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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:54:48 -0000

Sometimes age isn't the only factor! You gotta take into consideration what kind of environment your child will be raised in, finances, the whole nine yards. And a child is a ton of work!

Don't be scared! You can't be responsible for other people's thoughts, you have to just be yourself, and the key thing here is you love him. If he's a good guy he'll respect that and love you just as much.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:51:45 -0000

Do the same thing, I read something and wonder if someone I know wrote that...

Re: 360035325

Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:50:47 -0000

Go to your parents, go to a doctor, go to a teacher. Talking to anyone about it will get the ball rolling in the right direction!!

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:50:00 -0000

Take a step back and be very fair about it.

Who's the one that instigates most of the fights? What normally causes them, is it something major?

Be realistic, of course when we argue we think we're right, but that's not always the case.

So think about that... If it's you, work on changing your attitude for a few weeks and see how things change. If it's him, tell him outright in a calm, patient voice.

And you can't be responsible for his happiness all the time. You should be happy together and with each other, but if you're not happy being with him, you sometimes have to do what's best for you. You can't self-sacrifice yourself and commit yourself to a lifetime for someone you don't truly care about.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:45:10 -0000

No one deserves getting hit. Especially not a lady. Especially not by a parent.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:41:05 -0000

Find something else in life that makes you feel good, or at least makes you feel some kind of emotion that makes you appreciate life more.

Try anything and everything.

For me it's music. For my friend it's rock climbing.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:41:04 -0000

This site looked like it was eating confessions last night. Maybe it's a glitch that's back?

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:40:26 -0000

I really feel the same way, sometimes I really think it would be nice to learn some of the people that go to this site better, but it's not easy to do.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:38:30 -0000

Don't pretend man. I was in this same situation, I had my suspicions but she always acted like she was really into me. And then I found out she had a boyfriend... When I confronted her about it, she asked me what she wanted me to do, if I wanted her to break up with him or what. I told her no, I wanted her to be happy. But even then we still talked about getting together after she dropped him and getting married. And it was just talk... I told her about how she made me feel, all those evenings when I was trying to spend time with her and all she could think about was being with her boyfriend, when I'd work with her on homework and then she'd go and take what we accomplished together to just give to some other guy...

We were both really upset for a while but we turned out to be fairly decent friends.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:33:06 -0000

Hooya pancakes.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:30:27 -0000

People seriously make other people feel so insignificant that they have to apologize for expression a very positive emotion?

Sounds like you moved on to greener pastures man.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:24:27 -0000

Nothin' wrong with that!! No one can ever use too much love!

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:20:44 -0000

Give him time, he'll come around if he really likes you and reailze you wanna hear those things.

In the meantime try to slow down with the other guys on the side, it might scare your crush off.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 00:16:38 -0000

Find someone else... nobody deserves to be controlled or forced to change to make someone happy. If you truly complemented eachother you'd be perfectly content with the other person and be able to trust them. Though I realize that's his issue and not yours, but that's the real philosophy. It's gotta mutual and you shouldn't have to hide things from him, especially not that you're going to hang out with friends or have a fun night out.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 00:14:36 -0000

Absolutely nothing stupid at all about joining the Navy, or any of the armed services for that matter.

But hey enjoy your trip.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 00:13:33 -0000

I've been in situations like that before. This girl broke up with her fiance of one year to be with me and two weeks later was telling me how much she loved me and wanted to marry me. That relationship didn't last long, for all sorts of reasons.

But the point is, of all the girls I miss, she's the least missed. So hopefully you get over this guy easily enough. It takes a while to recover but when you realize he's a dirtbag, wasn't worth your time, and isn't as great as your heart made him out to be, you'll feel a lot better.

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Jonny88 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 00:08:30 -0000

It's something I've thought about a lot too. My parents never said it but when people ask my birthday and realize how old my parents are, they always suggest I was a mistake. Great thing to tell someone.

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Jonny88 — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:28:58 -0000

Well, the people are usually responsible for the mess they find themselves in. The animals are the more vulnerable ones, they didn't have any choice, they were just thrown into the fray.

Caring more about the animals sounds more logical to me!!