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Re: We Posted A Pic Of Madison Beer On IG & Were Horrified By What We Saw

Thu, 19 Mar 2015 23:19:47 -0000

Sadly, the main reason people hate on her is because she is said to be dating Vine/YouTube/iTunes star, Jack Gilinsky of Jack & Jack. Fan girls be hatin', that's all. Hopefully she knows it's not about her, personally, because there are some awfully mean girls out there.

Re: Life as a classroom: To anyone who's had their heart broken...

Sun, 23 Mar 2014 12:19:22 -0000

Thanks Jolene. They have been there for me too. I'm trying to reach out more when I need it and encourage my friends to allow me to help. I too am glad my friends are understanding that it's okay to ask for what they want.

xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: It IS Possible.

Fri, 14 Mar 2014 12:16:54 -0000

Thanks again for the support, CBG. And, as you heard from my email to you, I still think you could rock this too.

Love!

xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: It IS Possible.

Fri, 14 Mar 2014 12:16:05 -0000

Thanks so much, Jo! I'm nervous and excited. Nervous and excited. Eeek! This mantra and the great outpouring of support is definitely helping! Thank you for your inspiration! xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: In a Long Distance Relationship, Is Missing Someone a Bad Feeling?

Mon, 24 Feb 2014 11:45:33 -0000

Thanks for the comment, CBG. Glad to hear your point of view.

Re: Life as a classroom: In a Long Distance Relationship, Is Missing Someone a Bad Feeling?

Mon, 24 Feb 2014 11:44:49 -0000

Guilty, huh? Hmmm.... it's not like he's the only one who lives far away. It's a two way deal and he looks just as bummed when I'm leaving. I keep reminding him that his "processing time" is shorter than mine! LOL!

Thanks for the input. Love you.

Re: Life as a classroom: In a Long Distance Relationship, Is Missing Someone a Bad Feeling?

Mon, 24 Feb 2014 11:43:32 -0000

I appreciate you chiming in here because I know you know.

Reframing it may be exactly what needs to happen. Need to noodle on this for a bit.

xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: Listening is an Act of Love

Fri, 21 Feb 2014 11:05:50 -0000

Most definitely!

Love you!

Re: Life as a classroom: Work/Life Balance as a Single Mom? Pfft.

Fri, 21 Feb 2014 11:04:45 -0000

Thank you!

Re: Life as a classroom: Work/Life Balance as a Single Mom? Pfft.

Fri, 21 Feb 2014 11:04:33 -0000

I hear you girl! I need to seriously grow a pair and stand up for my family life instead of feeling like a victim. *deep breath* Working on it! Thanks for the inspiration!

Re: Life as a classroom: Work/Life Balance as a Single Mom? Pfft.

Fri, 21 Feb 2014 11:03:39 -0000

I've been questioning my career choice for a while lately. And praying a lot. Hoping for clarity too!

Re: Accepting Your Child’s Other Parent

Tue, 07 Jan 2014 22:45:32 -0000

Oh it's not the post-divorce model she's used to at all. Apparently she and her ex don't even speak to each other.

Re: Accepting Your Child’s Other Parent

Tue, 07 Jan 2014 11:13:24 -0000

I wasn't even referring to the other "parent" but the other parent's partner. My ex's new wife wishes I were never around AT ALL. I read this thinking it would be helpful to me to help accept her but she refuses to accept me. It has caused several riffs in their marriage already, unfortunately, that my ex and I coparent well and get along.

Re: Life as a classroom: The Best Laid Plans...Best Get Laid

Mon, 06 Jan 2014 17:10:03 -0000

I hear you! Part of it is that he usually does instinctively know what I need. The other part is that for several weeks now, I've been totally unsure WHAT I need. I've felt so helpless and lost and not even wanting to get out of bed. I certainly can't ask him or anyone for that. Yet, that's what I've been longing for. Honestly.

Knowing that about me, he's been in an especially tough spot in general. He has his own stuff and he worries that, if I can't handle life in general, I'm gonna bail. And I've felt like bailing so I can get this need fixed. But what sort of thing will fix someone who doesn't want to take care of anything anymore except for good drugs or a commital. Ha!

So... yeah, I've done this to him. I've been confused and tired and restless with no end in sight. I'm amazed that he's still listening to me at all.
Love you.

Re: Life as a classroom: The Best Laid Plans...Best Get Laid

Mon, 06 Jan 2014 14:35:11 -0000

Jolene, it was interesting to click on the "love" label and read how many times he's done this for me... and I for him! This is why I love blogging. :)

Re: Accepting Your Child’s Other Parent

Mon, 06 Jan 2014 12:18:10 -0000

Gah! I love this. Such a fresh perspective. The hard part is getting the other partner to understand this. Sadly.

Re: Life as a classroom: Soldier Got Married

Mon, 06 Jan 2014 10:08:32 -0000

Thanks Jo. I'm really over it... and being able to talk about it with GJ helped with that. I felt that it was very mature of him to ask about it too.

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:30:22 -0000

Thank you. You definitely make me feel a whole lot less alone in the world.

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:29:42 -0000

Love you, Niki! Thank you!

xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:29:10 -0000

Rest. Yes. That is what I feel like I need. I've been sleeping so much lately.

And you're right. We all go about our days pretending everything is okay. Isn't that exhausting? No wonder there is so much depression and anger in the world. We're not allowed to admit that this is hard.

Thank you for offering some allowing to me. Thank you for loving me. Thank YOU for being HUMAN too.

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:21:40 -0000

Thank you for saying this is part of her acceptance. That really helped me to think about the stages. I will bring pictures this weekend and we will laugh and cry together.

Thank you.

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:20:42 -0000

You are such a rock for me. Thank you. I'm sorry if I've been absent with you. Always sending you so much love.

xxoo

Re: Life as a classroom: Ending the Year

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 11:20:08 -0000

Thank you so much, Jo. I'm so sorry that I've not been a support for you lately. I miss you and Sunshine so much but I'm just struggling. I really appreciate you both for sticking with me and continuing to inspire me.

Love you. xxoo

Re: Happy New Year!

Thu, 02 Jan 2014 10:54:45 -0000

Sending you love, Mandy!

Re: Life as a classroom: Looking for Life's Answers: Does it really matter?

Thu, 26 Dec 2013 16:26:48 -0000

t - yes! That! All of that you just described! Exactly! It only feels like forever, right? *sigh*

Big love and hugs to you too!