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Re: 6 Strategies For Confronting The Other Woman

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 07:27:59 -0000

It is exactly as it happened to me but after 29 years of what I thought was a wonderful and perfect marriage. It lasted a year because I believed him every time I kick him out he would cry and beg for forgiveness because it was the first time he cheated I kept thinking somehow it was my fault until I realized he was losing respect for me every time I took him back. Once I placed his belongings outside and told him good bye, thanks for the memories and I hope a woman like her can make you as proud and happy as I did. He not only quit his job to get away from her, but I got a better husband, a better, father and a better lover. Make your move and set him free I know he loves you but needs to feel what it will be like to lose you forever before he can appreciate you. She can never compare with you and he knows it. My prayers are with you.

Re: 6 Strategies For Confronting The Other Woman

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 07:13:04 -0000

deceived? what a bunch of bull

Re: 6 Strategies For Confronting The Other Woman

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 07:07:38 -0000

I confronted my husband's lover and her excuse was that she was desperate for a family of her own at 39 she wanted a husband and she liked mine. She saw that he was a good husband and a great father and went after him. She pursued him for over a year. After 29 years of marriage he was my first and I was his. His ego, low self esteem and health issues coupled with her insistance and comments like I can do things better than her, almost caused us our marriage. When I told him if that was the type of woman he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, there was the door. He ended the affair and completely stopped talking to her. She went on a rampage every time she saw him until he transferred to another job site. She told everyone that he had lied to her about being married and she ended up looking like the victim and my husband like an ass. She taunted me with the disgusting details of the affair trying to make me feel that I deserved what he did to me because I was not as good a lover like her. Now he lives with the horrible guilt for what he did to me and our children and needs more therapy than I to get over his mistake. I sometime wish I could somehow let everyone know what a ###### she is but there is a God that will do me justice.

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:22:05 -0000

Believe it or not in some cultures, the wife expects her husband to get involved with "ladies" like you who don’t deserve the title of wife ever. So they know it will only last till the Viagra runs out or meet someone new more "professional" than you while the wife continues her respectful place in society.

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:09:45 -0000

Does he pays you with cash or credit card.

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:01:33 -0000

Hell

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:59:31 -0000

You are such a saint!!!!! Im sure the wife deserves it. Enjoy it while it last

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:55:16 -0000

trust me he is telling his wife you are a tramp and canot get rid of you but it is her his wife whom he loves. the lies are going to last as long as you continue to accept being the whore.

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:48:06 -0000

so if his excuse is that his wife does not give him enough sex and you do? so what's the difference between you and a prostitute?

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:45:44 -0000

He is the selfish liear? you need to take a good look at yourself

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:42:35 -0000

You are better off praying to God to forgive you

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:39:55 -0000

amen to that

Re: Dating A Married Man: Think Before You Act

betrayed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:37:41 -0000

If you were an honest "lady" why did you got involved with a married man to begin with. Yes he is stepping out of his marriage but it is women like you that make it possible. Is it that hard to say no thank you I am a decent woman and I only get involved with single men? Gullible? bull s.... you believe what is convenient and then complain about being lied to. Shame on all of you. True love does not start with lies and betraying the innocent. Why is it that the "other women" to call her mildly is always so quick to believe that the wife is terrible? therefore deserves to be betrayed? Wake up and take a good look at yourself if you can handle what you are going to see. who created the monster, the wife?