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Re: How Do You Like It....

TRJ — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 01:40:08 -0000

im not a very hairy person at all but i normally keep mine trimmed down low, i even shave the testis, b/c i dont want my partner not to want to go down on me b/c its too hairy. i dont like a hairy kat at all i wont eat it and i can feel the hair when we get it in but only im certain positions though and it just doesnt look so appealing. also i keep mine trimmed b/c alot of hair can attract funky smells especially in the summer time and i cant have any funny smells+down+there+b/c,+idk+if+people+do+this+but,+i+put+cocoa+butter+down+there+not+for+any+particular+reason+thats+just+the+type+of+lotion+i+use.++++

Re: How Do You Like It....

TRJ — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 01:38:42 -0000

Re: Time Machine

TRJ — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 01:02:12 -0000

i have tried to re-live the past but my attemps failed. i recently tried to revive a old friendship that involved sex but the sex was not what i was seeking. the reason we stopped talking was because she found out about a past relationship that i wasnt over completely however we were starting to grow close but she began to feel that i was using her for the sex since i hadnt lost all my feelings for my ex. although that was not the case she stood behind her feelings and moved on. i wanted to show her that+our+friendship+was+real+and+more+than+sexual+pleasure+but+my+efforts+were+futile.+i+now+realize+that+i+must+understand+what+i+did+wrong+in+situations+resulting+in+losing+a+friend+or+breaking+up+with+someone+and+learn+from+those+mistakes+instead+of+asking+for+a+do-over.++++++++

Re: How Do You Show Love?

TRJ — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:00:27 -0000

i show love by being there when no one is going to be there, just being that person who a female can talk to about anything and giving my honest opinion and/or any helpful advice possible. just being that shoulder she can lean on. i dont really show love through sex very often because i can have sex with a female but dont love her. dont get me wrong i aint no very emotional person, in fact i have been told that i bottle my emotions in and keep them to myself but thats a different story, but if i love a female dearly then i will care for them. on top of that i just do the little things that put a smile on my woman's face for example my signifiant other likes it when i hold her hand in public, honestly i dont like holding hands but i do it anyway just for her b/c i rather do it than give her a reason to let another guy come along and hold her hand. i also show love by telling my woman my deep secrets that my mother doesnt even know, that shows her the trust i have for her and how comfortable i am around her. it more things i do.

Re: How Do You Give Knowledge?

TRJ — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 19:09:46 -0000

idk really know when a female is enjoying my tongue game but i know when im getting some good special attention that i either start to moan or we end up 69ing the rest of the oral session idk why i do that but it feels like it should be done sometimes...

Re: Today It's About You...

TRJ — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:13:35 -0000

it just seems excessive, i know i will think about sex throughout the day but not for the whole 24 and a couple days straight, its just more than usual. and i be having fantasies about doing things i never considered of doing before

Re: Today It's About You...

TRJ — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:27:40 -0000

i think i have a lust problem. dont get me wrong i LOVE sex but sometimes i just think about sex too much and to to feel like a pervert. i mean like thinking about sex is ok i think its normal but not all damn day thats not cool. this just started recently, i guess its b/c i stopped masturbating b/c i realized doing it everyday cannot be too good but anyway. it doesnt matter where i am or who im with any good looking female that passes my way i have some type of sexual thought about her and its crazy b/c its to the point where I think its a problem. it would be different if someone else told me it was a problem b/c i could easily brush them off but i feel this way about myself but im trying not to beat myself up about and just center my focus around something else but its tough when im around so many good looking females. im not really asking a question i just had to get that off my chest but if you feel like dropping a comment feel free...

Re: Summer Time

TRJ — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 13:58:36 -0000

it would be easier but relationships are about make sacrifices right? and just b/c the temptation is there doesnt mean you have to act upon it.

Re: Summer Time

TRJ — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 10:03:07 -0000

i dont think the summer time can justify being single. the summer is just full of temptations when in a relationship. its hard to stay focused and faithful in the summer time b/c of the flirty nature that comes with the heat. me myself i think you should be in a relationship in the summer b/c you get to go out to more places. besides i wouldnt risk bunning up with my lil summer fling in the winter b/c she might just be on jump-off status.

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/04/its-not-youits-me.html

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 19:13:22 -0000

i think it can be true but its only looked upon as bs b/c the term is used so much in the movies, in books, and on t.v. i have used the term before and the question that i was asked was "whats wrong with you?" so i proceeded to tell her how i feel. though she asked the question as if she thought i was just feeding her some bs but once i sat there and explained what i meant she said she understood and everything was good. we didnt remain friends it was a akward feeling between us but at least i know i had closure and we departed on good terms.

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/05/i-like-being-selfish.html

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 19:05:40 -0000

since you put it like that i think i should start being selfish. i am not selfish at all when it comes to sex i do everything to please my partner i go all out to please my partner especially when im in a relationship b/c i figure that if i dont do it somebody else will. i feel you though when someone asks for it that turns me off. i had a girl once she was really suppose to be a one-night but she ended up being a couple months lol but it seemed like she could never get enough like right after im done putting in a hour-in-a-half's work shes asking for some more and i started to really get annoyed. i never asked for anything i know i ask what she do but never for her to do it.

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/04/whats-point-doing-one-without-other.html

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 18:59:24 -0000

i think that they both are intimate but i also feel as though kissing should come before you give somebody head. if a female goes to give me head before she kisses me then i wont kiss her at all. if i get head on the first date ima think who else has she gave head to so early in the game, but i when it comes to kissing i could really care less who you been kissing. i would kiss a woman on the first night before i even think about eating her out.

Re: Make Sure You Have Your Raincoat

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 16:12:10 -0000

i cant lie sometimes i be wanting to to my partner lets leave the condom out of the equation but using my brain i keep that thought to myself. i have had women tell me i dont have to wear a rubber but i didnt take them up on their offer. i have had only one occasion where i didnt use a condom which was my first time and i caught something it wasnt nothing serious fortunately but i took care of it and i will never take that risk again i have had the condom pop but i put another one quick. its too many diseases to be careless with my manhood and i just made 18 being a father is the last thing on my mind, alot of people i graduated high school with were pregnant at the graduation ceremony or already had there child and i decided it couldnt be me. im not really having that much sex now but i always use a condom b/c my first experience really put some fear in me and i might not be as lucky if i slip up again.

Re: I Can't Imagine Life Without Imagination

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 15:45:46 -0000

my imagination always gets the best of me but idk why. sex seems to linger in my mind alot. i feel the same way im glad im the only one who can hear my thoughts. some of the things i think about i wont ever consider doing or ever done but it seems to bring some type of please mentally. but i tend to have mind sex with women alot like if a sexy female catches my eye, we may have a session or two in my mind, hopefully this isnt obvious, i dont really get up off those thoughts though but if i do it goes down quickly.

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/05/when-talking-dirty-goes-bad.html

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 15:32:54 -0000

i never take any of those words serious. if we are talking over the phone about what we will do to each other i take that into consideration but i dont expect exactly that. i just think of it like if when we have sex is the only time she says certain things to me then she doesnt mean them, so i dont get too excited as if im the best d!ck layer and i dont get turned off by her telling me she wants to have my baby. the whole "i love you" thing should never be taking serious especially if the only time she tells you that is during sex.

Re: Knowing Is Half The Battle

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 15:21:08 -0000

i feel as though you should'nt go looking for anything if you wont be able to take what you may find. if theres no evidence or reason to believe that your significant other is cheating on you just leave the situation alone. besides all the dirt in the wash comes out in the rinse so if there is something going on behind your back it wont go on for too long w/o you finding out about it, but its all about how you handle the situation if there is something going on. i think if you do suspect cheating you should confront them about it and then watch the actions that follow and a little investigating wont hurt but i would never go wild like putting hidden cameras all over the house lol.

Re: Rub It While I Watch

TRJ — Wed, 27 May 2009 15:06:29 -0000

i love to watch a woman play with herself, and its even better when she starts to really get into it. just hearing her moan and watching the different faces she makes gets me right. i think the females who say it does nothing for them are not getting involved with it mentally. i dont know why but i like it when she's done and she giggles afterwards, crazy right? lol but its better to watch each other i think b/c you can have mind sex with your partner.

Re: The Most Embarrassing Things Happen During Sex

TRJ — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 18:48:55 -0000

These top my embarrassing moment

Re: Sexy Body=Lovely Sex Life

TRJ — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 21:31:38 -0000

this is very true. for me, i know that i need to workout a little more b/c i focus alot on hygiene. i let my leanness get to my head and slack on exercising. i just need to tone my body alil more. exercising helps your mood too, the main reason why i started working out was b/c i didnt have another way to control my anger but thats a whole different story. lol

Re: From The Vault: Head Is A Must

TRJ — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 22:21:17 -0000

I wouldnt really say head is a must b/c if a female is too quick to suck my junk then giving head is probably her habit and its no tell where her tongue been. on the other head its some females i know i wont eat for anything so if she give me head and expect a favor i will look at her like she stupid, so to avoid all of that i gotta bite the bullet and not get my thang swallowed. but i do agree with how you feel about when females just sit there and look at it, i hate that. i would be more happy if she just come out and say she dont want to give me head, at least i know, other than her sitting down there just holding it. but ladies you have to want to do it also, dont force yourself to do it b/c its going to be a unpleasant experience for the both of us, and a dude like me, if i let you suck my johnson, is more than willing to return the favor.

Re: Whatever Happened to Making Love?

TRJ — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:46:23 -0000

i think that a guy has to know how to make love. i am kinda new to making love b/c i only made love 2 times but i really think its more based on mental stimulation rather than physical pleasure. i think that the act of making love itself is apart of love as a whole, for example you can love someone without any type of sex and then make love to that person which can make you love them more but if you have sex with someone before you love them then you will have lust for that person. This is just what I think not what I know, correct me if im wrong.

Re: From The Vault: Whisper In Her Ear

TRJ — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 19:31:59 -0000

I can vouch for cooking breakfast in the morning. For me it normally leads to a another round like after I wash dishes, yeah you gotta do that too, or when we in the shower. I get so much more outta sex from a female when I tell them I want to fu(k em, its like she likes when we take things slow but its something about when I get rough with her she loves.

Re: (Un) Welcome Mat

TRJ — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 22:06:15 -0000

lmao thats funny

Re: Let’s Go Out, But You’re Paying For Your Own Stuff

TRJ — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 18:34:12 -0000

That is disrespectful. I dont even feel right when a female says she will pay for everything. How can you expect a female to pay for herself if you are insisting that she must get something? This makes her feel like you are going to pay as you should. Going Dutch is never acceptable, if you cannot pay for everything then just dont go out.

Re: (Un) Welcome Mat

TRJ — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 18:06:54 -0000

I feel you because people have the tendency to just "pop-up". Most of the females I know have never been in my neighborhood so I will show them where my house is but they will never know how to get there. If we leave my house to go somewhere, the route we took to get wherever we are going is not going to be the way we come back. That way they will not know how to get to my house and will have to call me before they decide they want to come over. But on the other hand when I take a female home I do have a sense of some type of responsibility and want her to get in the house safe, especially if we are out late. I wont leave the front of her house until I see her close the door after she steps in the house, I wont do anything stupid like be waiting for her to come outside one day without her knowing I am going to be there or show up unannounced b/c I don't like when females do that to me but I understand not everyone thinks like me so I can understand why you don't let guys know where you live, it makes perfect sense.