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Re: I Didn’t Love My Wife When We Got Married

KeenerGuy — Wed, 11 Sep 2013 13:40:03 -0000

Maybe, I see this differently because it took me so long to get into the whole dating and relationship gig. For better or worse, I focused the younger years of my adult life on myself. Learning who I was, making a life for myself and not following the path that many in my family took which generally led to divorce.

I think it also matters that I didn't date in the normal sense and maybe by using the internet, I found the love of my life, my soulmate, on eHarmony. I won't get all sappy I promise. What I will say is that a lot, and by that I mean way too many, of relationships are built on the wrong principles. Looks, financial status, and failed contraception drive many relationships.

What I learned from eHarmony was that finding someone who shared my values, dreams and interests meant that we could be in love from the beginning. How? Because we could have deeper conversations from the beginning, not that financial problems are ever easy to discuss. It would also mean that, love didn't come from just a physical perspective, although physical love is important in a relationship. Real chemistry is at work here. When you have shared values, interests and goals, you find that you REALLY LOVE the person deeper than you ever thought was possible.

I say this because after meeting my wife on April 9, 2005. I felt more connected to her than anyone person I have ever met. We finish each other's sentences. Actually, many times we are thinking the same thing at exactly the same time. Yes, it is creepy and many times people don't believe it is true. We were engaged in July 2005. I was and still am on top of the world with my love for her. I would do anything for her. Never underestimate the value of cleaning around the house or helping with the kids. Never think that you are above a task that your loved one would do. I would spend every second of every hour of every day of every week of every month of every year for the rest of eternity with my wife and I would be HAPPY!!! More importantly, I would love doing it!

You see, maybe I am just a romantic or live in an ideal world, but part of the challenge of a relationship is the hunt. The hunt for finding the Mr. or Mrs. Right. I don't think I would have done this at 25 or even 30 years old. I do know that love is work. It is making choices, picking your battles and not expecting the other person to bend to your will because it is what you want. Your mindset needs to be that you want this person in your life so much, you would do anything to make it happen. I had that spark early on in our relationship and it turned into a flame and now it is a full fire in the fire place bordering on a bon fire.

Re: A Modern Dad Sounds Off on 'Modern Dads' | Movies News | Rolling Stone

KeenerGuy — Wed, 28 Aug 2013 13:02:49 -0000

Most of reality tv is an embarrassment. Think Honey Boo Boo. The problem is people still watch it. We like to watch others fail or be put into awkward positions to feel better about ourselves. It's like being a cool kid in high school and watching all of the losers flail about.

We try to teach our kids about not stereotyping, stop bullying and be positive and then we make shows like this. Take the junk off of tv. We could do with a few less stations anyway.

Re: 10 free apple store ios apps for 5 year anniversary

KeenerGuy — Wed, 10 Jul 2013 17:33:32 -0000

The desktop version of Day One is not free. It is currently listed at $9.99.

Re: Jeff's Blog: A Letter from Play to Parents

KeenerGuy — Thu, 04 Oct 2012 12:05:18 -0000

Our lives wouldn't be complete without Play in them. My son for one loves to play outside he has such an active imagination and enjoys playing more than anything else. Through him I have learned how to ride a scooter, at 40 years of age mind you, played doctor and patient and dinosaur.

I think there is something to be said for letting kids be kids. Pressure will come later in life and there will be plenty of it. I for one am not in a hurry for my little guy and girl to grow up any faster than they have to. Thanks Play for reminding us what being a kid is all about.

Re: Why Baby Blue Collar?

KeenerGuy — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 12:51:36 -0000

Thanks Lisa. I appreciate the positive words. Hope you are having a great week.

Re: Win A Signed Copy Of Engage! The New Book By Brian Solis

KeenerGuy — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 12:36:47 -0000

Looking forward to the chance of winning the new book "Engaged" by Brian Solis. Please pick me.

Re: A "Super" Dad Moment at the Super Bowl

KeenerGuy — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:35:16 -0000

JackB - Thanks for the comment. It was a wonderful scene that warmed my heart.

Religion may not have been THE reason, but I believe that it was a contributing reason. Rarely in those types of situations do you see a player stop focusing on the fun and the hoopla and focus on the people most important to him.

I appreciate your feedback.

Re: DrewDat!

KeenerGuy — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:10:22 -0000

It's great to see that so many dad's caught that moment. It definitely inspired me. We have all seen athletes bring their kids down on the field, but Drew Brees' focus on his child and sharing that moment as he did was a great Dad moment.

We don't all have a Super Bowl to share, in fact his son probably won't remember this one, but we all have time to share with our kids.

Re: Project New Me – #newme

KeenerGuy — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 18:25:33 -0000

Great idea and a wonderful way to build a network of supporters. Count me in. Now if I can just limit the things that I want to work on so that they are not overwhelming.

As for a great 5k training routine. Check out the PodRunner intervals podcast (it's free). They have everything from Couch to 5k to half marathon training. The regular PodRunner podcasts also have great music to listen to when running.

You may also want to check out DailyBurn.com for a great free site to track your performance.

Here's to a #newme in 2010.

Re: Happy Birthday Mira

KeenerGuy — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 11:53:49 -0000

Thank you. The slide show was easy to do on Slide.com.

Re: Beautiful Sunrise on Saratoga Street

KeenerGuy — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 13:45:37 -0000

Avatar - There is nothing so inspiring as a beautiful sunrise or sunset. I love them. Thanks for commenting and I hope that you get to see a great sunrise soon as well. Have a fun and safe Halloween!

Re: Disneyland Treats

KeenerGuy — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 19:12:57 -0000

That sounds really good. I love peanut butter on just about anything though.

Re: Feasting Foodies Has A NEW LOOK

KeenerGuy — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:13:33 -0000

Thanks Ashley. Looking forward to lobster fishing tonight. Are you guys still in?

Re: Win BenSpark.com Swag

KeenerGuy — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:20:28 -0000

I want to win the swag.
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Re: Who Wants To Be A "Who"?

KeenerGuy — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 17:01:52 -0000

We'll let you know. I am very excited about this!

Re: Oh Can It Be? Bob's Big Boy Opening August 9 in Orange, CA

KeenerGuy — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:02:43 -0000

Thanks for sharing that Deniene. That is very cool Bob's is turning 60. I feel another Big Boy post coming on.

By the way, how did you hear about my blog?

Re: Making Exercise Fun

KeenerGuy — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:46:19 -0000

LOL! Thanks for the correction. Others may have started wondering! ;-)

Re: Making Exercise Fun

KeenerGuy — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:45:33 -0000

Thanks for stopping by. How did you find out about my blog?

I appreciate the words of encouragement. They do help. I have a membership to 24 Hr Fitness and they have really good child care as well and I can use my membership wherever they have a club. I really like it.

I'll take a look at your give away. Thanks for sharing.

Re: I Am So Honored

KeenerGuy — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:28:32 -0000

I know. It is definitely making the rounds on Facebook right now.

I definitely echoes the way I feel since having met Jen.

Re: Finding Balance: Exercise

KeenerGuy — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:26:57 -0000

Thanks Kristy. I appreciate the kind words. Ask me how I am doing next week.

Re: Love and Dreams

KeenerGuy — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 12:29:49 -0000

Thanks Kelly. I guess that it's floating around all over the place right now, but it really struck a chord with me. It took me 33 years to find my wife and the last 4 1/2 years together have been so great.

Re: Love and Dreams

KeenerGuy — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 12:28:30 -0000

Thanks for the guest blogging spot on the Mom Blog!

One thing, you mention in my bio that the blog is Blue Collar Baby, but it should read Baby Blue Collar.

Re: Love and Dreams

KeenerGuy — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 10:33:25 -0000

No. It's Shane. Thanks.

Re: Love and Dreams

KeenerGuy — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 01:34:04 -0000

Suz,

Absolutely. I'd be honored.

Re: Have You Ever Tried Papa Murphy's Pizza?

KeenerGuy — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:15:26 -0000

Liz - Thanks for reading my blog. How did you find it? I am not familiar with Bellacino's. Where is it located? We live in Anaheim Hills and our current favorite pizza place is Porky's. - Shane