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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:24:07 -0000

no, it's the sort of thing someone educated on matters of sexual assault would bring up. men get raped more than women, as a matter of fact. statistically, they get raped by other men more often than by women, however, men are taught by society that it's unnatural for them to be victims, therefore they rarely report rape.
rape is a word that is thrown around far too much by women, to be honest. i am a woman, but i can still say this.
it's because of the idea of "date rape". aka, anything can be rape if you feel guilty the next day. many innocent men have been accused, and if men defined rape as loosely as women do, there would be millions among millions of female rapes reported daily.
i'm right by the way. i worked at a sexual assault hotline and i studied the effects, causes, and attitudes toward rape for years. women have the upper hand nowadays. it's the honest truth.

Re: 559085309

beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:18:49 -0000

no, that is only statistically correct. technically speaking, men get raped as often as women, mostly when they are much younger. they are simply less likely to report it because society discourages it.

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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:17:30 -0000

really? i have.

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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:16:52 -0000

girls don't have to be drunk to call it rape. open your eyes and google it. thousands of innocent men have been falsely accused of and even jailed for rape because society is so prejudiced about this one crime.

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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:15:14 -0000

they don't necessarily have to be drunk. us women have the right to accuse any man of rape, under any circumstance.
and the jury will almost always agree with us.
personally, i find it disgusting.

Re: 559085309

beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:13:34 -0000

yeah, in matters of rape, guys are completely fucked in the court room.
it sucks, and i've seen it happen. i wish i could personally kill every girl who's ever done it.

Re: 248487077

beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:37:00 -0000

i'm being true. going for it is what will work.
you will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't talk.
trust me, please, i know where you're coming from.

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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:35:13 -0000

Re: 248487077

beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 15:19:08 -0000

i know it was bitchy, but not useful? i think it was very, very useful.
in fact, it's probably the best advice i could give to anyone. i've learned that you have to be firm with advice, or people won't take it.
in other words, we don't take friendly advice, we take realistic advice.
and i guarantee that mine will work. i've been through it.

Re: 248487077

beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 13:55:11 -0000

just do it. it's your own fault that you're in this situation, where you can "get in trouble" for that. come to your fucking senses already and YOU be the one who talks first. pussy.

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beachbarbie — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 13:52:01 -0000

hearing from him.

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beachbarbie — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:39:16 -0000

then for heaven's sake just break up with her. there are single girls out there who need you. let her go before three years becomes 4.

Re: 60827417

beachbarbie — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:15:06 -0000

i really can't believe how shallow people are.
danielle, at least you're scared for a valid reason.
it just pisses me off that people are scared of PHYSICAL pain when there's so much more on the line when you're losing your virginity. besides, the pain is hardly even a pinch.

danielle though, just remember that virginity is only a big deal because people make it a big deal. if you don't want it to be a big deal, it doesn't have to be at all! losing your virginity to "the one" is like a cultural custom. just do what you want. be your own guide, and forget about what other people say.

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beachbarbie — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:05:03 -0000

nothing is "right" or "wrong" unless it FEELS like it is to the person. other peoples' definitions of right and wrong should never affect what YOU do, or how doing what you do makes you feel.

and different things are "healthy" for different people. it sounds to me like even if they don't "love" each other, the girl and her ex have a mutual way of solving the fact that they are both horny teenagers. they are both using each other! and who cares! life is short, and i'm glad they're having fun.

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beachbarbie — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:23:30 -0000

then just fucking say so.

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beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:05:10 -0000

me too. i miss him more than anything in the world.

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beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:02:11 -0000

not everything needs a good reason, not everything you do needs to be "healthy". just do what YOU WANT to do.

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beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:00:25 -0000

why don't YOU do something?

Re: 60827417

beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:16:59 -0000

listen to x. that's all.

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beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:08:29 -0000

vagina envy.

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beachbarbie — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 15:26:05 -0000

oh dear.

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beachbarbie — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:36:19 -0000

now watch Dexter. it'll help you choose your victims.

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beachbarbie — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:27:36 -0000

then just say so.

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beachbarbie — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:26:08 -0000

well if you didn't have a girlfriend, you wouldn't have to worry about this kind of thing, would you now?

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beachbarbie — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 12:03:59 -0000

someday you'll fly away.