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Re: Switch It Up!

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 14:37:29 -0000

Loved this post. But I'm definatley an aggressor more often than few. I think I'm gravitated towads a partner that will let me get my inner dominatrix out. Don't get me wrong I absolutley LOVE my man in control but I love a man that knows how to share the spotlight and let me shine for him...haha.

Re: The Attentive Man!

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 14:45:48 -0000

I love an attentive man. I guess I'm used to having my own way especially with men. I don't mean in a manpulitive way by any chance just to the extent that those type of men are always attracted to me. They make me a priority and what woman doesn't love being a priority in her man's life?! These are the type of men who know how to treat a lady but still can kick some ass to hold his girl down...love that! I'm a giver too though...I keep my man happy and willing to always be avaliable to his lady yet independant enough to let me know when things need to fly right. The best relationships are about each person giving 100% and appreciating and never taking the other for granted.<3

Re: http://www.pinkcufflynx.com/2009/01/non-responsive-man.html

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 14:55:40 -0000

I've never had a truly unresponsive man. The first time I got down I was surprised that men could be that loud. You know on tv they always make look like the woman is the one always trying wake the neighbors and shit. The closest to a non-responsive man I know is when he's trying to hold back his climax a bit longer and even then the facial expressions give it away..haha. But like was said communication is a big thing especially sexually. When you communicate with your partner and even so get to know each other under the sheets...reponsive or non- responsive you know when your shit's right....<3

Re: The Attentive Man!

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 15:09:30 -0000

That is so true!
Men need ladies to help keep them on their toes and vice versa.
I'm not a traditionalist in the least but I will always appreciate a good old fashioned gentleman with a lady on his arm. Some things can never gather dust and that is a classic.

Re: The Attentive Man!

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 15:37:15 -0000

Lmao...@ my desk.
Game recognize game though.
Real ladies do grown things^_^
No need to demand what is rightfully yours.

Re: The Attentive Man!

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 16:08:46 -0000

Haha..that's hilarious.
I second that!
The good ones know better though.

Re: Head On The First Date

SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 16:21:50 -0000

Head on the first date...Hell naw! Never ever sex on the first date and that has to come first. If dude's worth it he'll wait.. Firstly on being *Exclusive-my man..... Secondly me being comfortable enough to place my mouth on his member.... if THEN.....all the head you want...I love pleasing my man once it's reciprociated.

Re: Opening The Pickle Jar

SweeetPea — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 08:56:06 -0000

I'm a bit guilty of being the alpha female at times. I think that when a guy is present and he sees something like me needing air in my car tire or help elsewhere. He should insist before I have to ask. I love a man that takes initiative. But I'm obliged to ask my man to check under my car hood if I need oil or something from the top shelf. I love serving my man is plate too. But like the other person said I'd like him to needing me to be his woman just as I allow him to be my man too, by doing lil things just because I don't want to right then like getting up to just get a drink. When both of your egos are stroked it makes the relationship much healthier. Each person giving 100% and expecting no less.Awesome post.

Re: What's Your Type

SweeetPea — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 09:11:40 -0000

I'll admit to being abit shallow. But I love the atheletic built type between 5'7-6'5 perferably. I'm 5'1 and I love looking up to my man especially if he's built like a fortress and can pick me up with ease. Nothing is more appealing that running your hands over some firm pecks and tight abs in any situation. I'm more attractive to a built man with physical assets because it shows that he cares about his apperance and maintaining it. It doesn't even have to be a gym workout but like 30 minutes a day rountines at home or some sport just to keep in shape while having fun. I invest time in keeping my body toned so it's both inviting and appealing to have a guy that takes care of his body too. Gut and flab are a sign of laziness. I like a man that wants to feel attractive for himself and me also. I can understand being lax for a minute but totally letting go and showing no initiative is a huge turn-off . Especially in the bedroom when you can compliment me on how hot I am and I can't confidently say the same about you. Built is definatley better.

Re: Whatever Happened to Making Love?

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 12:23:47 -0000

Personally, I would perfer love making because it's more intimate and like 'kingmomma' said and it's not just for any ole jump off buddy it has to be reserved for that someone you are really connected to. Not that you plan to get into loving making or anything it just happens. Where from foreplay your guy is exploring every inch of you and kissing touching before the actual scene goes down...a guy that can get you so rowdied up without all the swearing like "i'll fuck you so good"..lol has the real skills when it comes to love-making. I love than I can connect with my man in this way and still get some mind-blowing sex like.... dang! you just have to ly in it for awhile even if you'll drippin' sweat because yea it's that good.
I don't think it would actually be classed as love making if you weren't in love. Because of the intimacy and connection it involves. On the other hand two partners can really care for one another and have one of these sessions without it really being love or the exchange of the words. But more than likely that's where it will lead at least for one of the parties invovled if not both.

Re: Whatever Happened to Making Love?

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 14:12:59 -0000

Lol @ gets the juices flowing.

I know what you mean though.

Re: From The Vault: Whisper In Her Ear

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 14:40:28 -0000

Ahhh...."I love how you taste"....that'll never get old. You're so right 'Xilla' he's got to mean it and that turns me out everytime b/c I know he does.
Nice post least to all that apply...more guys need to see this.Kudos^_^

Re: You Could Have Told Me We Were Going Dutch

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 15:17:31 -0000

Lmao @ the parked the car bit and dude came in on the Marta!! That right there would have been so red flagged to the point of....date over right then and there! If just maybe he was up front about not having his own ride or whatever maybe we could have worked it out. But dang, after dude was so foul I couldn't even consider another date just to even make him spend his money if he did actually have any despite what my homegirls said. It would have never even gotten to the dutch point.....

Dude was too foul from point!...lol

Re: 9 Tips To Calm Her Angry A$$ Down

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 15:26:49 -0000

It was all good until you said go for a long car ride.
No, no especially if ole girl is the one rolling. If mister wasn't following steps 1-car ride.... consider his face on the milk carton or in one hell of a car crash. You don't want an angry woman behind the wheel of a car. Not safe for the passengers or other drivers. Yet if she agreed to the car ride probably means she's somewhat calmed but speaking from experience could be a trap..lol.
Good points for sure.

Re: Girls Who Poke Holes In Condoms

SweeetPea — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 15:45:14 -0000

Dang! This post is so true. I could point out a hand-full of chicks like that. Sad to say that here where I'm from chicks intentionally get preggers for dudes who aint worth shit so I don't know what that's about. They have that Mz.Independant shit going on in their minds when they're hardly holding it together. And vice versa for some dudes who try to trap chicks too just to hold em' down. Battle of the sexes I feel for the kids.

Re: I Can't Imagine Life Without Imagination

SweeetPea — Tue, 05 May 2009 11:32:18 -0000

Lmao...I totally got that picture the first time around and it wasn't a lamp either...lol.