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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for JLR</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/JLR/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/JLR/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 15:17:30 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: He Wants to Cum All Over Me!</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1243/HeWantstoCumAllOverMe.aspx#comment-7149914</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for your fresh perspective Adrian. As with many things in life, there is no one correct answer. xxoo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 15:17:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Contest Entry - Making an Angel</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1611/ContestEntryMakinganAngel.aspx#comment-6901271</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes Brian Crawford is a talented writer, we definitely love him around these parts. He can write the sweetest, sexiest AND the dirtiest, kinkiest stories. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 10:09:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Contest Entry - The Shirt</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1620/ContestEntryTheShirt.aspx#comment-6887717</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh my darling Kay Jaybee you never fail to thrill me...xxoo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 21:34:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Contest Entry - A Night on the Town</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1631/ContestEntryANightontheTown.aspx#comment-6745634</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Excellent commentary jessfreeborn! I would agree with your assessment. The sex in this story is hot, but for it to be truly erotic there needs to be a back story. We need to care whether or not the protagonist gets laid.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Keep up the good work Michele and thanks for your entry.&lt;br&gt;JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 12:21:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Contest Entry - The Hope</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1602/ContestEntryTheHope.aspx#comment-6712574</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Erin - I love your work, but this may be the BEST story of yours that I have ever read. Genius language, lots of heart and soul and very sexy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Hold the garlic may be three of the sweetest words in the English language, only because they foreshadow kissing of the deep, tonguing, gasping-for-breath variety. "&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 17:17:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sex Advice - My girlfriend is a disability devotee</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1600/Mygirlfriendisadisabilitydevotee.aspx#comment-6431116</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I want to add one more thing...not sure if this will help you or not. I've received  similar emails from women who are absolutely appalled to discover their boyfriends jerk off to vanilla porn.They experience similar reactions of insecurity and mistrust. Turns out a lot of us don't want to really know what goes on in our partner's sexual fantasies (or as Dr. Dick and I call it "The Nooky  Nooks")&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1562/Whydomenlikeporn.aspx&gt;" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1562/Whydomenlikeporn.aspx&gt;"&gt;http://oystersandchocolate....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 10:17:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Poetry - The Importance of Sexual Education</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Poetry/1588/TheImportanceofSexualEducation.aspx#comment-5837628</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This is so on point. Thank you Aimee!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 11:30:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Free Sex Advice - Pregnancy and "Safe" Sex</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1486/PregnancyandSafeSex.aspx#comment-5597413</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Sex during pregnancy is wonderful, sexy and fun. No need to abstain unless you are high risk and under orders from your doctor to do so.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 13:31:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Forty Days and Forty Nights Erotic Open Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx#comment-5493727</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Rosalie and all writers - we highly suggest that you sign up for our email list (&lt;a href="http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/ContactUs.aspx)" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/ContactUs.aspx)"&gt;http://www.oystersandchocol...&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When the contest kicks off we will be sending out an email to our subscribers with the titles of all 40 entries and links to them on the site. You can forward this email on to your friends and encourage them to read and rate your story.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The entries will all be posted simultaneously to the site and each story will be the FEATURE story for ONE of the 40 contest days.  At the end of the forty days and forty very sexy nights, the editors will then take the top ten highest rated stories, and select the final three winners. The more high ratings you get, the better your odds for winning!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:09:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Forty Days and Forty Nights Erotic Open Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx#comment-5493659</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Rosalie - the $4.95 was a shipping charge error (we made some changes in PayPal yesterday). We had to reconfigure the PayPal button and now it should be all set. We've refunded you the shipping charge - and fixed the problem for the future.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:05:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Forty Days and Forty Nights Erotic Open Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx#comment-4933581</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good luck Ellen! We look forward to reading your entry.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:28:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sex Advice Birth Control - Hi Dad!</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1553/HiDad.aspx#comment-4470460</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good for you Toni! It's great to know that there are men out there taking initiative and using condoms every time.  I would agree that those vending machine condoms are better than nothing, and I've seen a few vending machines that sell real Trojan condoms and other brand names. However the big unknown is whether they are old and stale or ready to use. The best bet is to have a few condoms stocked up from your local drug store. There is a site that we recently reviewed called &lt;a href="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1507/StylishSafeSexwithReadytwoGo.aspx" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1507/StylishSafeSexwithReadytwoGo.aspx"&gt;Ready Two Go&lt;/a&gt; and they offer classy chic condom holders which will prevent wallet damage. - a great way to practice safe sex on the go.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 19:08:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Oysters and Chocolate Erotic Anthology - Oysters &amp; Chocolate Anthology - PRESALE!</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1544/OystersChocolateAnthologyPRESALE.aspx#comment-4224843</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wooohoo! Finally sheesh. It takes forEVER to finish a book. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 12:13:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Best Erotica - A Technicality</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1534/ATechnicality.aspx#comment-3985115</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This is one of my FAVORITE erotic stories of all time. No joke.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 10:41:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Election Day Erotica - Erection Update 2008: Day of Decision</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1516/ErectionUpdate2008DayofDecision.aspx#comment-3572817</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yes, John Bredin is a politicalerotica genius in our eyes! And he made the correct prediction too! Off to fantasize about Obama...check you later. ;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 13:32:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Halloween Erotica - Arachnophilia</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1513/Arachnophilia.aspx#comment-3408793</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Crreeeeeeeepy!!! I like it. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 11:09:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Is Three a Crowd?</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1133/IsThreeaCrowd.aspx#comment-3179304</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Dear DB, I'm so sorry that you had such a terrible experience in your threesome. I've enjoyed group sex on more than one occasion, but I can never do it when I'm emotionally attached to anyone in the group (be it a boy or girlfriend).  It's definitely a recipe for jealousy and potential destruction of what was before a good relationship. I hope that you can clear your mind of these thoughts and move on. I think you need to be honest with your husband and let him know that it is difficult for you to process what happened that night - and that it is haunting you. You can and must tell him all of this in an honest, yet non-confrontational way. You need to let him know that this has been a failed experiment and that you are not open to any more threesomes. The worst thing would be for him to ask you to participate in another threesome without knowing your feelings on the matter and how the first one affected you. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:33:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Best Erotica - O&amp;C Take Out - Your Deepest Desire</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1500/OCTakeOutYourDeepestDesire.aspx#comment-3057090</link><description>&lt;p&gt;My deepest desire is to be utterly dominated by my lover. For him to push me beyond my usual sexual boundaries.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 22:17:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Best Erotica - O&amp;C Take Out - Your Deepest Desire</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1500/OCTakeOutYourDeepestDesire.aspx#comment-3057051</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Well I guess that's a start Lindyloo. ;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 22:13:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sexy Stories - Cinnamon Honey Bear</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1491/CinnamonHoneyBear.aspx#comment-2920157</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I absolutely adore this story. It is soooo sweet and has a lot of heart and soul. xoxo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:16:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Fiction Contest - Forty Days and Forty Nights Erotic Open Fiction Contest</title><link>http://oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1495/FortyDaysandFortyNightsEroticOpenFictionContest.aspx#comment-2903309</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good! :D :D This is going to be a fun one. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:43:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotica Writers Submissions - Deadline Extended- O&amp;C Erotic Anthology Submissions</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1351/DeadlineExtendedOCEroticAnthologySubmissions.aspx#comment-2903255</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Kissa,&lt;br&gt;Yes we finished sending out rejections and acceptances early last month. All writers in our submission queue were contacted. There have been some cases where submission correspondence was lost during our server outage last January. We apologize for any inconvenience! It was our ultimate nightmare. xxoo JLR&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:38:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Dominatrix Erotica - Can you Hear the Bells?</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Stories/1480/CanyouHeartheBells.aspx#comment-2422570</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I just ADORE the idea of a bride wearing dominatrix gear under her beautiful white wedding dress as she says her vows. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 10:08:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Teen Pregnancy - The Politics of Sex Education</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1473/ThePoliticsofSexEducation.aspx#comment-2406833</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Al, I would agree that education is the best approach to the problem of teen pregnancy. However I don't think there is any reason to educate a 5-year-old about anything sexual. As for a 9-year-old, the best policy is to answer questions honestly, yet with age appropriate verbiage (i.e. sex makes babies). Once in junior high and high school it's so very important for the child to have an open line of communication with parents (and if for some reason the parents are unavailable--communication with a responsible adult whether that be at school or even church) so that they can have their questions answered honestly and realistically. They need to be able to approach their budding sexuality responsibly. As a child of abstinence only "education" I can say candidly and fervently that IT DOES NOT WORK. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 16:09:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Erotic Discussion - O&amp;C Take Out - When is it Cheating?</title><link>http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Articles/1479/OCTakeOutWhenisitCheating.aspx#comment-2398659</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Flirting - Not Cheating&lt;br&gt;Fantasies - Not Cheating&lt;br&gt;Masturbation - Not Cheating&lt;br&gt;Kissing Women - Cheating! (Unless it's with stated permission)&lt;br&gt;Fucking Women - Cheating! (see above)&lt;br&gt;Kissing/Fucking Men - Cheating! (see above)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JLR</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 11:14:45 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>