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Re: Justin Bieber DUI Arrest: Bond Is Set at $2,500 - Crime & Courts, DUIs, Justin Bieber : People.com

Rebekah — Thu, 23 Jan 2014 16:02:32 -0000

It's one thing to make a mistake, it's completely another to repeatedly show poor character and judgement. This kid is on a downhill spiral and will end up in rehab (where he probably needs to be) or dead. He is only perpetuating the image that the media has of him. I

Re: Adventures In Mommyhood: Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop: The Things She Taught Me

Rebekah — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 14:43:09 -0000

What a wonderful tribute to her.

(stopping by from Mama Kat's)

Re: Mommy Monologues: Pet Peeve: Tailing

Rebekah — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 10:40:54 -0000

I confess I was a terrible tailgater, until I came within inches of death when the car in front of me stopped suddenly!! Very valid peeve!!

Re: Delurk Me! . . . . that sounds dirty

Rebekah — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 17:22:36 -0000

You mean there isn't an official "show me your penis day"? Well, I got excited for nothing. I will not tell you what I was doing at 14. I will just say that I am the daughter of a former Baptist preacher and let you draw your own conclusions. Which might include cigarette behind the church and stealing communion wine and drinking it in the empty baptistry, but I will neither confirm, nor deny.

Re: I'm a guest-posting virgin, and I'm here to talk to you about whores.

Rebekah — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 11:07:41 -0000

OH MY!! I think I just peed a little!!! HYSTERICAL!!

Re: http://www.astrangerinthisland.com/p/who-is-mariposa.html

Rebekah — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 10:51:19 -0000

You always leave the sweetest comments on my blog, and I appreciate them so!!

I confess to reading you whole love story awhile back, and it made my heart pitter pat!! Hope to have a good love story to tell one day, as my first one...well, we just won't go there!!

Re: Bread, The Next Best Thing to Sex

Rebekah — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 16:19:02 -0000

I think I just peed a little!!! Hahahahaa!!!!

Re: Let Me Be a Woman

Rebekah — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 12:39:41 -0000

Elisabeth Elliot is the kind of woman we should all aspire to be. I've read many of her books and have been both touched and challenged.

Re: http://abtba-domestic-diva.webs.com/gabriola.swf

Rebekah — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 14:26:01 -0000

Thank you for stopping by my little ol' blog!! I loved this post!! I was married, and now am single again, and let me tell you it is even harder the second time around!!

Re: My Exotic Destination Theory of Relationships

Rebekah — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 23:13:25 -0000

I read through all the comments and none of it is rocket science. It scares me that women, and I am one, can be so dense. Why are girls surprised when scenarios like this happened. He told you from the get go he didn't want a relationship. When I hear that from a guy now I do not think his mind will change after he sleeps with me. I think...well this one is not getting a piece. Since I know what I am looking for when I hear those words I am out the door. When are women going to wake up and take men at their word for a change???

Re: Andy Pemberton Cannot Abide Lady Gaga’s Celibacy

Rebekah — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 11:26:27 -0000

Personally I think she is to be commended for what she said. Are people not allowed to change their mind or their ways? If I had screwed the entire football team in high school am I not allowed to say now that I will be a lot more choosy in who I sleep with? And nowhere did she suggest that anyone should be like her or do what she does!! Is there something wrong with urging women to carry condoms, because in my experience most men don't anymore, and to be careful who you sleep with??

As for her attire or lack thereof...I am with betty on this one. Her lack of pants has never once made me question her sexual habits, it has however done what it is supposed to do...garner attention.

Re: On the Other Hand…

Rebekah — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 10:22:12 -0000

Why is the song "Getting to Know You" playing in my head? Hahaha

Funny I was watching Hitch again on TV last night and a quote caught me. Sara starts saying "You trick women into..." and Hitch replies "Getting out of there own way!"

Hello!! Hand upside the head. How true is that statement. Women have been getting in their own way for decades and there is so much to blame for this. Disney and it's princesses and prince charmings. Being told over and over that you can have anything and everything we want. We are told to be picky and never to settle. Yet, we are also told to be open minded.

It's confusing. I read so many comment on HUS from guys who are frustrated by women, and trust me I feel your pain. Trust me I have been out and seen these woman. I have seen how they behave. Hell, I have friends who ARE these woman, and its discouraging even to me. Because women like me, who are looking for good/nice guys, are getting passed over because of what the previous girl did to them.

It's a two way street folks.

Re: When Should You Agree to Sex? Guys Tell It Straight

Rebekah — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 09:55:48 -0000

No matter when you agree to do the deed, one guy will see you as giving it up too soon, where another will think you waited too long.

Re: A Nice Guy Tells You How to Win His Heart

Rebekah — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 09:25:45 -0000

Loved this post. Gave me a few things to think about!

Re: What Guys Are Really Saying About You When You’re Not Around

Rebekah — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 12:39:37 -0000

VOMIT!!!

That is all I have to say. However I wish that this mentality stayed in college, but let me tell you it is alive and well in the "real world" As my friend told me recently, after a bout of me making some REALLY bad choices, "Wake up and smell the douchebag!!"

Re: Can Women Run GAME on Men?

Rebekah — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 12:13:50 -0000

"Ok... I'm going to share a deep dark guy secret here. No hating on the messenger, please. When guys talk about their exes, or girls they've had short term flings with, there's an implicit understanding -- if the girl is fat, or particularly unattractive, it means the guy got lots of blow jobs and probably anal sex, too. It's joked about a lot, but unattractive girls are expected to be more sexually adventurous and available. Which sucks, I know, because then they end up putting out for guys and then getting dumped. Over and over."

^^ This from Hamby explain a WHOLE lot in my past two "relationships". It explains why I am the girl they only want to have sex with. Guess men expect that a girl who has a few extra pounds will just thank her lucky stars that someone wants to get naked with them.

Re: The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About

Rebekah — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:52:20 -0000

But exactly what is a "healthy" number of partners??

Again that is subjective to everyone. A healthy number to you might be 10 to 20. A healthy number to someone else might be 4 or 5.

But I also agree with what you have said, and apply the same principle to men. Just because a guy has slept with 20 or 30 women does not mean he knows how to do much more than grunt and thrust between the sheets. Sex is a learned skill, and it takes practice. I would take a man with a low number and SKILL anyday, over a guy with a high number and the mating skills of a rabbit!!

Re: The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About

Rebekah — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 12:37:38 -0000

I think Conflicted is just that. But I think it boils down to this. Is he bothered that her number is higher than his? Hello, ego! Is he really seeing her as damaged goods? In that case Meredith had a good point. What number is TOO high? I would like to know if he has disclosed his number to his girlfriend, and what she had to say.

Hamby might be on to something in the self sabotage department, however she could very well be thinking that her man would be understanding, and accept her past. Doesn't look like that is going to happen in this case though.

On the flip side, let me tell you that having a number that is low is also frowned upon. I'm 33 and I have had a grand total of 4, count em 4, sex partners. Now, in my estimation someone like Hamby (just based off what you said above, nothing personal) might think that I was highly inexperienced. However, 7 of those years I was married, another I was in a LTR with, and the third someone I dated for a length of time Number for is a FWB. So yes, my number is low, but I have never had ANY complaints in bed, and am quite skilled.

A number is a number. Motives and morals aside. People will either be comfortable with that number or they won't. No matter if it is low or high!

Re: Hate the Player, But Don’t Blame GAME

Rebekah — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 15:04:08 -0000

No no I totally agree. Banter is one thing. Playful teasing and matching wits, yea I will admit to being a turn on. But the full on insults like the "baby fat" remark in your post. I'm sorry Target should have shown him what her drink looked like up close and walked away. I guess I don't understand the "needing validation from douchebags" mentality. Perhaps being 33 and a little wiser has its advantages.

Re: Hate the Player, But Don’t Blame GAME

Rebekah — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:34:21 -0000

And how long is "very long"?? This is different for every guy. I hooked up with a guy 6 days after our first date...relationship lasted 4 months, with some of the hottest sex of my life. We still hook up for random every now and again, and he is currently in a year long relationship. Guy after him I waited til our third date, and never heard from him again.

And this whole "negging" bullshit. Sorry, but if some guy needs to employ 3rd grade playground mentality to get my attention, he is going to see the back of my head. Insults of any kind don't fly with me, and he is a guy I would never give the time of day too.

Re: The Power You Gain When You Lay It On the Line

Rebekah — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 10:44:38 -0000

Per usual I think Hamby hit the nail on the head!!

Now if someone could point me in the direction of 30-something men NOT acting like college frat boys I would be happy!!

Re: David Wygant and the Worst Advice I’ve Ever Heard

Rebekah — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 12:04:20 -0000

No yelling here Rick. I am a woman and I agree with you.

Re: Why Relationship Drama is Addictive, and What To Do About It

Rebekah — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:47:59 -0000

Funny I didn't have drama in my relationship with R back when we were in our relationship. Now over a year later, and he is popping back up in my life like a damn jack-n-the-box and I gots nothing but drama!!

Re: Drunken Hookups Are Good for One Thing: Stories!

Rebekah — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:45:22 -0000

A year ago and six shots of tequilla later, and all I remember is lots of giggling, a strap on, and lots of cursing...on his end (no pun intended). We laughed about it the other night....he still has that bottle of tequilla!!

Re: Sex is Chemistry, and It’s Never Casual

Rebekah — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 10:23:13 -0000

Hamby, I couldn't agree with you more. I recently heard a statistic that said most women were happy to have sex 1 or 2 times a week at the most and be happy, and men 4 to 6 times. These numbers didn't really surprise me. What did, was this young woman who called in and was disgusted that her boyfriend seemed to want sex all the time, and she was surprised when he left her. Well duh!! I don't understand the mentality of women seeing sex as a chore. It seems pretty basic to me. Give your man what he needs or someone else will.

Which leads me to whole heartedly agree with what Hamby says about the least a woman can do is give good head and put out. Yea, it might be un-PC, but its the truth at its basic level.