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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for JJP</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/JJP/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/JJP/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 17 Aug 2019 17:00:19 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: US uber</title><link>https://downdetector.com/status/uber#comment-4582121645</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Keep getting a “Poor connection” and “no pricing” display. When I Ok it and try to get a ride it tells me the fare has expired and to resubmit my request. After several attempts to do so failed, I came here and saw that the L.A. area is having trouble. I really needed that ride, and now my Uber cash is useless to me. :-(&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Aug 2019 17:00:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shearwater steps into the space between wilderness and humanity</title><link>http://www.avclub.com/review/shearwater-steps-space-between-wilderness-and-huma-231119#comment-2474088297</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Meiburg's voice is beautiful live, and the band is seemingly more cohesive than on the studio release. Powerful performance all around, and super recommended. Catch them in a small venue if possible.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2016 15:37:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Recently found footage of John Belushi, Bill Murray &amp; Gilda Radner cutting it up a year before SNL | Dangerous Minds</title><link>http://dangerousminds.net/comments/recently_found_footage_of_john_belushi_bill_murray_gilda#comment-1797948569</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2015 00:48:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Recently found footage of John Belushi, Bill Murray &amp; Gilda Radner cutting it up a year before SNL | Dangerous Minds</title><link>http://dangerousminds.net/comments/recently_found_footage_of_john_belushi_bill_murray_gilda#comment-1797716128</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/cbc/posts/375357089302570" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="https://www.facebook.com/cbc/posts/375357089302570"&gt;https://www.facebook.com/cb...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here it is! Courtesy of Gary S. Bobroff on Facebook.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2015 23:35:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: My Picture Was Stolen And Turned Into A Fat-Shaming Anti-Feminist Meme On Facebook</title><link>http://www.xojane.com/issues/my-picture-was-stolen-and-turned-into-a-fat-shaming-anti-feminist-meme#comment-1011311916</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good on you! Your response outshines the stupidity of a million trollish memes.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 16:59:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Conservative Group Kills Candidate&amp;#039;s Samuel L. Jackson &amp;quot;Uncle Tom&amp;quot; Videos </title><link>http://www.motherjones.com/node/201786#comment-688687303</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The right wing has a simple approach to life. 1) If it's still attached to a woman via an umbilical cord, then they want to control it. 2) Once it's free of a woman's body, they don't much care about "it" (the child, or post-fetus), save insofar as they want to a) control it's learning/indoctrination/core-value-system, and b) want it to fight their war(s) once it comes of age (however it manages to do that*).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;*The right wing has discovered, of course, that a listless, impoverished body of young people desperate to escape penury can often be manipulated into joining the military if/when there's no draft to rely on or even while there is, so there's an additional reason for ensuring women must carry babies to term even as social programs are beaten into humiliating adventures in sustenance gathering.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2012 18:01:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Walter Kaufmann ist mein Held</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/24/kaufmann-and-rembrandt/#comment-76875833</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Kaufmann was an amazing thinker. I can think of few people as profound as he&lt;br&gt;was, whether he was discussing Nietzsche, existentialism, tragedy, religion,&lt;br&gt;or his own philosophy. I only wish I could have had him as a professor. Such&lt;br&gt;fortunate students he had! I wonder what he would make of our world today;&lt;br&gt;how would he view our culture, our society?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Sep 2010 03:32:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: This Mothers Day</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/10/this-mothers-day/#comment-13296359</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you so much! I appreciate that. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 19:16:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Comment Calamity? No. Not anymore.</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/15/comment-calamity-no-not-anymore/#comment-9460326</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yeah, I hear you. I think the main thing for me is breaking out of the box, you know? Throw a line out there to a bigger hub and create new connections. Comments are perfect for that; they are the "heart" of blogging, I think. The ability to blow up the walls between one's blog and the greater Web community of communities is fantastic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(PS: Funny that I never noticed the threading in WP. Something about the layout on my blog, perhaps. I dunno. Thanks for pointing it out.)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 20:12:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Comment Calamity? No. Not anymore.</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/15/comment-calamity-no-not-anymore/#comment-9445338</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi, Danny. Thanks for the comment. I really liked the ideas behind IntenseDebate, it seemed like a well-implemented system. I especially liked the idea of reputation points. I just couldn't abide with the disappearing comments. That really irked me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Disqus seems to have potential. The thing about the native comment system on WP is that it's insular. I know that there are changes coming to the native comment sys., so I'll be keeping my eye on it. Threading is a necessity for me, and WP would go a long way toward bettering the system if they at least implemented threading.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anyway, I am a strong believer in utilizing social media tools. I want to be able to throw lines out to the world to facilitate greater connectivity. I want to make discussions and debates more likely, and to do that I have to tie myself to things like Facebook, Twitter, FriendFeed and what-have-you. I will check out Typepad Connect. Eventually, I figure I'll hit on the right comment system for VWN. Of course, I'm hoping that Disqus is it. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 14:36:43 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Comment Calamity? No. Not anymore.</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/15/comment-calamity-no-not-anymore/#comment-9444965</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the comment, Rene. If Disqus doesn't lose any of the comments here, that will be a big plus all on its own.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 14:11:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: This Mothers Day</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/10/this-mothers-day/#comment-9378713</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you so much. ^_^ You're the pastor, innit? Elizabeth tweeted something you said recently.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 21:56:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378705</link><description>&lt;p&gt;[Note: I am re-posting this comment as it appears to have been borked somehow. Although the comment was preserved (in WP), it was not being displayed here for some reason, even though it initially did. I am beginning to feel less than pleased with IntenseDebate's system, as I believe at least one other comment has been lost altogether and the only apparent culprit is the new comment system I'm using. If you have not seen this comment until now, I apologize for the probable confusion w/r/t some of the second comment.]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hey, Brother! Thanks for taking the time to comment at such length! :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have to say, I am unsure what to do with the first three paragraphs here. I don't know any intelligent atheist who thinks it would be a good thing if belief disappeared overnight. And really, it's a rather bizarre hypothetical musing. It's like some inverted rapture! Lol... So, I am going to pass on further comment there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Richard Dawkins has in fact called himself a "&lt;a href="http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/1\/hi\/uk_politics\/7136682.stm" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/1\/hi\/uk_politics\/7136682.stm"&gt;Cultural Christian&lt;/a&gt;", and I think it's an important distinction. Christianity will, for ages to come I'd think, be a part of Western Culture (and be an influence on the thoughts of people the world over). Those of us born in this time and place are molded in an environment heavily influenced by Christianity, while those born in this time and some other place are so influenced by Islam or Hinduism or whatever. This is inescapable, and is not necessarily a bad thing. One doesn't want to throw out the bathwater with the baby Jesus, as it were.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As to our susceptibility to belief in the supernatural and our penchant for weaving it into our culture, I would suggest that false positives and confirmation bias are known traits that have to be dealt with as best as we can. We have a lot to learn about how these relate to the development of the human psyche and its ability to function in the world. As I've read elsewhere (no reference, I'm sorry to say), it's better for us to mistake a shadow for a deadly tiger than mistake the tiger for a harmless shadow. On the other hand, the person who jumps at every shadow has a problem, no?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Nor would I suggest that we do away with rituals or our quest for so-called higher states of mind. The neocortex is still a mystery-laden puzzle to us, and a great deal of research shall have to be done on it before we've any absolutely clear consensus on its capabilities, limitations and role. The temporal lobes, when stimulated, produce in many a sense of "not being alone", of there being "someone there". Some people feel that this presence is "God", others that it's some sentient &lt;i&gt;je ne sais quoi&lt;/i&gt;. What's interesting is how, in religious trance or deep meditation, the temporal lobes are activated while the parietal lobes "…appear to nearly shut down. The parietal lobes give us our sense of time and place. Without them, we may lose our sense of self" [&lt;a href="http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/horizon\/2003\/godonbrain.shtml" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/horizon\/2003\/godonbrain.shtml"&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;]. Clearly the brain operates this way for a reason, but sussing out that reason is going to take a lot of work. As you once said to me, evolution doesn't work toward perfection, it works toward what's good enough.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[To be continued.]&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 07:59:16 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378706</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I am not happy with the continued comparison to the Bush administration, which I'm sure was your intent. Personally, I find it a bit misguided. What "atheists tend to write"? I mainly read &lt;a href="http:\/\/www.daylightatheism.org\/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/www.daylightatheism.org\/"&gt;Daylight Atheism&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http:\/\/unreasonablefaith.com\/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/unreasonablefaith.com\/"&gt;Unreasonable Faith&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http:\/\/scienceblogs.com\/pharyngula\/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/scienceblogs.com\/pharyngula\/"&gt;Pharyngula&lt;/a&gt;, three blogs I find to be very useful for understanding the atheist perspective. I find myself to be especially in tune with the first of these. Ebon Muse has addressed a number of the issues you allude to here in the second part of your comment to me. He has done so more eloquently than I have done, I think. I am not here attempting to appeal to authority, I simply must give recognition to a better writer than I am. I have not read Dawkins' or Hitchens' books on the atheist perspective. I have read most of Dawkins' &lt;i&gt;The Ancestor's Tale&lt;/i&gt; (I was interrupted while reading it by life and have not yet been up to picking up where I left off). However, I've certainly read a good number of articles by Dawkins, and I have never heard him employ the language of war w/r/t atheism's future. Typically, I read certain fundamentalists using such language w/r/t infidels and unbelievers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As for atheist charities… I have to say that you have picked a fine cherry for your argument. Might I note that atheists do not tend to discriminate in their charities? Whatever gets the job done seems to be what works for atheists. You might want to check out the following, if you'd be so inclined: &lt;a href="http:\/\/techskeptic.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/atheist-charities.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/techskeptic.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/atheist-charities.html"&gt;Atheist/Secular Charities&lt;/a&gt; (eighteen general charities are listed right at the top, followed by many issue-specific charities). Also, &lt;a href="http:\/\/www.daylightatheism.org\/2007\/05\/atheist-charity.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http:\/\/www.daylightatheism.org\/2007\/05\/atheist-charity.html"&gt;Ebon has his own response&lt;/a&gt;. I would suggest that you might find these two links point to something a great deal more substantial than 100 books. Finally, I would like to note that back when my own money problems really were starting to bind me to the living-paycheck-to-paycheck model of American life, I managed to donate to the relief efforts for Hurricane Katrina. I did not, however, have any identifier on my check noting that I am an atheist or secular humanist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It seems to me that you, too, have done something. You helped those in need recently, even. Was it incognito? Would you not be willing to organize on behalf of those who are not religiously affiliated? Are you sure you were the only person there who doesn't believe in "God"? Don't you see that you have the answer to your questions: "Where is the atheists' sense of ethics and morals, and community, lived as clearly? Where is their belief that living a life committed to doing what is best for others is what gives meaning to their lives? And if you lack that, why would you expect that anyone would want to join you?" Where is your sense of ethics and morals, dear brother? Clearly you have them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It has in fact been my personal experience that in a predominantly religious environment, being open about one's disbelief is a fast-track to being ostracized or proselytized at. And while there are certainly those religious groups that do not attempt to convert those whom they're assisting, there are plenty of stories (from history to the modern day) of missionary zeal astonishing in its coldness toward the human rights of others. It is difficult to swim against the tide or the dominant flow of the river. It is difficult to always be told to "sit down, you're rocking the boat". It is difficult to regularly be told that the best thing you can do is be quiet, keep your unpopular ideas to yourself, and don't upset people by pointing out that the emperor has no clothes. It is difficult to try to find a new way in a world obsessed with the old and its preservation at all costs. Nevertheless, the atheists I know are making the effort for the good of all people. If they are a bit testy, it's from being assailed by those who are predisposed to thinking that no good can come from atheism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By the way, while I "let them figure it out for themselves" do I also let them (or their brethren) slip creationism/ID into the school curriculum? Do I let them discriminate against the LGBT community? Do I let them dictate public policy regarding sex education and a woman's right to choose when to get pregnant or terminate her pregnancy? Do I turn a blind eye when they decide to refuse someone treatment at a clinic or hospital?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 02:45:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: This Mothers Day</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/10/this-mothers-day/#comment-9378711</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for your very kind words. :-) [Eu sou muito satisfeito por sua bondade. Obrigado.]&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:19:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Day Off And So Forth</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/05/08/day-off-and-so-forth/#comment-9378708</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks so much, my friend. (Nice of you to drop by the ol' blog!) ^_^&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 16:22:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378702</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ah... Not a "church"... nor a "temple"; both words are firmly rooted in religious belief. My suggestion: an atheist Colloquium, taken in the Latin sense of "conversing", and in the academic sense of it being a place where "The audience is expected to ask questions and to evaluate the work presented" (source: Apple Dictionary).&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 00:34:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378700</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Rituals are an amazing thing. We create them for nearly everything, even when they are barest boned (say, when we make a point to go to Denny's restaurant on specific days, but it could be a Denny's in a different city or state). We ritualize birthdays and other anniversaries. We ritualize how we set up our homes when we move in. Etc. What makes religious rituals 'special' is their supposed grounding in the supernatural or the metaphysical; "God" makes religious rituals special or extraordinary.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Having attended a Universalist Unitarian church off and on--it being a place where you cannot guess exactly what anybody's particular belief will be--I can say that a sense of community, a sense of shared purpose, with rituals designed to bring people together for that community and purpose, is just as effective with or without any given belief. I think that people are naturally inclined to want to work together, to find and define purpose together. "God" seems really superfluous in the end, and I'd go so far as to say that it makes sense that "God" was merely added onto something that humans were already doing well before written history began.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our "future 'better way'" is in fact the oldest, natural way. If you teach the children well about the foundations of healthy cultures, about how societies best work, about how people have tirelessly worked to overcome conflicts and apparently intractable problems, then that is what children will grow up looking for in the world. Give a child a sense of wonder at the world; give that child too a desire to see people get along and improve their lives; give that child a full and secular education; give that child opportunities to practice the principles of kindness, compassion, caring and loving; give that child the tools and support s/he will need to overcome the adversity and trouble that naturally come along in a person's life; you will have in the end, most likely, a well-adjusted human being whose faith is in humanity (and secular humanism). Rituals will naturally evolve from this. Don't reverse,--&lt;i&gt;redirect&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As to the history to which I alluded vaguely, I do not have any longer post on that. I was extrapolating from what I've read and what I've learned over 42 years. A little research via Google should help flesh out the salient points for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks again for all your comments. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2009 21:28:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378698</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think that it is very difficult to gauge what we are capable of so long as we are so hampered by a culturally ingrained "belief". Children are not born believing in "God". It is possible that--in a totally primitive, insular and isolated setting--some form of belief in the supernatural would spontaneously develop. What is most certain, however, is that it would be unlike the belief of any other religion. You would not expect to see a belief in Krishna, Jesus, Mohamed,--or Attis or Ba'al for that matter. Any specific belief a child has is the product of indoctrination, either by the parents or by the larger social group, or in reaction to these*.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We know that a well-rounded, quality education today can undermine superstitions and irrational beliefs. (This is, of course, why so many fundagelicals want to homeschool their kids.) But there is more to it than that. There is a shift toward polarization in this country (and in other places around the world). If you go back half a century or more you find that beliefs were more general in their manifestation, more homogeneous in societal terms. Education was fairly robust then, as well. But people were not anywhere near so polarized. There was a national upsurge in religious affiliation brought about by the experiences of two World Wars. The groundwork was laid then for both great and terrible things, the fruit of a paradigm shift that dropped from the tree in the mid to late 1960s.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am not doing justice to the history here, and am running too far afield. My main point is that, in the end, the Information Age, the explosion of general access to vast amounts of knowledge via the Web, the breakthroughs in genetics, neurology, geology, ecology and other fields related to the theory of evolution and the modern synthesis, have all gone toward undermining the fundagelicals and mysticism generally. We have entered an age that in a de facto manner pits science against religion and superstition. Atheism is becoming a viable, sensible and solid alternative to the decaying position maintained by religion(s).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It seems to me that the possibly (but not necessarily) "positive influence" of the delusion in question is threatened not simply by atheism but by science itself (and so by education in light of science) because the delusion cannot well stand against them. The only recourse of the religious is either in radicalization or dilution, either of which is incapable of providing sustenance or nutrition to the possible "positive influence". That there is probably a better way to deal with the problem of religion I have little doubt. However, I am unsure about the timely arrival of that better way. Chemo must be employed until some better curative measure is practicable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* It is to be remembered that some beliefs may arise not as a reaction against some other set of beliefs but instead as a reaction to those who maintain them. For instance, a young person may ostensibly become Wiccan in response to her or his parents Christianity, but psychological analysis may well discover than in fact the new belief has primarily arisen due to the young person's need to differentiate her or himself from the parents. This is not to say that there is never a genuine conversion, but only to suggest that children do on occasion rebel, consciously or unconsciously, in such a way. I would further suggest that where a belief has arisen as a reaction against the holders of some other belief, the conversion will be less likely to stick; e.g., a child may well abandon Wicca and return to Christianity once her/his relationship with her/his parents has stabilized in a healthy manner.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 17:03:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378696</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the comment. :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Human beings are prone to confirmation bias and false positives. This is, on an animal level, potentially advantageous to us. It is better to mistake the shadow for a tiger than the tiger for a shadow. But the confirmation bias and weakness for false positives together serve superstition (how else explain the survival into this day and age of astrology?*). We really do need to show people a better way through better thinking. A solid general education, a firm grounding in "Critical Thinking", and the continued effort through the school years to instill in students a sense of wonder and excitement for/about the world; that, I think, would be the proper course.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* I believed in a vague form of astrology for a long time, coming up with all manner of excuses and justifications for it. Some things are hard to shake. I still feel embarrassed about the superstitions I harbored for so long. Becoming an atheist was, for me, like waking up from a dream during which I sleepwalked in public doing idiotic things. On waking, I knew who I was and knew what it was I had dreamed and what I had done while sleepwalking. It has been very difficult to shake the sense of embarrassment, even knowing that I wasn't awake and wasn't really responsible for my dream. ::shrug:: Ah, well, live and learn! ;-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 21:44:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378695</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Very close to my situation at home, so you have my condolences. It is a sticky wicket for us, I think. On the one hand, respect for someone, esp. a loved one, cannot be overestimated in its importance in a relationship. One simply cannot have a good relationship without it. On the other hand, self-worth and personal integrity are also of prime importance in a person's life. You have the right to be yourself, and anyone who, by whatever means, puts you in the position of having to curb or occult some aspect of who you are as an individual is, however unfortunately, putting up a wall between you both. Naturally, both observations apply to either person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My situation is not as bad as yours seems to be. My partner's beliefs are invested more in the value of her traditions than in the metaphysical or superstitious ideas behind them. But I have learned that it is a sore spot for her nonetheless. So, I tone down my usual outspokenness and keep my snarkier or more potentially offensive opinions to myself. This seems to be all right for me, psychologically, perhaps because I love partner "as is" and accept the differences as ultimately trivial matters in our life together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A "collective lack of faith in society"… A phrase that I think needs some reworking. What if we looked at it as a "collective lack of delusion"? What if we looked at it as a "collective desire to better grasp the real world"? What if "faith in society" was just that?—faith &lt;i&gt;in&lt;/i&gt; society? I think that humanism, the humanist philosophy, coupled with a robust and healthy education, could go a very long way toward solving the potential issues a loss of faith might engender. What do you think?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 21:03:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378692</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Far be it from me to wish pain on anyone who is not actively malevolent in the world. That being said, I have no compunction against sticking a pin into the "God" balloon if it happens to intrude into my life to the degree that it interferes with my personal, private, pursuit of happiness (or what have you; by whatever ethics-based definition). I am aware that some people may innocently/innocuously run roughshod through my orchids, and I try to take that into consideration, I really do, but—I am not going to assume a Buddha smile while they attempt to redefine the laws (literal laws, or of the "social contract" variety) to better support their delusional orientation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is simply our duty as ethical human beings to stop mollycoddling the religious when they are so clearly pursuing the overthrow of present day society in favor of revisiting the Bronze Age on us all. That John or Jane Doe isn't particularly political or even interested in what others do in their private lives does not exculpate him or her when clearly he or she is willing, however passively, to support fellow religionists who are in fact and practice particularly political and who are pointedly interested in what others do in their private lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have a co-worker who is Catholic. I will not say anything to hurt her feelings w/r/t "Good Friday", right? Right. But were she to come to me or say publicly that she's so glad the Pope is helping people in Africa I would be obliged to puncture that balloon in the name of all those people being misinformed (to possibly deadly effect) about contraceptive prophylactics.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 01:34:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Hazards of Confronting Believers</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/04/05/hazards-of-confronting-believers/#comment-9378690</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Well spoken, my friend, and I tend to agree with you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I do want to say this, however: If I have no heaven to look forward to, I also have no hell to fear; if I have given up the idea of immortality, I have also realized the importance of this life; if I have forsaken absolute morality, I have learned to truly consider ethics. My friend, I have not chosen pain,—I have acknowledged it. And having acknowledged it, I have given up the denial and placebos so that I might learn how to live with the pain that cannot be escaped, and to treat the pain that I experience.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 22:15:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: What if… I believed?</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/03/15/what-if-i-believed/#comment-9378688</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for the kind words.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I agree with you about reality being ultimately far more satisfying than any fantasy. It is an amazing thing to me that anyone would prefer just-so stories over something that he or she could actually prove beyond a reasonable doubt. Once the "softly spoken magic spell" has been broken and one's eyes have been opened, one gets off one's knees and finds it dumbfounding that one spent so much time thinking that there were angels and demons and gods and whatnot, when reality is so much grander and impressive and mind-blowing... and accessible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But of course we want from time to time to have that warm embrace of protection from the cold, cruel side of the world. I suppose the best we can do is to find it in healthy, loving relationships with other warm, living, real human beings.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 12:36:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: What if… I believed?</title><link>http://verywide.net/blog/2009/03/15/what-if-i-believed/#comment-9378686</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ah... Oh, goodness. I'm sorry about the difficulty. Thank you for toughing it out and leaving me such a nice comment.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JJP</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 23:01:37 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>