothing wrong with having kidas at 40, women do it all the time. Only you know when the time is right for you, if you dont feel ready now, dont rush. I understand the health issues that might happen when you're over 35, but really it can happen to anybody no matter what the age is.

I'm 27 and I'm the youngest mom in my daughter's 1st grade class class by far. She does go to a pretty mixed school, but the majority is white, and I swear the other parents look like they are in they're 50's and its nothing wrong with that, they finished school and have a career, while I'm busting my a$$ working and going to school now.

Re: The Ultimate Vacation

black_barbi510 — Wed, 13 May 2009 15:35:02 -0000

I would definitely have an escape way out or even a back up plan just in case...

Re: The Ultimate Vacation

black_barbi510 — Wed, 13 May 2009 11:32:08 -0000

I'm in...its a free trip. And it aint like I dont know my position.

Re: The Ultimate Vacation

black_barbi510 — Wed, 13 May 2009 11:31:26 -0000

You are too funny! LMAO

Re: Myammee Revealed: Why Were You Always Half Naked?

black_barbi510 — Wed, 13 May 2009 11:28:29 -0000

I was thinking the same thing...talking about she lost her luggage, but she did say she was being like Megan at first.

Re: The Fit Is Just Right...

black_barbi510 — Tue, 12 May 2009 18:55:41 -0000

Yeah you right...I didn't even think about that. lol

Re: The Fit Is Just Right...

black_barbi510 — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:53:58 -0000

I've always wondered the same thing myself. Still searching for the answer.
Ness you right, the best thing would be to be a man for a few hrs, that will probably be the only way we'd really understand what they mean that.

Re: Dear Xilla: Running Red Lights

black_barbi510 — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:50:18 -0000

Good advice...but she does have to make that decision on what she really wants.

Re: I Can't Imagine Life Without Imagination

black_barbi510 — Tue, 05 May 2009 11:20:55 -0000

me too...first thing that came to my mind wasnt a lamp.

Re: We Have To Be Prepared: DIY Pedi

black_barbi510 — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 18:00:37 -0000

I get pedicures all year round too, I used to go every 2 weeks, but now my money aint right and I go at least once a month. I take my daughter with me and let her get her hands and feet polished too, something I just started for fun on special occasions, but now she wants it done all the time.

I dont have enough patience to do my own pedicure, I wish I did though, sure would save me some money.

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/04/women-who-deal-with-men-who-arent.html

black_barbi510 — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 11:23:07 -0000

When I was a senoir in highschool, I waited on my dude he was gone for about 2 years, but I was younger then and really felt I was in love and we would be together forever.

Now thinking about it, it is a hard question, I'm usually loyal and dedicated to the man I'm with so part of me would want to stay and wait, but the other part of me would be like I shouldn't be putting my life on hold for him because he got caught doing some stupid $hit.

Re: Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:24:58 -0000

I agree dont do it! I had an office romance and of course it didn't work out. It was real awkward afterwards for us and our friends as well. They didn't know who they should talk to or what...it was just a real crazy situation.

Re: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:09:15 -0000

Yeah I totally agree with Blacksand I'm almost 30 and I need more substance. I cant live with a bad boy for life.

Re: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:13:38 -0000

Girl it really does!

Re: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:10:56 -0000

It really is a diffrence between the two...Now that I think about it, all the nice guys in my past were lames and thats why they didn't last.

Re: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:09:41 -0000

I've been attracted to bad boys and it never works out good for me, I try to change up but I get bored with nice guys, either that or I end up taking them for granted and walk all over them. But as I get older I realize I need to change my thinking and really give the nice guys a try.

Re: Revenge Is Best Served Cold

black_barbi510 — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 13:40:24 -0000

Yeah it real stupid on her part, and on top of that dude now saying she owe him $5000 for all the personal stuff she messed up and they landlord making her pay too.

And you right, dude is just fine and he got a place to stay.