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Alana Joy — Thu, 10 Sep 2015 20:41:17 -0000

You are the rudest, most self-entitled troll I have experienced on the internet in years. I made it clear after your initial accusatory inquiry that I had told the truth but didn't want to share any more, and you pressed, huffed, puffed, and accused some more. Even today, 3 weeks later, came back on your own time to tell me I "cried wolf", when I absolutely did not, simply because I didn't want to answer your intrusive questions. 4 years ago, I chose to share what I was experiencing. I do not regret doing so. At the same time, I have since chosen, for reasons I do NOT need to indulge in a TOTAL STRANGER, to make the post private. Sharing my story does not mean I owe any piece of shit who is eating popcorn at the serious issues in my life who choses to drop by a FOUR YEAR OLD BLOG POST, explanations as to ANYTHING then or now. I didn't "cut and run" ass hole, I am still anywhere to be found online. I have just chosen, now that my child is older, to NOT share the rest of the story of MY LIFE. That is my right and YOU are a nut job for ALL of this. I don't CARE what you think about me: I never think about you. I don't even know who the hell you are. Stop wondering what's going on in my life and start wondering why you care so damn much that you've harassed me repeatedly for information you are not entitled to. I share what I want, where I want, how I want, with who I want. That doesn't mean I lied (accusation/insult), cried wolf (accusation/insult) - that doesn't make me ANYTHING but a human being who has the right to open and close the door to her world at ANY time. Your insults and inquiries in the tone you've taken all along are uncalled for, unwarranted, and obnoxious. Get help, and stop harassing me. It's pathetic you have nothing else to do with your time, and I will not be offering you another second of my own.

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Alana Joy — Thu, 10 Sep 2015 20:06:00 -0000

You are clearly obsessing over this, that you are back yet again to harass me some more. Listen, psycho: I owe you NO ANSWERS in regard to my life. You are bullying me into giving you answers I do NOT want to share. To get you to FUCK OFF AND LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE, what the HELL do you want to know, nut case? George IS her father. Shall I outline the details of our child support agreement for you, a TOTAL STRANGER? Shall I paint you a fucking vivid picture of the YEAR it took to get ANY support? Just fuck off and leave me alone. That you are continuing to re-visit this post with accusations, drama, and bull shit when I have CHOSEN TO BE MORE PRIVATE AT THIS POINT is INSANE and doesnt fucking mean I "cried wolf". Seriously, if you continue this harassment I will handle it accordingly. I have NOTHING WHATSOEVER to hide, I TOLD ZERO LIES, but I am not obligated to answer intrusive, accusatory questions about my life now for the rest of my life just because I did a blog post 4 years ago. Fuck off. Weird. Truly. Pay more attention to your own life, me and my daughter are fine.

Truly insane.

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Alana Joy — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 00:54:43 -0000

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:56:53 -0000

Bye Felicia.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:51:56 -0000

I was being perfectly polite until you called me suspicious. Move on. I won't be replying anymore.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:48:32 -0000

Fuck you. You come to a 3 year old post and call me suspicious for choosing to make it private. You tell me I "protest too much" for simply defending my right to decide what I want to share, or not. You imply I made the whole thing up... but that's all ok? WHY?? It isn't. Nor are you.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:47:36 -0000

How is making a 3 year old blog post private "pretending it never happened"??? I made it private BECAUSE I WANTED TO. That is as much explanation as I need to share with A STRANGER. You threw out the word "suspicious" and seem to be attacking me for literally no reason other than not jumping to your demand to catch you up on the past 3 years of my life. Who would WANT to when someone is taking that approach? Dude, just leave me alone. This is truly bizarre. Those who NEED to know what's gone on since then, do. You are NOT on the need to know list. I am entitled as a woman and mother to make a post public, private, or whatever. Without bowing to strangers demands, accusations, and insinuations.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:43:38 -0000

You are now trying to BULLY me into explaining my private life. It wont work. I lied about nothing, and have since chosen to not have this post public on the internet. Fuck off. YOU protest too much for a stranger so invested in my private life. Worry about yourself.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:41:02 -0000

Who the fuck do you think you are that I owe you an explanation as to my choices? I owe you shit. If I *want* to update people, that's my choice. If I want to just make the post private: also my choice. The word suspicious is accusatory, therein rude. Had you not been that way, maybe I'd choose to update you. But you don't "care", you're over here looking up 3 year old posts of a stranger and making accusations of "suspicion". Gross.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:39:13 -0000

I didn't lie about anything, I made a CHOICE to make my own personal blog post PRIVATE. I am not a public figure and I do not owe you or ANY total internet stranger any more or less information than that which I CHOOSE to share. I chose to post this at the time, I chose to make it private now. How weird is it for you to look up a 3 year old blog post and then question me and call me SUSPICIOUS for making it private?!?! How RUDE is that?!?! For you to spend the past month questioning me and calling ME "suspicious" is RUDE. Seriously, enough. BYE.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:28:30 -0000

I think it's "suspicious" that a total stranger is going back to blog posts from 3 years ago to tell me I'm "suspicious" for choosing to have made it private. Who ARE you anyway? Ugh. Piss off then.

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Alana Joy — Wed, 19 Aug 2015 13:27:49 -0000

Suspicious? That's really weird to say and out of bounds. My daughter is almost 3 years old. If I want to make a post private I am free to do so. This isn't the New York Times blog this is my personal tumblr. If that raises "suspicion" that's on your strange assumptions and projections. I am not obligated to keep a blog post up for all eternity or otherwise choose to explain why. Suspicious of what exactly? You're being kind of rude.

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Alana Joy — Thu, 23 Jul 2015 20:45:02 -0000

Because I chose to, why are you asking?

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Alana Joy — Mon, 06 Jan 2014 13:50:29 -0000

Can we talk about the fact that Uggs torture, mutilate, and skin alive the sheep in order for Giselle and the rest of Ugg-ly boot wearers to have "cozy" feet? How chic. K thanks, but no thanks. For shame.

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Alana Joy — Tue, 21 May 2013 14:05:01 -0000

Um, like... Math is hard.

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Alana Joy — Fri, 18 May 2012 17:47:14 -0000

This blog post is cheesy.

[seewhatididthere] ;)

Love it guys!

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Alana Joy — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 00:26:25 -0000

Thanks love. <3

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Alana Joy — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 23:15:11 -0000

I don't really feel right rallying for money, there are much more important causes out there for people (my particular favorite is freearts.org), however I just added a PayPal button to my blog (see lower left column) if anyone felt so inclined. :)

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Alana Joy — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 00:08:40 -0000

Thank you Resa.

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Alana Joy — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 00:08:17 -0000

Thank you so much for sharing this Kate. I saw your DM as well. When I have the wherewithal I will be taking you up on that!

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Alana Joy — Mon, 05 Mar 2012 12:14:22 -0000

Of course there is always his side, however I don't feel it would be appropriate or helpful in any way to post emails from him. Frankly though, what side could he have? What explanation could be reasonable for not contributing a penny towards care and preparations? I hope no one would think that he IS paying and I am just making this up? Not so much.

I agree, he is the one who will be missing out in the long run. It's admirable, the role you are playing in the life of your step-daughter. Good for you! Thanks for being supportive, I do appreciate it.

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Alana Joy — Mon, 05 Mar 2012 12:10:07 -0000

This was only partially about venting. Child support is not in the works until the child is born. One can't quite "let it go" when one is currently still dealing with lack of support in any way and facing mountains of expenses with at least 6-9 more months before I can hope to see a penny.

I don't think this baby is a mistake, I think his choices though, definitely are.

Thanks for being supportive. I appreciate it.

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Alana Joy — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 22:27:48 -0000

Aw thank you!! <3

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Alana Joy — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 16:16:22 -0000

Thanks. :)

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Alana Joy — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 15:10:01 -0000

You are allowed to bring ANY electronic device on a plane. No idea what you guys are talking about. I took this pic with my cellphone.