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Re: Win a Sleep Little One Gift Set!

arvilla — Wed, 28 Dec 2016 18:20:33 -0000

My resolution is to take things one day at time and not stress everything I can not change. And to do one challenging, exciting new thing next year.

Re: 19 Signs You Were Raised By a Narcissistic Mother or Father

arvilla — Thu, 08 Sep 2016 21:09:41 -0000

Thanks for responding. That must be hard to have to deal with it - it takes a strong person to put their feelings aside for the health of someone else. I had to travel to see my parents a few weeks ago after not talking to them for 6 months because my dad is sick. But I figured I would keep myself busy with going through old items and toys I've needed to get and it helped a lot. No small talk was a good thing. My mom wanted me to leave my kids with her a few times over the weekend and I said no and asked why do you want me to leave them with you. It was just strange. But I will probably never leave them alone with her in my life. How do I explain to her? She will figure it out eventually. Thats something I've struggled with. Letting them see her, I have a 2.5 year old and a 2 month old.

Re: 19 Signs You Were Raised By a Narcissistic Mother or Father

arvilla — Tue, 06 Sep 2016 17:33:40 -0000

I think you should feel confident in your abilities as a parent. They have you. Being a parent means putting your needs second to theirs and teaching them in positive ways not guilting or verbally sparing. I know in my heart I'm not perfect as a parent but I do know I do validate my 2 year olds feelings something my mother has never done for me.

Re: 19 Signs You Were Raised By a Narcissistic Mother or Father

arvilla — Tue, 06 Sep 2016 17:27:55 -0000

Yes me too. Never knew what this was until I has kids and realized I don't trust them to be with them.

Re: 19 Signs You Were Raised By a Narcissistic Mother or Father

arvilla — Tue, 06 Sep 2016 17:26:07 -0000

We have a lot in common. My mother is a narisist and my father passively watches. My brother still lives at home agreeing with everything they do. I have always felt out of place in my family because I got out. I went to college and got married and had kids. I have just realized my childhood was very hard to let go because it can effect how I deal with things now with my hysband. Ive gone many months withour speaking with my familt because if the way they treat me. And I will never ever change how i feel abour them. Its hard. At least i know im not alone. If you ever want to chat here is email arvillamorett at gmail dot com. Thus website has helped me feel like me again.

Re: Actor Robin Williams Is Dead at 63

arvilla — Mon, 11 Aug 2014 19:58:45 -0000

I was so shocked when I heard. I can't believe RW would do this. He was such a funny and great actor. I hope in "what dreams may come" heaven is as great as he thought it would be.

Re: Rant :: GeekAdvancement.com

arvilla — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 16:44:37 -0000

Wow, this is super fun. I have to have the lastest gizmos and gadgets, I could be inspector gadget for halloween.

Re: Rant :: GeekAdvancement.com

arvilla — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 16:42:44 -0000

I never realized I was a geek until I read the definition.